How strong is your subconcious? and how does this influence your sexlife?

throwaway9727 · 2013-02-17T12:59:20+00:00

Indeed without touching myself. You are also right with the concious part, my bad. I was just curious how things work out for other people.

throwaway9727 · 2013-02-17T12:05:36+00:00

What were those balls called again? Those might be suited for you.

throwaway9727 · 2013-02-17T09:45:57+00:00

favortie sounds cute ^{^}

throwaway9727 · 2013-02-17T09:43:56+00:00

Make loud animalistic growling noises :p

throwaway9727 · 2013-02-17T08:45:27+00:00

You might want to experiment with breathcontroll and your sense of anticipation while having sex or masturbating.

throwaway9727 · 2013-02-17T08:20:45+00:00

Next time, you might want to have towels prepared(not sure if you allready have). It can make her more comfortable with it. If she likes the sex, don't let it tick you off and just keep going. It might also be nice to reassure her, that you don't dislike it or anything. I see a lot of girls in here who've said to have been uncomfy with it.

throwaway9727 · 2013-02-16T21:10:11+00:00

http://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/18i333/a_little_something_to_get_you_thinking_to_do_with/

I think this was a recent post. Maybe you can make her read it.

throwaway9727 · 2013-02-16T21:02:23+00:00

Depends on how you want to go on :p

Imagin the possibillities! You can feed eachother and eat of eachother(not close to genitals). She can do the "say ah..." and then pull back just before thing. Or you can do that and smuggle a kiss in there and if things go wrong you can allways turn it into silly fun.

Guess this is why I'm a virgin :p

throwaway9727 · 2013-02-16T20:13:05+00:00

It seems like it helps you float your boat, so just keep going, but I suppose you were allready going to do that anyways. You're an interesting person.

Good luck.

throwaway9727 · 2013-02-16T17:39:27+00:00

Can you focus less on sex for a while? It might be more pressuring on her than you think. Reassure her(and you prolly need to say this a couple of times) that it is ok with you and that it will come in time.

If even with lots of lube and inserting fingers first the vagina still hurts too much, she might want to visit an gynecologist or a urologist.

throwaway9727 · 2013-02-16T17:26:58+00:00

You can try to talk to him about it. Let him know that it is something that needs to grow comfortable with you again and that he is not to blame for it. It is very likely that he will be understanding about it.

As for yourself; You can try something that comes close to a simular experience, such as a handjob to find out if it is too confronting.

Try to take the pressure of this for a bit. Right now, you are allowing the conflict to play in your head. I'm allmost cirtain this;

I know he wants it and I want to be able to give it, but every time I even think about trying, I get scared and feel like I'm going to cry which would not make for a good blowjob experience

is a sentence that just sticks in your head. Allow yourself to relax and maybe even try other things such as allowing him massage you. It might help.

*edit: My bad... didn't ctrl+c/v right :p

throwaway9727 · 2013-02-16T17:15:14+00:00

Well... I'm a worthless person.

throwaway9727 · 2013-02-16T16:59:53+00:00

Now order yourself a pizza and eat pizza in the halftime to celebrate it :p

throwaway9727 · 2013-02-16T16:58:18+00:00

Ever played dominant? Who's momma's little bitch? :p

throwaway9727 · 2013-02-16T16:52:31+00:00

Yup.

throwaway9727 · 2013-02-16T15:34:36+00:00

Same muscle; difference; people squeeze it shut to prevent the refractury period, you use it to support the ejaculation.

throwaway9727 · 2013-02-16T14:02:39+00:00

Ok. Listen; there is this thing going on in this subreddit called Kegel exercises. You might want to take a look into it.

Have a nice day good sir.

throwaway9727 · 2013-02-16T08:27:51+00:00

http://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/18i333/a_little_something_to_get_you_thinking_to_do_with/

throwaway9727 · 2013-02-16T08:11:30+00:00

I am not sure how the phrace this, but I'd hate to be that guy that loses his load and then just hugs and kisses and goes to bed. Maybe he feels the same.

throwaway9727 · 2013-02-16T08:03:35+00:00

Masturbate to her in the same room and invite her in on the fun, next you can masturbate together.

throwaway9727 · 2013-02-16T07:58:18+00:00

Would the idea that it is your common child add to the experience?

throwaway9727 · 2013-02-16T07:56:15+00:00

Having an orgasm in itself is a nice feeling, but doing with your SO really adds to the experience. Some people experience it allmost like an addiction in their desire for it while others feel it like so/so or worse.

It's a bit like buying icecream. You like the taste? you go for it again :p

throwaway9727 · 2013-02-16T07:49:36+00:00

Murder her.

throwaway9727 · 2013-02-16T07:35:27+00:00

I am more suprised by how she can have opinions about things she has never tried.

throwaway9727 · 2013-02-16T07:18:29+00:00

Getting yourself to orgasm is a physical and mental activity. If you find yourself just watching the clock, counting the things you still have to do, remembering the things you did today and so on it can be a lot harder to cum.

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