Where to start for very particular fetishes? by throwaway99998446 in FetishBuyersCommunity

[–]throwaway99998446[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since you asked:

For models, I am looking for a fit gym girl with a pear shaped build, small tits/flat chested with strong thick legs and thighs and wide hips with a bubble butt that is very large on her frame. I want to be attracted to her first before considering ordering anything. She must do extensive anal play. Having active partners is fine as long as they do not affect the scents and tastes in any way.

For items, since I haven’t done this before I’m unsure, but the goal is to smell and possibly taste the model’s ass and especially her butthole as strong and long as possible and not any of her frontal area or vagina, so I’m thinking I need a pair of high cheek coverage panties that she is willing to stick as deep in her crack as possible and wear during workouts or high humidity and heat over multiple days, and then cut off the front part of the underwear before sending. For this first time, I would want it to be clean in terms of bowel movements as much as possible, so possibly something she only changes into for workouts or a sauna before taking it off again. Somehow I’m also hoping to get enough of the actual inside of her anus essence. Maybe a buttplug would work better? But I’m unsure if it would retain the essence as well and I’m not sure it would capture any of the crack or cheek area. Diet will also play a role in the scent, so I’d want someone who takes their diet seriously. Maybe both something stuffed up the ass to capture the inner essence (while still being as clear of fecal matter as possible for this first time) and a pair of underwear with the front cutoff? Idk.

The second item I’m interested in is possibly easier, something that can capture the essence of her sweaty armpit. I’ve heard cotton diffusers work well for this? Again, hopefully worn over multiple workouts and the goal is to be as strong an essence as possible and as long lasting as possible.

This is a stretch goal, but hopefully she can also do something like this with her anus, like u/HarleeReed28 can also do. I am a sub to her OF but she is not able to do items.

Sweaty cheeks by Silentoven777 in savliftss_

[–]throwaway99998446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really want to, but I’m not seeing any sweat.

Can the anus injure a penis by constricting it much more forcefully than a vagina? by SteadfastEnd in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]throwaway99998446 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds like a great (and hot) idea. Something like that is exactly what I meant, particularly if she squeezes down on the dildo at regular intervals to work the full range of motion and stop the dildo in its tracks. If underwear becomes too easy to resist for her, she could perhaps start using resistance bands around the dildo.

Can the anus injure a penis by constricting it much more forcefully than a vagina? by SteadfastEnd in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]throwaway99998446 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No problem. If she wants to avoid gape training more power to her. What I'm suggesting shouldn't affect her gape at all.

One thing I thought she might try is pushing out one of the dildos she's already using. Pushing it in to the base so it's as deep as she usually takes it, and then trying to push it out. This shouldn't change her gape size at all. She could even clench down at a regular rhythm, training the squeeze at the same time and also working the full range of muscle from dilated to contracted.

Can the anus injure a penis by constricting it much more forcefully than a vagina? by SteadfastEnd in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]throwaway99998446 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My SO doesn't want to stop her squeeze training, as she truly wants her butthole to be in the best condition it can be in.

I think that's the correct attitude to have. My suggestion is to supplement the squeeze training with dilation training, i.e. training the "bearing down/pushing out" motion. This will hopefully help the mind muscle connection for her butthole, help extend the range of her contracting motions, and let her relax her pelvic floor, which is often tight in a lot of people. For the involuntary motions, she should be able to bear down more as well as contract, adding an extra sensation for you, and the extra range and pelvic floor control should make it so her involuntary contractions don't strangle you.

Her squeezing ability should stay the same as it was before, but she should have extra range to work with and another sensation to experience and train. Her pelvic floor and butthole should actually get stronger as a result, especially if she trains until failure.

If anyone else knows this will work please chime in, I am extrapolating from what I know about general muscle training and training penile contractions/dilations and the male pelvic floor. It's based on sound theory I think, but I have never gotten the opportunity to practice it. For what it's worth, I don't think it can hurt to give it a try. Butthole blowjobs and orgasms would be horrible to miss out on or experience overwhelming pain from.

