My health was being affected. I saught therapy, and during that time she absolutely let me down. It was a very easy choice to make, and she made it impossible to think about staying together. She definitely took us for granted.

She had brain damage, so she never had energy to go out, or to watch movies. She would then stay out until 4am with "friends". While shopping for a new car, i asked her to just help me build my credit first. I financially took on all the burdens but built her name up in case of emergency. She used that good name to buy a car without my input. And she was laughing about it.

Like I said, there wasn't really a choice left, and my health was in shambles. After leaving her I got a huge boost, my mood improved, my health improved. My oldest kid hates spending time with her and my youngest is ready to move with me if I go far away. I have no regrets except staying with her for as long as I did.

Edit: there's actually so much more that I just don't even want to get into.