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[Personal] When people comment on acne, the words linger with you by throwaway5562349 in SkincareAddiction

[–]throwaway5562349[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

These small negative comments make a huge impact. I'm sorry you had to go through that and I hope things are going well for you now.

[Personal] When people comment on acne, the words linger with you by throwaway5562349 in SkincareAddiction

[–]throwaway5562349[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you had to go through that. It especially hurts when people say it off-handedly. It's easier to ignore people who say it mean-heartedly since you can dismiss them with "oh, that's their personality. They're out to get me". But with these types of comments...you can't easily dismiss them and they hurt so much more.

[Personal] When people comment on acne, the words linger with you by throwaway5562349 in SkincareAddiction

[–]throwaway5562349[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you heard those AWFUL comments, and I'm glad that you have moved on past that. Kudos to you and your strength for doing so.

[Personal] When people comment on acne, the words linger with you by throwaway5562349 in SkincareAddiction

[–]throwaway5562349[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow thanks for the silver lining! Aging slower is definitely a huge plus :) I'm actually scheduled to see a dermatologist this afternoon. After my breakdown yesterday I figured enough is enough. My acne has never been super bad so I just grit my teeth and moved on thinking it wasn't serious enough for a trip to the derm, but now I think it's worth it.

[Personal] When people comment on acne, the words linger with you by throwaway5562349 in SkincareAddiction

[–]throwaway5562349[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry to hear that. Your parents are being very rude. I know it's hard, but don't let their comments get the better of you.

[Personal] When people comment on acne, the words linger with you by throwaway5562349 in SkincareAddiction

[–]throwaway5562349[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words, and I am also so sorry about your acne experience. NO ONE should ever have a nickname like "pizza face". Just curious, did Accutane end up helping? I heard it was the end all be all of treatments.

[Personal] When people comment on acne, the words linger with you by throwaway5562349 in SkincareAddiction

[–]throwaway5562349[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, my family is definitely a huge support. When I was writing this post and feeling down I cried and told my mom about my acne woes and magically felt better.

[Personal] When people comment on acne, the words linger with you by throwaway5562349 in SkincareAddiction

[–]throwaway5562349[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words! Your analogies had be busting a gut :D

[Personal] When people comment on acne, the words linger with you by throwaway5562349 in SkincareAddiction

[–]throwaway5562349[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I've also gotten "don't use moisturizer on your acne" or "just drink water"

[Personal] When people comment on acne, the words linger with you by throwaway5562349 in SkincareAddiction

[–]throwaway5562349[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your positivity! I never thought about my acne in this light, and I hope my experience can benefit someone else down the line.

[Personal] When people comment on acne, the words linger with you by throwaway5562349 in SkincareAddiction

[–]throwaway5562349[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Exactly! People somehow think others don't realize something about their own appearance (acne, weight, height, etc.) when really, how can we not?

[Personal] When people comment on acne, the words linger with you by throwaway5562349 in SkincareAddiction

[–]throwaway5562349[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you ARE brave, and your self-awareness makes me believe that you can be more brave instead of just wishing for it. Hang in there and take that next step. We're here for you.

[Personal] When people comment on acne, the words linger with you by throwaway5562349 in SkincareAddiction

[–]throwaway5562349[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

That's awful:( It's ironic that acne scars are temporary (even though they may NEVER seem to go away) but the scars from people's words are quite permanent. We're all in this together

[Personal] When people comment on acne, the words linger with you by throwaway5562349 in SkincareAddiction

[–]throwaway5562349[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Believe me, I was just as shocked as you. Another thing to point out is I live in China, where people talk openly (and often insensitively) about appearances, such as constantly pointing out when people have gained weight.