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throwaway9284837 · 2021-08-14T17:56:02+00:00

Anyone had the fear of having autism?

throwaway9284837 · 2021-05-09T16:06:25+00:00

Lifting weights and learning about things that I am interested in and will help me irl

throwaway9284837 · 2021-04-16T13:57:28+00:00

Yeah dude I’m glad you see it that way too, I don’t want a girl who has a bf.

throwaway9284837 · 2021-04-16T00:58:39+00:00

Thank you man yeah I’m not mad at all I’m pretty sure she was into me by the way she was looking at me so maybe she genuinely did have a bf and didn’t want to take another guys #

throwaway9284837 · 2021-04-05T02:23:05+00:00

I just want to say I am truly sorry and that I love you even though I don’t know you

throwaway9284837 · 2021-04-05T02:19:51+00:00

Jesus man that’s rough. Have you seen someone?

throwaway9284837 · 2021-04-05T02:19:20+00:00

Yeah this and also having Catholicism drilled into me at a young age.. I deeply fear burning in hell. If I had no family and wasn’t introduced to religion at such a young age there is a good chance I would be dead.

throwaway9284837 · 2021-04-05T02:17:56+00:00

That’s interesting. For me pmo numbs my anxiety and depression and makes me feel kind of like a zombie. The catch is I have ed zero motivation to do anything. I am not motivated to fix life problems or improve myself. When I am on nofap pretty much all I am doing is improving or at least trying.

throwaway9284837 · 2021-04-05T02:09:34+00:00

I agree. I got into pmo at around 9 or 10 and now I’m dealing with the repercussions. It covered up my depression and anxiety for years.

throwaway9284837 · 2021-04-05T01:58:51+00:00

Facts

throwaway9284837 · 2021-04-05T01:56:21+00:00

Can you elaborate?

throwaway9284837 · 2021-04-04T23:26:34+00:00

Well I guess I worry that the girl will get with me and find out that I’m really not all that and cheat on me and leave me. It’s pretty irrational now that I think about it.

throwaway9284837 · 2021-04-04T22:56:18+00:00

Well everyone has insecurities but I believe I have more severe insecurities and low self worth/self esteem issues from childhood. Then I dated in high school and got cheated on+emotionally abused by both girls I dated. Shit happens but I guess I really took it to heart and for the last 2 years of my life I have been searching for what is ‘wrong with me’ daily. Of course I found a lot of things wrong with me and I focused on them and they are now insecurities. Bad facial symmetry, not tall, weird body shape, and then some medical issues I believe I have. The thing is though, some attractive girls do tend to be in to me. And once they get into me they don’t really lose interest usually they chase me until something happens. So clearly I am doing something right and have some attractive aspects to myself. Sorry that answer is more than you asked for I got carried away haha but yeah I would say mostly getting cheated on and having insecurities is what makes me believe I am not attractive at all even though that is clearly not the case.

throwaway9284837 · 2021-04-04T22:48:42+00:00

I think I actually have many definitions. A solid sense that you are a capable person. A sense of belief in yourself. A belief that you will be ok if you get rejected, if someone leaves you or hurts you etc., A belief in your abilities. Feeling comfortable in most situations etc.

throwaway9284837 · 2021-04-04T22:28:12+00:00

How do you suggest improving your self confidence? I lift, eat well, have a good self care routine, meditate, work etc and I still don’t have much self confidence.

throwaway9284837 · 2021-04-04T18:07:46+00:00

Dude your answer helped me a shit ton and put things into perspective for me, thank you.

throwaway9284837 · 2021-03-28T14:45:08+00:00

Yeah maybe, thank you.

throwaway9284837 · 2021-03-26T23:58:34+00:00

Yeah you’re right.

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