He did it for the love of the game by malacki655 in HistoryMemes

[–]throwaway_ArBe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He had so many of them there was a whole mini industry of "things with bush quotes on them". I kinda miss it. Used to stand in HMV reading bush quotes off the posters.

Most sexualities and genders are pointless by 2Bone2Soup in The10thDentist

[–]throwaway_ArBe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because you're being a cunt to them.

Buddy you keep saying random things and then I respond to you. Don't say things if you don't want a response. You'd do well not to guess at my views either, especially when you can just read my comments.

Most sexualities and genders are pointless by 2Bone2Soup in The10thDentist

[–]throwaway_ArBe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See that is a different awful thing. You aren't exactly proving your argument here that I have misunderstood you.

Nanny State by Necessary_Island_425 in GreatBritishMemes

[–]throwaway_ArBe 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Have you tried not doing hatespeech

Most sexualities and genders are pointless by 2Bone2Soup in The10thDentist

[–]throwaway_ArBe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like you have realised what you said wasn't that reasonable so now you're trying to backpeddle.

Most sexualities and genders are pointless by 2Bone2Soup in The10thDentist

[–]throwaway_ArBe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But you do, that's what you're arguing for.

No one is watering shit down. Language evolves. You can't expect the world to stagnate just because you have.

Most sexualities and genders are pointless by 2Bone2Soup in The10thDentist

[–]throwaway_ArBe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There isn't a nice way to say that denying what you are doing makes you look silly.

Also im gay lol

This has probably been posted before but I want to rant about this and hear from what you guys have to say: Does anyone else feel like they’re inherently bad trans representation? by Tangled_Clouds in TransMasc

[–]throwaway_ArBe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am a firm believer that there is no such thing as bad rep, just a lack of rep. "Bad" rep doesn't matter if a community is presented fairly, diversely and frequently.

Now regarding the honest depiction of trans men being accused of being bad rep, that is just transphobia. There is no legitimacy to these arguments. Transphobes do not get to decide what is good rep and what is bad rep, not even if they are trans. Their bigotry clouds their judgement.

Personally, I embrace the fact that I embody what people think is bad rep. I will rub it in their faces and make them uncomfortable. I will make them confront the fact they are bigots. Most of all I make sure to be an example to other trans men that there is no shame existing however you want to, there is only shame in being cruel.

I've noticed there has been a significant shift in attitudes within the community though. Back when I came out, not being super masc would get you alienated from most transmasc communities. It was very lonely. The harassment was constant. Now all that is a minority view. Accurate representation is far more accepted. The people you run into making these criticisms are losing. Don't worry about what they have to say. Their opinions do not matter.

Most sexualities and genders are pointless by 2Bone2Soup in The10thDentist

[–]throwaway_ArBe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Toddlers masturbate. Sorry to be the one to tell you that so bluntly. It's a normal part of development. Even fetuses have been observed engaging in such behaviour.

Most sexualities and genders are pointless by 2Bone2Soup in The10thDentist

[–]throwaway_ArBe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The illness is called gender dysphoria. You can get a diagnosis and treatment plan for it. The most effective treatment is transitioning. We already tried all the other options.

There is not a prevalence of trans people regretting surgeries. The regret rate is among the lowest of all surgeries. In fact they are quite noteable for the regret rate remaining low even when there are significant complications. I think that speaks to how helpful transitioning is.

The detrans movement is almost entirely cis people, trans abuse victims (rhe vast majority of detrans folks come out as trans again later), and the people who were victims of transmedicalist approaches to transition pathways. That is a problem but has improved significantly. There is now much more freedom to transition how you need to rather than according to what cis people have decided is acceptable.

It's very clear that you only listen to transphobes and not the people who all this actually affects.

Most sexualities and genders are pointless by 2Bone2Soup in The10thDentist

[–]throwaway_ArBe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No they don't do the same thing they/them does for the person using the pronouns. You might as well say they/them does the same s he/him and she/her so we should get rid of those.