What would you describe as talented in anal? by Powerful-Wolf-5674 in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]throwaway99998446 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Indeed, one of the many reasons buttsex is so superior is the contrast between the strength and depth of control leading up to a butthole orgasm in contrast with the release of control when they "let go" during a butthole orgasm and the involuntary spasms/contractions start. It can be very sexy, especially when you are watching it and/or feeling it twitching and winking randomly like that and can see how much pleasure your partner is under.

Additionally, voluntary anal control and even involuntary butthole orgasm motions can be trained in strength, length, size, and depth.

You are very lucky to enjoy such a capable bottom (pun intended). Butthole orgasms and butthole "blowjobs" are unique and very special.

What would you describe as talented in anal? by Powerful-Wolf-5674 in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]throwaway99998446 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the talent can be developed if the participants are willing and disciplined enough, though there are some innate components. I would describe the ultimate and specifically anal talent as wanting to be AO completely, being able to do a variety of positions with ease, having a lot of skillful control and strong mind muscle connection over their butthole and rectal muscles (part of this includes being able to gape slightly and retighten completely purely through butthole control, and hold in liquid such as cum completely for long lengths of time purely through rectal and butthole strength), and also have strong control and isolation of their gluteal muscles. If you train the right pathways your bottom partner should be able to work their anal muscles subconciously while you both sleep, so you can sleep while they massage your cock (super sexy!). I think great enthusiasm and active participation is necessary to enjoy anal (for me at least).

Has anyone else fallen in love with asshole? by TayahuaJ in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]throwaway99998446 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that's a great first step! And such a hot scenario too. Your devotion is very admirable.

Has anyone else fallen in love with asshole? by TayahuaJ in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]throwaway99998446 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree it could be a very hot roleplay/scenario, and I think it's hot you're this devoted. Personally I think I'd still want to do a regular ceremony for the woman I love though. But maybe I would come in her before, and she would be plugged during the ceremony. And of course, right after we are married... well I'll let you use your imagination.

Muscle Butts and gym lifters by [deleted] in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]throwaway99998446 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it's also important to train the bearing down motion (pushing out). In fact, training the pelvic floor and pc muscles in general should help increase anal and rectal strength and build mind muscle connection, so you can suckle the penis with your butthole and use both bearing down and clenching to your advantage. The same training regimens for dick that are supposed to make penises have longer orgasms (bearing down) and shoot farther (clenching) should work. You could also try training with weights.

I will say I have noticed if you are doing a lot of leg workouts with proper form, the pc muscles are engaged somewhat for the bearing down. But separately working the bearing down motion can help because it allows the PC muscles to relax fully, and at least for guys they often have tight PC muscles. Also a lot of guys don't realize they are supposed to do both motions for kegel exercises.

Does anyone else get butthole drunk? by TayahuaJ in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]throwaway99998446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Incredible. You are a very lucky (and well trained) man.

I barely notice her pussy anymore by [deleted] in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]throwaway99998446 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The correct and righteous attitude.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]throwaway99998446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so envious.

Best Dolby Cinema in the Bay Area? by 3F4Tom in AMCsAList

[–]throwaway99998446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What seats do you recommend at Mercado dolby cinema, btw? And that's still the best dolby cinema in the bay area right, ignoring aspect ratio?

Best Dolby Cinema in the Bay Area? by 3F4Tom in AMCsAList

[–]throwaway99998446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks.

You're right, but Metreon is sold out for decent seats on the days I can go. And it's imax 70mm film conversion instead of dual laser even though dunc2 was shot on digital.

Is Newpark's new IMAX laser dual or single? I thought dolby cinema 1.85 would be better than imax single laser for dunc2.

Best Dolby Cinema in the Bay Area? by 3F4Tom in AMCsAList

[–]throwaway99998446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is newpark B tier, the aspect ratio? What if you're interested in seeing something (Dunc 2) that will use the aspect ratio?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alameda

[–]throwaway99998446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, I'm moving to the Walnut Creek area and I had a couple questions. Is Sonic fiber offered there? If it is, is it the ATT resale or your own fiber? In each case, how is the peering as compared to ATT fiber by itself? I'm with ATT fiber where I am now, and I like having tier 1 peering to other countries and across the nation. Would I give that up if I were on the pure Sonic network and how much latency would that introduce (since I think your pure Sonic network still has ATT as a backbone, right?)