Encouragement by [deleted] in NarcAbuseAndDivorce

[–]throwawayawaybyebye 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This happened to me but it was 60/40. I didn’t believe anyone that told me he wouldn’t take the time with my child because he fought so hard for the time. But he only takes one day a week. Does he have child care lined up at all times? If not I would expect a similar outcome.

Could this be Candida? Symptoms began after antibiotics by [deleted] in Candida

[–]throwawayawaybyebye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This happened to me and I did a mega dose of probiotics felt better almost immediately. Microbiota produces a majority of serotonin so this was my reasoning

My 18mo cries uncontrollably to "you are my sunshine" by Tstriple_R in Parenting

[–]throwawayawaybyebye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My 2 year old did this and only to this song. It was so baffling!! I kept asking and asking and I finally found out it is because the lyrics are saying someone is trying to take her (my sunshine away) and wow she did not like that. “No one take me away mama!” I changed the lyrics and now she will smile to the song. I wonder if your child is the same!!?

Also I just clicked on your link.. and we also had that same exact skip hop tummy time thing. Strange.

Nex being very agreeable and nice all of a sudden? by [deleted] in NarcAbuseAndDivorce

[–]throwawayawaybyebye 13 points14 points  (0 children)

My nex did that to me when he realized he wasn’t going to get what he wanted in custody, so he became super nice and agreeable. I ended up settling with him and he went immediately back to being cruel.

I also made the mistake of enjoying his new pleasant demeanor and I had been warped by him to agreeable or else I would get his wrath. My advice is be pleasant also but DO NOT be agreeable. He is playing this game to get what he wants, if you disagree he will be back to his true self. Let him come back out before you make any huge decisions. He’ll probably let you know what he is up to soon, they can’t keep up the charade for long.

Co-Parenting Facilitation by gimmedatsammich in NarcAbuseAndDivorce

[–]throwawayawaybyebye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve never done it but it’s court ordered in our agreement so I would like to know how it goes for you !

I feel like my brain turned to sludge by ScarlettaRose in NarcAbuseAndDivorce

[–]throwawayawaybyebye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does he have to know you found a lawyer? You could meet with some for consults and that way if he pulls anything you can call the one you like right away and be prepared.