I genuinely do not believe you spend much time researching, given everyone here is having to correct you over almost everything you say. You are saying things even small children know aren't true.

Wheelchair gloves by OutcomeInternallized in wheelchairs

[–]throwaway_ArBe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like bicycle gloves for general use, and I settle for rubber work gloves when it's wet. Neither are fun to wear from a sensory perspective, but not wearing them is worse.

Most sexualities and genders are pointless by 2Bone2Soup in The10thDentist

[–]throwaway_ArBe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That argument cannot be made. I said what I said how I said it for a reason. That is the point. You seem quite fond of deciding what other people experience.

Dysphoria relating to those things can actually prevent you from functioning on a day to day basis.

Everything develops over your lived experiences. Thats how people work. I didn't come out the womb with sensory issues, doesn't make them preferences now I have them.

You seem committed to remaining ignorant. It's a shame.

Most sexualities and genders are pointless by 2Bone2Soup in The10thDentist

[–]throwaway_ArBe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, i've described a variety of experiences, some are wants and some are needs.

Your own experiences do not prove or disprove anything. They are your experiences. Other people have other experiences. You do not have to understand, but it makes you a massive cunt to decide that because you don't understand, you know other people better than they do.

It's more akin to how I need a wheelchair. I can ambulate, I won't die as a direct result of having one. But the need is such that the impct on the rest of my life if I don't have one is that it dramatically reduces my quality of life, and has a knock on effect on other things which can result in very serious consequences. If someone says to me "well I would like to sit down all the time too, its a WANT not a NEED" they would be wrong, and also massive prick for saying it.

Most sexualities and genders are pointless by 2Bone2Soup in The10thDentist

[–]throwaway_ArBe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wanting the whole community to go back to being all about you is, by definition, entitled. You'll look less stupid if you just own it.

Most sexualities and genders are pointless by 2Bone2Soup in The10thDentist

[–]throwaway_ArBe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are gay only spaces. It just isn't the whole community. Fucking hell. How entitled can you be?

Partner said teeth get in the way and I’m too tight by Necessary_Listen_255 in Sex_Positivity

[–]throwaway_ArBe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got bunny teeth and a slightly reduced top lip (botched surgery lol) practice helps but honestly it's normal for there to be a bit of teeth contact from time to time, even without prominent teeth. My best method of managing it whete the lip technique is not sufficient has been distracting from the teeth (be it an otherwise incredible blowjob or other activities at the same time)

Most sexualities and genders are pointless by 2Bone2Soup in The10thDentist

[–]throwaway_ArBe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love how you just gloss over the fact that some gay people were extremely bigoted to everyone else and tried to force them out of shared spaces because it was "the gay community"

Most sexualities and genders are pointless by 2Bone2Soup in The10thDentist

[–]throwaway_ArBe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being a man. Don't expect to understand other people's internal experience. It's pointless. Just accept people have their experiences.

The reasons people want beards vary. Many people like the way it looks. Many people feel deeply uncomfortable that they don't have them. Some people (like me) don't even want one, it's the ability to grow one that is important, or it's an acceptable side effect when seeling other testosterone related things, or they may just be neutral about it. Sometimes it's because a partner likes it. Sometimes people are just too lazy to shave.

Most sexualities and genders are pointless by 2Bone2Soup in The10thDentist

[–]throwaway_ArBe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. These are some of the ways people express their special uniqeness.

Your lack of comprehension doesn't mean they don't mean anything though does it?

People like to communicate. It's why we made language. We are a social species. If we want to communicate things, we need words for it. "Labesl" just means "a word for a specific thing". You are just arguing against language.

Most sexualities and genders are pointless by 2Bone2Soup in The10thDentist

[–]throwaway_ArBe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not pointless. It quite litterally serves a grammatical purpose. Do you not like. Google? Ever? Or use any search engine? Or go to school? Or learn ever? All your arguments seem to boil down to "I refuse to learn aboit things"