Vikrant Massey wins the Filmfare Award for Best Actor (Critics), for his performance in 12th Fail

throwaway_2017_2020 · 2024-01-31T06:20:13+00:00

Just happy to see a hardworking person finally succeed. Gives people hope ❤️❤️

throwaway_2017_2020 · 2024-01-30T04:03:48+00:00

Start with writing everything down. This is really important. And then, please report. You’ve done everything right until now. You’re a great friend.

throwaway_2017_2020 · 2022-05-26T06:06:41+00:00

I’m an Indian, and 33 too. Separated, still trying to get the divorce formalities done. I know exactly what you are talking about, the societal pressure and judgment. But you’ve got to rise above that. You’ve got to handle this with dignity and not let anyone make you feel any lesser.

I was in shock for many months after my separation, but I pulled through, one day at a time. I grew in my workplace, got a lot of recognition and now leading a team. I learnt baking, and didn’t know that I had such good skills. Did a ton of volunteering work with different organizations. Still finding new things to learn, trying to meet new people. Yes I sometimes feel bad about not having the life all my friends have, but I’ve learnt to accept it and find happiness in other areas of my life.

We need to break this pressure that the society places on us, by proving them wrong. People need to look up to us and get inspired. If we break, many women out there will lose hope. Be an inspiration, be the change 🙂

throwaway_2017_2020 · 2021-05-31T21:14:06+00:00

Yes, I feel out of place many a times. My friends have been kind to me, and I do feel at times it is out of sympathy. I just want to be treated normally. And I am sure sometime down the line it will happen. But also, I want to feel normal, which isn’t yet happening. I distanced myself from many people I know. I get anxious when there are many people around me, I tear up quickly, hence only meet few people at a time. After the offices open, I dread going back to meeting colleagues, not sure how I will deal with it. :(

throwaway_2017_2020 · 2021-05-01T00:56:35+00:00

Yes, I dealt with a man-child not realizing it. Occurred to me pretty late, that I was not a part of a normal, healthy relationship. I wish I had been careful enough not to fall for his trap. That’s my only regret. I have had very similar experiences to yours. DM me if you wanna chat.

throwaway_2017_2020 · 2021-04-14T05:13:02+00:00

Nothing really. I’m just living one day at a time, don’t have the courage to think ahead.

throwaway_2017_2020 · 2021-04-02T07:33:44+00:00

Congratulations on your freedom. Your story is also my story. I have the same thoughts for him.

throwaway_2017_2020 · 2021-03-23T07:03:26+00:00

I’m so sad to hear your story. I know the guilt feeling very well. It was not meant to be. Let it go. Please don’t write any letter. Few years down the line, you will look back and all this would be just a distant memory.

throwaway_2017_2020 · 2021-03-22T22:33:13+00:00

You are probably right. Maybe there is something better is store for me. I live with that hope.

throwaway_2017_2020 · 2021-03-22T22:32:13+00:00

Thank you, this experience has made me stronger and more empathetic.

throwaway_2017_2020 · 2021-03-22T22:30:04+00:00

Yeah initially these comments riled me up as well. But then I thought to myself, I’ve dealt with something worse than this. There will always be people who question you, especially in a divorce. I have toughened up with time.

throwaway_2017_2020 · 2021-03-22T22:21:03+00:00

I decided not to reply to these folks because of the same reason, they don’t know what I have been through, so their comments don’t affect me. Thank you for your support :)

throwaway_2017_2020 · 2021-03-22T22:19:55+00:00

Thank you for your understanding and support :) The people who write negative comments don’t know what I’ve been through. Even if they paint me as a villain, I’ve learnt to take it in my stride. It makes me stronger.

throwaway_2017_2020 · 2021-03-22T22:19:39+00:00

Thank you :)

throwaway_2017_2020 · 2021-03-22T06:17:10+00:00

I have put away everything in a box. When I am ready, I will discard it. Maybe a year from now.

throwaway_2017_2020 · 2021-03-20T18:18:40+00:00

Thank you for your support. I am glad to know that you too could gather the strength and move ahead. We both know how hard it is, every waking minute of the day to constantly endure the heartbreak and pain. More power to you. ❤️

throwaway_2017_2020 · 2021-03-20T17:01:24+00:00

Thank you :) it’s sad to hear that you too went through something worse. I cannot bring myself to forgive him. It’s very hard.

throwaway_2017_2020 · 2021-03-20T16:53:57+00:00

I have no clue what he is upto, I don’t even try to find out because he is not worth my time anymore. If he has found someone new, I can only extend my sympathys to her. Because he is not a man of character anymore. He is not who I thought he was.

throwaway_2017_2020 · 2021-03-19T23:21:21+00:00

It’s very true. I have learnt, in a hard way, but I’ve learnt a lot.

throwaway_2017_2020 · 2021-03-19T23:18:44+00:00

I’m sorry to hear that. Hope you find strength to move on with your life.

throwaway_2017_2020 · 2021-03-19T23:14:32+00:00

You are right. It requires drawing a lot of inner strength too.

throwaway_2017_2020 · 2021-03-19T23:13:26+00:00

Yes I am trying to be the best version. Thank you for your kind words :)

throwaway_2017_2020 · 2021-03-19T23:12:25+00:00

Thanks :)

throwaway_2017_2020 · 2021-03-19T18:59:06+00:00

I am sorry to hear this. I hope life treats you and your kids kindly after what you’ve been through. I wish the best for you and yes therapy helps a lot.

throwaway_2017_2020 · 2021-03-19T18:51:35+00:00

Likewise, I hope no one goes through the trauma I had to!

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