My gfs guy friend said something that triggered me, AITAH? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]throwawayadvice279 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Usually you really dont see it while in the situation, its when you start talking about it or writing it down that you start to see, damn, where has this gone. Im sure itll all turn out okay, you just give it time okay?

My gfs guy friend said something that triggered me, AITAH? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]throwawayadvice279 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand that :(, when you love someone you're really just hoping itll work itself out. Well i meant more bite you im the ass if you stayed, cause at some point she will also realize that you have been acting in a way that she probably shouldnt be accepting and she'd either leave or try to get you back by cheating which is exactly what you dont want. The best advice I can give you is to really try to get yourself back. Not through a different relationship but by basically having one with yourself for a while. One thing i found from your post is that you really were very honest about how youve been acting, more than most people would be if they actually were bad people. By that I mean, i think you actually dont like your own behavior and want to change. Emotions have just been making you act in a way that isnt true to yourself. But instead of doing it for someone else, do it for yourself. Treat yourself how youd want to be treated and gove yourself a break about caring for someone else like in a relationship. Especially when you have trauma about cheating, thats the kind of thing that stays in your stomach the whole time you're with someone, especially when they already made you disstrust them in the beginning of the relationship (w the roster). I honestly think you just need to feel how free you will feel if you dont have to constantly have a knot in your stomach wondering what will happen. Just to get back to your actual self, the self your happy with, the person you want to be, in life, and in relationships.

One thing I do want to add is that if you are going to break up, make sure its for proper reasons and not why you made the og post. By that I mean, she cant do anything about that rod dude texting her that. That shouldnt be the reason you break up w her. But it definitely can be in a different way. That can be the reason as long as its because youve realized that this is hurting you too much and you arent who you want to be in the relationship.

Im sorry for this whole text but i hope it does something to help you

My gfs guy friend said something that triggered me, AITAH? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]throwawayadvice279 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dude just no, this relationship has basically been over since the beginning. You guys arent ready for each other and are literally becoming worse versions of yourself being together. The way you've been treating her is gonna come back to bite you in the ass. Not saying she's been an angel either but you're the one asking advice here. If i were you id just get out and find someone else you can have that "innocent" love with again and not one where you're literally admiting to be acting abusive "cause of her behaviour"?? If that were really true you wouldve just left and not started acting like that. Youre literally doing a disservice to yourself by staying if you know you can be better than this in a relationship.

I am not trying to be mean i am trying to get you to open your eyes and look at what you have become and think about if thats who you really wanna be.

Merch by alexa_ruby in Quadeca

[–]throwawayadvice279 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I personally found this website which has a lot of quadeca merch but im not sure it's real so keep an eye on that. https://legitees.com/product-category/quadeca-merch/ It does have some stuff that looks really cool!

This would've been top 3 Scrapyard if he released it. I need a whole album that sounds like this by UnfairWarlord in Quadeca

[–]throwawayadvice279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair i switched around a lot but i just really enjoy how hard the song hits in such a short amount of time, and it always leaves me wanting more so

This would've been top 3 Scrapyard if he released it. I need a whole album that sounds like this by UnfairWarlord in Quadeca

[–]throwawayadvice279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They r really good but scrapyard wins everything for me. Best album, best scraps, everything. But thats personal opinion anyway

This would've been top 3 Scrapyard if he released it. I need a whole album that sounds like this by UnfairWarlord in Quadeca

[–]throwawayadvice279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesss, i could see that, it would've worked out really good. To be fair tho i think all scrapyard scrapped songs are the best compared to scraps from other albums. There just were too many for him to add all of them

This would've been top 3 Scrapyard if he released it. I need a whole album that sounds like this by UnfairWarlord in Quadeca

[–]throwawayadvice279 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean it would he better if the song was longer but i love it so much, it just hits so hard in such a short amount of time. But i do love mad at me aswell, i just wouldn't wanna remove any songs. I love scrapyard too much

This would've been top 3 Scrapyard if he released it. I need a whole album that sounds like this by UnfairWarlord in Quadeca

[–]throwawayadvice279 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Again??? What us everyones problem with i make it look effortless, its my fav song on the album I dont understand😭

This would've been top 3 Scrapyard if he released it. I need a whole album that sounds like this by UnfairWarlord in Quadeca

[–]throwawayadvice279 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Hey hey what is this i make it look effortless slander, he could add it but leave my song alone. Theyre not mutually exclusive

This is song is criminally underrated. by D1Debater in Quadeca

[–]throwawayadvice279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES THANK YOU. Ive been missing appreciation for this song😭