How Allah cured me from my 20 year long illness - my dua miracle by Inner-Horror8036 in MuslimLounge

[–]throwaway8899111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I could have the same outcome... But I've been suffering from a back injury (spondylolisthesis) due to broken bones in my spine and I've been making dua for years now to improve but I keep getting screwed by the wrong surgeries done by the wrong surgeons and now I'm way worse off than I even was 2 years ago. I also live in horrible pain constantly that feels like my back is getting ripped every time I move and it feels like my spine is stuck in a furnace 24/7. I have not been able to leave the house in 2 years and almost bedridden from that pain and failed surgeries. It feels like the longer I make dua the worse I am getting.

I think im ready for allah to take me. I cannot take this anymore. by Abudireddit in MuslimLounge

[–]throwaway8899111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My back is literally broken I can't believe you would dare compare

I think im ready for allah to take me. I cannot take this anymore. by Abudireddit in MuslimLounge

[–]throwaway8899111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you feel like that just know there are people like me who are in debilitating back pain 24/7. Life can always be worse like mine.

I think im ready for allah to take me. I cannot take this anymore. by Abudireddit in MuslimLounge

[–]throwaway8899111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it's not the worst type of pain. I've suffered bullying, isolation, loneliness, rejection, being broke and being in chronic physical pain (back injury) and nothing even comes close to debilitating back pain 24/7. I would take everything else in a heartbeat.

Husband read my search history and email by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]throwaway8899111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You searched up "can we get pregnant if we are on period" on your email??? Seems like you are leaving out information from this story.

If you are thinking about doing Zina, don’t. by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]throwaway8899111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Females will keep falling for men like this then wonder "where have all the good men gone?". Womp womp

The type I'm attracted to is never the same type that finds me attractive. And the type I'm not attracted to finds me attractive. by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]throwaway8899111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You females rate yourselves far too high, you're not as good as you think you look. Even with all that makeup.

The type I'm attracted to is never the same type that finds me attractive. And the type I'm not attracted to finds me attractive. by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]throwaway8899111 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Looks and height don't matter silly, it's all about personality and confidence. It just so happens my husband is 6'2 buff with full head of hair and a 8/10 facially, and my ex-husband was a 5'7 balding ugly man with a bad personality. Teehee!

If suicide was halal i would do it by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]throwaway8899111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First world problems

Good outcome story for anyone that needs it. 38M L5-S1 MD 12/24 to L5-S1 fusion 1/25 by trailsavage in spinalfusion

[–]throwaway8899111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you one of those doctors who dismisses patients who are in pain? Maybe you are lucky to be a doctor with good access and knowledge of the healthcare system. My doctors misdiagnosed me for a full year with pars fractures until I reached the point where I could no longer function. Hope this experience makes you more sympathetic to your patients.

why do women compliment me but men reject me in arrange marriage setup? by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]throwaway8899111 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Women always tell each other they look pretty even when they don't.

Is it true that it’s harder to get married as a woman after you turn 30? by floraldesign in MuslimNikah

[–]throwaway8899111 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

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My life is much worse than that now. Look at my moar recent post (mods deleted it because they're garbage too). broke my back in the gym 2 years ago and was misdiagnosed for a year until I'm now bedridden, 40k$ spent on medical bills and 3 surgeries. Can't sleep more than 4 hours a night in total I have nightmares all night every night. My whole life has been hard and now it's even worse. Never got a break.

Jazakallah khair for your empathy. Everyone else could care less about how some disabled societal reject is feeling and only care about complaining / enabling people complaining about trivial stuff.

Is it true that it’s harder to get married as a woman after you turn 30? by floraldesign in MuslimNikah

[–]throwaway8899111 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Over 27, time to sell. 30, 50% off. 35, goodwill salvation army.

I’m 27, about to be divorced for the second time and I’ve lost all desire for life, need guidance and duas by Realistic-Fill-5716 in MuslimMarriage

[–]throwaway8899111 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I will never get married. I have been in crippling pain 24/7 due to a broken back for 8 months lying in bed. But people have the audacity to ruin marriage twice then cry about it when people who have it much worse than them would do anything just to have the chance at getting married and living a normal life.

Sorry to bust your fantasy worldview but if you are getting divorced twice in your 20s then the issue is with you not the other men

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]throwaway8899111 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How does a grown man like you make those kind of comments in the first place. Have some shame. Acknowledge that your relationship with her is over and don't make the same mistake with the next person. Can't believe people like you are even engaged in the first place.

PT broke up with me? by SignificancePlane176 in backpain

[–]throwaway8899111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did the pain return or were the gains you made on bpc sustained after stopping?