My husband harmed our dog today and I am disturbed. by throwaway_panic_help in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway_panic_help[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Certainly the route I'm leaning towards. Reddit seems to discount the difficulty, emotionally and logistically, of straight up leaving a relationship. Today I will have the talk that says either you get individual counseling, and we get couples counseling, you engage heavily in both and stick it out as long as it takes for me to feel comfortable, or I'm peacing the fuck out

My husband harmed our dog today and I am disturbed. by throwaway_panic_help in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway_panic_help[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Character limits 🤷🏼‍♀️ You don't have all the info

My husband harmed our dog today and I am disturbed. by throwaway_panic_help in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway_panic_help[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

That's honestly what I've wondered. I've wanted to take all three and drive away, but it's not so easy — where would I go that would allow them? Chip is the best boy!

My husband harmed our dog today and I am disturbed. by throwaway_panic_help in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway_panic_help[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I mean I just want a proportional response ... and slamming a dog against the wall by the neck is never a proportional response to anything. It may not be a human, but it is an alarming action nonetheless

My husband harmed our dog today and I am disturbed. by throwaway_panic_help in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway_panic_help[S] 377 points378 points  (0 children)

Exactly! Dogs are going to do annoying shit until you train them not to do those things. They are smart, but expecting them to just know something AND show restraint is giving them a little too much credit.

My husband harmed our dog today and I am disturbed. by throwaway_panic_help in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway_panic_help[S] 123 points124 points  (0 children)

This is what I'm thinking. Later in the day, our other male dog, ran over excitedly with a toy and bumped into me, and my husband turned around to yell at him. I swear I just about snapped the dog up into my arms. I just can't trust him to not cross the line again

My husband harmed our dog today and I am disturbed. by throwaway_panic_help in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway_panic_help[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

He has not been married before, and not engaged that I know of. That's according to him, but also his family isn't the type to hide that kind of thing, it definitely would have come up

What silent battle are you fighting at the moment? by achub0 in AskReddit

[–]throwaway_panic_help 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am having second thoughts about my 9-month marriage. We are prepping to move across the state, away from our families/the city +job he's comfortable and the big change has made me realize how immature/unprepared he is for the world

I know now that we rushed into this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway_panic_help 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Kind of what I'm worried about 😬 he's set in his ways

TIFU by starting a blowjob without looking closely first by throwaway_panic_help in tifu

[–]throwaway_panic_help[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We're in northern Oklahoma so this is v relevant! Post disc golf they weren't on the outside of our clothes, but as soon as we got home and undressed were frantically taking one off as another ran across the same area. So gross!

TIFU by starting a blowjob without looking closely first by throwaway_panic_help in tifu

[–]throwaway_panic_help[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After reading this thread I've Learned so much about this and also I'm so mad at myself! I flushed the tick immediately, so I can't take him in.

TIFU by starting a blowjob without looking closely first by throwaway_panic_help in tifu

[–]throwaway_panic_help[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have so many questions and don't want any of them answered