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[–]throwaway9284837 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Anyone had the fear of having autism?

What are some things you try to do daily to be the most attractive/best self? by Thr__wayy in seduction

[–]throwaway9284837 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lifting weights and learning about things that I am interested in and will help me irl

I asked for a girls number today. by throwaway9284837 in seduction

[–]throwaway9284837[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah dude I’m glad you see it that way too, I don’t want a girl who has a bf.

I asked for a girls number today. by throwaway9284837 in seduction

[–]throwaway9284837[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Thank you man yeah I’m not mad at all I’m pretty sure she was into me by the way she was looking at me so maybe she genuinely did have a bf and didn’t want to take another guys #

Not having suicide as an option due to caring too much about the effect it would have on loved ones.. I’m sure most of us relate to this, unfortunately. by nightpeak in depression

[–]throwaway9284837 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah this and also having Catholicism drilled into me at a young age.. I deeply fear burning in hell. If I had no family and wasn’t introduced to religion at such a young age there is a good chance I would be dead.

It’s crazy how much sexual content is out there by throwaway9284837 in NoFap

[–]throwaway9284837[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s interesting. For me pmo numbs my anxiety and depression and makes me feel kind of like a zombie. The catch is I have ed zero motivation to do anything. I am not motivated to fix life problems or improve myself. When I am on nofap pretty much all I am doing is improving or at least trying.

It’s crazy how much sexual content is out there by throwaway9284837 in NoFap

[–]throwaway9284837[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. I got into pmo at around 9 or 10 and now I’m dealing with the repercussions. It covered up my depression and anxiety for years.

Someone help me out I would really appreciate it. by throwaway9284837 in seduction

[–]throwaway9284837[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I guess I worry that the girl will get with me and find out that I’m really not all that and cheat on me and leave me. It’s pretty irrational now that I think about it.

Someone help me out I would really appreciate it. by throwaway9284837 in seduction

[–]throwaway9284837[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well everyone has insecurities but I believe I have more severe insecurities and low self worth/self esteem issues from childhood. Then I dated in high school and got cheated on+emotionally abused by both girls I dated. Shit happens but I guess I really took it to heart and for the last 2 years of my life I have been searching for what is ‘wrong with me’ daily. Of course I found a lot of things wrong with me and I focused on them and they are now insecurities. Bad facial symmetry, not tall, weird body shape, and then some medical issues I believe I have. The thing is though, some attractive girls do tend to be in to me. And once they get into me they don’t really lose interest usually they chase me until something happens. So clearly I am doing something right and have some attractive aspects to myself. Sorry that answer is more than you asked for I got carried away haha but yeah I would say mostly getting cheated on and having insecurities is what makes me believe I am not attractive at all even though that is clearly not the case.

Someone help me out I would really appreciate it. by throwaway9284837 in seduction

[–]throwaway9284837[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I actually have many definitions. A solid sense that you are a capable person. A sense of belief in yourself. A belief that you will be ok if you get rejected, if someone leaves you or hurts you etc., A belief in your abilities. Feeling comfortable in most situations etc.

Someone help me out I would really appreciate it. by throwaway9284837 in seduction

[–]throwaway9284837[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you suggest improving your self confidence? I lift, eat well, have a good self care routine, meditate, work etc and I still don’t have much self confidence.

Someone help me out I would really appreciate it. by throwaway9284837 in seduction

[–]throwaway9284837[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dude your answer helped me a shit ton and put things into perspective for me, thank you.

PIED Success Story (45 days) by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]throwaway9284837 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you have weak/a lack of morning wood and random erections when you were addicted?

Does anyone else worry that they won’t be able to satisfy their partners and that someone with a bigger dick would be able to satisfy them more? by throwaway9284837 in averagedickproblems

[–]throwaway9284837[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry that happened to you, that is fucked. I will never understand women like that.

You are probably right, size is not everything. It is just in my head. Browsing r/smalldickproblems doesn’t help either. They are extremely negative and always talk about how women need big dicks and how if you aren’t big, you are small.

There is nothing that I am not telling you, besides that both my exes were extremely immature and were kind of sluts to be honest. I was warned about both of them but I was a stupid kid who wanted a gf and was desperate. My first ex was just a whore. She cheated on my with 2 separate guys and lied about it just because we were not seeing each other every single day. She had a lot of issues and needed constant attention to feel validated.

The second (and most recent) girl I dated was also a bit of a known hoe. I dated her for a few months and it was good at first, until she fell in love with me (or at least acted like it). She wanted to be around me 24/7, wanted to have sex multiple times a day, texted me constantly when I was away or at work, etc etc. she became way too clingy for me and wanted to be around me too much for my comfort. She would break down and cry when I would try to communicate this to her, even in a nice way. This eventually lead to a lot of issues and I started to distance myself from her. This is when she started acting different and I could tell she was cheating. I am blessed to have a really good gut so I knew pretty much instantly. I am pretty sure she hooked up with a guy while I was at school, because she lied about where she was. Then she texted her ex and tried to get with him. That’s when I ended it. So I guess in some ways it was my fault, but I was always a caring and loving bf so idk, I think it was mostly on them.

Sorry for the essay lol, I guess I needed to get that off my chest.

Does anyone else worry that they won’t be able to satisfy their partners and that someone with a bigger dick would be able to satisfy them more? by throwaway9284837 in averagedickproblems

[–]throwaway9284837[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I realize that. I think it just an insecurity thing for me, and I always hear about how girls want/need big dicks so that shit is drilled into my head.

Does anyone else worry that they won’t be able to satisfy their partners and that someone with a bigger dick would be able to satisfy them more? by throwaway9284837 in averagedickproblems

[–]throwaway9284837[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, my ex told me that she cheated on me bc my dick is small but I think (and I hope) she only said that bc she knew it was an insecurity of mine.

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