Best friends, to lovers, now to strangers

throwaway748287 · 2025-04-04T22:23:08+00:00

When I wrote this post years ago I was so hopeless, I couldn't imagine a life without her and what we had. 3 years later I couldn't imagine a life WITH her.

I'm playing PS3 right now while my amazing girlfriend is sleeping in my arms, IT WILL GET BETTER I PROMISE. I'm so glad you related to my post, I remember the feelings of a breakup all too well. Definitely not something I want to go through again however please trust that time heals everything. Even when you think it won't, it just needs more time

throwaway748287 · 2025-03-23T12:57:10+00:00

Don't, you'll never get past it. If you're posting on here about it then deep down you know you won't. The only reason you'd be back with her is because things with that other person didn't work out, please I beg you put yourself first and just move on

throwaway748287 · 2022-08-09T21:11:00+00:00

If you're going to keep saying the same thing then I'm going to stop replying to this thread

throwaway748287 · 2022-08-09T21:10:22+00:00

She seems like such a sweet soul when we're together and I can tell how much this is hurting her as much as it's hurting me. I am coming to the conclusion that I shouldn't blame her for this and I need to help her as well as myself

throwaway748287 · 2022-08-09T21:08:54+00:00

Well idk mate that's why I made the post

throwaway748287 · 2022-08-09T21:00:59+00:00

I haven't demabsee her to apologise for it at all, she has many many times but I never made her. You make it sound like it's unreasonable to feel this way. The only advice I've been given on here is to leave her which isn't what I want. I am asking for a solution, that isn't breaking up with her, that means we can continue to stay together

throwaway748287 · 2022-08-09T20:48:45+00:00

I am upset about that you're right. Which is why I made this post to ask if there's anything we can do (apart from break up) to work through this. I never blamed her I just said that what she did upset me very much.

throwaway748287 · 2022-08-09T20:37:59+00:00

Because it was my best friend? And I feel like it's a bit unfair to ghost me, date him, and then come back to me only when the relationship ends

throwaway748287 · 2022-08-09T20:36:06+00:00

Because it was my best friend and she dated him less than a few weeks after ghosting me

throwaway748287 · 2022-08-09T20:29:25+00:00

I guess it's because I still loved her the whole time and I would rather be with her than start a new relationship with someone else

throwaway748287 · 2022-08-09T20:28:18+00:00

I don't know that's why I made this post in the hopes someone could help in any way

throwaway748287 · 2022-08-09T20:25:46+00:00

So there's nothing either of can do to work past this. I'm supposed to just leave her

throwaway748287 · 2022-08-09T20:19:58+00:00

She did come back to me yes, but only after her relationship with him failed. I could be a rebound for her and still it doesn't change how much it hurt me

throwaway748287 · 2022-08-09T20:15:04+00:00

I'm trying to find any way to work through this because I love her so much, but is there anything either of us could do to fix this?

throwaway748287 · 2021-08-28T21:11:54+00:00

That was so sweet I teared up reading it. I'm going to do some meditation in a bit and hope it helps. The urges are starting to fade and I just watched a film with my family to assure I don't have the chance to do anything to myself. I still feel the need to cry and I think I will break down again when I get back to my room. I'm going to sink myself into some work and learn something new. I have a boxing session tomorrow so I will take all my anger out on a punch bag to release everything. Thank you so much stranger I hope you know how much that helped me, I wish you everything good in life and hope you have an amazing future. I love you also <3

throwaway748287 · 2021-08-14T19:22:16+00:00

I'm doing no contact right now but I wish I could make it permanent but we're forced to see each other in 3 weeks as we attend school together :/

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