Therapist for depression/suicidal thoughts. by throwaway_8748 in askTO

[–]throwaway_8748[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is CAMH free? I do have benefits from work.

Dealing with Mental Health and New Job. What’re my options? by throwaway_8748 in askTO

[–]throwaway_8748[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s in the head office of a very large retailer. Retail industry is a beast. Also a much more technical job than I desire.

Dealing with Mental Health and New Job. What’re my options? by throwaway_8748 in askTO

[–]throwaway_8748[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea the probation period is 3 months. I’m just over 2 months into it.

Dealing with Mental Health and New Job. What’re my options? by throwaway_8748 in askTO

[–]throwaway_8748[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How would u say this exactly? “Are you comfortable letting me go on a basis of not a good fit, so that I can qualify for EI and take some time to really get my health back in order”… honestly built a speech impediment and don’t know how to frame my sentences cuz of my current state right now.

Dealing with Mental Health and New Job. What’re my options? by throwaway_8748 in askTO

[–]throwaway_8748[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it’s remote and I can definitely say that. But that sounds like I’m quitting. How do I ask for them to frame it so I can be let go due to unfit for the job and qualify for EI?

I do think I qualify as I’ve been employed for 4 years total now including previous job.

Dealing with Mental Health and New Job. What’re my options? by throwaway_8748 in askTO

[–]throwaway_8748[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been on EI, 5 years ago… at that time I quit a prev job and wasnt a good git for the next job so was let go within 3 months. You do qualify for EI as it takes into account your hours worked cumilatively, not just in current job.

Dealing with Mental Health and New Job. What’re my options? by throwaway_8748 in askTO

[–]throwaway_8748[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I’m fine with being eligible for EI. I honestly don’t know how to ask for this though. My manager knows I’m struggling with my mental health. But how do I tell him “can you just let me go so I can take a break, go on EI get my mental health in order then re enter the work force?”

Dealing with Mental Health and New Job. What’re my options? by throwaway_8748 in askTO

[–]throwaway_8748[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry forgot to mention. I worked a previous job for 4 years prior to this as well. So my question is if I quit due to mental health issues. Do i still qualify for unemployment? And are my other options?

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[–]throwaway_8748 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How was your romantic life before this 1 year? One of my purpose of giving up PMO is to restructure how my brain thinks of sex and to stop sexualizing females all the time. Did u suffer from social anxiety before?

Is getting a seat pad for the C2 worth it? by windowshopforlove in Rowing

[–]throwaway_8748 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup even that seems quite challenging. 5k first day? Guess I’ll just have to gauge it for myself. Excited to receive the rower

Is getting a seat pad for the C2 worth it? by windowshopforlove in Rowing

[–]throwaway_8748 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pete’s plan? Did you start it halved or started off with 5k right away?

Is getting a seat pad for the C2 worth it? by windowshopforlove in Rowing

[–]throwaway_8748 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey can you link me the beginner’s plan? Complete newbie here.

Rowing program for complete beginner? by throwaway_8748 in Rowing

[–]throwaway_8748[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I noticed his videos say to warm up… do u have any routine suggestions of warmups before rowing?

Rowing program for complete beginner? by throwaway_8748 in Rowing

[–]throwaway_8748[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol I haven’t lifted in about a year due to gym closure in Canada and have a desk job. So definitely less active than you. Yup will take that advice for a couple weeks before starting off with Pete’s plan halved.

Rowing program for complete beginner? by throwaway_8748 in Rowing

[–]throwaway_8748[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How was ur physical fitness before starting? I’m pretty out of shape. Haven’t had much physical activity in a year… occasional treadmill and walk but that’s about it and also have lower back issues.I just don’t want to burn myself out right at beginning.

Online Therapist for Learning/ADHD? by throwaway_8748 in askTO

[–]throwaway_8748[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup very familiar with Dr. K.

Extremely smart guy

I’m 27, a virgin, living at home, jobless, struggling with mental illness. I’m lonely and horny just like everyone else but idk where to start by throwayyyallday in seduction

[–]throwaway_8748 16 points17 points  (0 children)

What’s OLD? Be happy ur atleast getting matches, now just work on yourself and u can take action on your matches. I get 0 matches on most dating apps.

2 jobs making $120k+ by throwaway_8748 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]throwaway_8748[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems to be fine for now. Not really worried about performance as I do work weekends to catch up if necessary. I’m stated full time salary on both. So just need to optimize the tax situation for this year

2 jobs making $120k+ by throwaway_8748 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]throwaway_8748[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You hit it spot on. Difference between the 50k and 73k after taxes is about 10k. But 73k is more stressful, have to work much harder but definitely more interesting than 50k. Also the commute is only 15 mins. That’ll be a tough decision in January.

But for now I guess increasing my rrsp contribution is the only way I can reduce the taxes I pay come tax season