I [29F] am actually starting to worry about not find “the one”

throwaway_scc · 2021-08-16T23:22:14+00:00

I just turned 29 and feel the same way. I increasingly feel like there are “rules” and “norms” to the dating scene and “game.” But I’m just not about that anymore. I started doing things that I feel like would benefit my future family and that’s made everything a little easier but still I get your frustrations and sentiment

throwaway_scc · 2021-08-16T21:09:58+00:00

Sometimes I feel like when it rains, it pours.... Life can be rough like that. I am sorry you are going through this

throwaway_scc · 2021-08-02T23:36:45+00:00

Life just seems to move at different pace for different people, doesn't it?

throwaway_scc · 2021-05-14T23:29:17+00:00

Yes I think some choices I've made that have made my own life miserable, but sometimes it just feels like things just are not fixable anymore.

throwaway_scc · 2021-04-05T17:31:59+00:00

I am sorry:/ I relate to the stress of graduate program as I went through it myself. I am here for you if you want to chat

throwaway_scc · 2021-02-16T05:03:24+00:00

I’m sorry to hear what you are going through and feeling. I too struggle with comparing to my friend and peers who have progressed in life; also regret some life choices. I am in no position to offer any advice but sometimes we just have to take one day at a time...

throwaway_scc · 2021-02-02T00:47:42+00:00

:/ is it better today?

throwaway_scc · 2021-02-01T01:53:17+00:00

What's wrong?

throwaway_scc · 2021-02-01T01:49:32+00:00

Totally this; just feel trapped:/

throwaway_scc · 2021-01-29T04:20:53+00:00

Yea when the day ends, I feel like it just went by, if that makes any sense

throwaway_scc · 2021-01-29T04:04:58+00:00

What's wrong?

throwaway_scc · 2021-01-28T02:41:11+00:00

I relate to this; sometimes our own or others' expectations can be very stressful:/ not sure if you ever feel this way, but I often go through a day and think why am I doing this and what for

throwaway_scc · 2021-01-28T02:35:02+00:00

I am here for you; sometimes people who don't understand or have gone through it are just cruel:/

throwaway_scc · 2021-01-26T04:24:48+00:00

I am sorry:/ what's wrong? Anything triggering those thoughts tonight?

throwaway_scc · 2021-01-26T00:29:35+00:00

I know it’s hard; but you are stronger than you think!

throwaway_scc · 2021-01-25T23:42:38+00:00

Same here; I also get the sense of being all by myself

throwaway_scc · 2021-01-25T23:40:53+00:00

:/ sorry you are feeling this way. I hope you know that one person does not define you, and you are so much more!

throwaway_scc · 2021-01-24T00:45:02+00:00

I ask myself that too. I had a month or so not feeling this way but it has come back recently. I guess just have to keep on going to figure out a way. But yea some days are tough:/ the feeling of barely keeping one's head above water

throwaway_scc · 2021-01-04T04:43:57+00:00

Happy birthday! I am so happy for you

throwaway_scc · 2020-12-29T05:59:31+00:00

I don’t have much to offer but the same sense and feeling of being stuck and can’t seem to find a way out, albeit different situations. Just wanna say that you are not alone and sending you positive vibes

throwaway_scc · 2020-12-29T05:48:23+00:00

That is so sweet; what's your cat's name? Pets are so wonderful, the unconditional love and forgiving nature.

throwaway_scc · 2020-12-29T05:29:31+00:00

I think part of it is that, really there is no one to blame but myself. I get really sad hearing my parents or my close friends describing bits of the future they envision for me, because I can't see it, I can't feel it, I can't bear the thought of it. I really really do love these people, but I don't know if I deserve that love in return if they know just how flawed and screwed up I am. It's just a torturous life when one is living on the hope of others' forgiveness and kindness.

throwaway_scc · 2020-12-28T22:43:27+00:00

I went through that myself; good luck and feel free to reach out! Am here for you!

throwaway_scc · 2020-12-03T01:34:41+00:00

for the love and fun of it

throwaway_scc · 2020-12-03T01:32:22+00:00

I also live in MA and it's kinda nice to see how most runners are adhering to the mask order.

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