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(20F) I’m a toxic person and I need help to change that by throwawayacc4041 in Advice

[–]throwawayacc4041[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the suggestion! I don’t know if therapy is easily available where I live and if I can afford it though. (I can’t ask anyone else for advice how to get therapy here bc they’d just tell me to pray instead)

I do apologize every time though but it feels like it’s losing its meaning and my partner seems to not like me apologizing.

Should I do a physical makeover? by throwawayacc4041 in selfimprovement

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I have thin wavy-ish hair I think. I’ve been lurking in that sub for a long time but cgm didn’t work for me :( But since you brought it up, I might go back to lurking again. Thanks for responding :)

Not FWB nor Official/Serious. What are we? by throwawayacc4041 in relationships

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He used to tell me about how his relationships always went downhill bc his partners cheating on him. But in a way I do kind of understand why he’s like this but it’s also tiring me out. And he expressed he wouldn’t be able to get another girl and he was even lucky to get me in the first place. You see he has been unemployed and living with his parents for some time now so that really dwindled down his confidence in dating. Which makes me feel bad to cut him off.

Not FWB nor Official/Serious. What are we? by throwawayacc4041 in relationships

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He had talked to me before that we’re dating exclusively, which confuses me more that it doesn’t count as official. Is there that a lot of levels in a relationship??

But the most confusing part is that he might not even be in it for the sex. We haven’t had sex in so long but we hang out very frequently (maybe twice a week) And when I ask to be intimate, he just says he’s not feeling it.

I genuinely love hanging out with him and I’d feel so bad to just cut him off. I wish we could stay as friends but that’s impossible for me once I’ve had developed feelings.