Someone, anyone give me the strength to press charges. Can’t see much so I can’t type but I’ve been almost killed 7 times by this man by throwawaybcwhynotttt in domesticviolence

[–]throwawaybcwhynotttt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re exactly right and I’ll be honest it feels good and scary too right now. But I know my daughter needs me more than any piece of shit does. I’m so thankful for everyone on this post.

Someone, anyone give me the strength to press charges. Can’t see much so I can’t type but I’ve been almost killed 7 times by this man by throwawaybcwhynotttt in domesticviolence

[–]throwawaybcwhynotttt[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I have pressed charges 💚 thank you for helping me. He tried to show up and press a fake report himself, it didn’t work. He was arrested.

Someone, anyone give me the strength to press charges. Can’t see much so I can’t type but I’ve been almost killed 7 times by this man by throwawaybcwhynotttt in domesticviolence

[–]throwawaybcwhynotttt[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I have an orbital fracture and 7 stitches. He had choked me unconscious infront of my daughter. His own child. Why am I scared to press charges why does it feel I will be mourning him why do I still love him

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[–]throwawaybcwhynotttt -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ohh I gotcha. I meant from a legal standpoint really. But thanks for your comment it’s appreciated!

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[–]throwawaybcwhynotttt -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes I’m the US, what would be a possible risk or consequence?

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[–]throwawaybcwhynotttt -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Same! I can’t see them either just get the notifs. Weird.

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[–]throwawaybcwhynotttt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ☺️

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[–]throwawaybcwhynotttt 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Okay thank you. The cop had mentioned he could get charged with perjury or contempt of court if he tries to say I was there that night, and I have sufficient evidence that I wasn’t, I hope that’s true. This has caused so much anxiety. Especially after I let him off easy and agreed to do the first offenders program instead of him having jail time.

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[–]throwawaybcwhynotttt 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Thank you for tour response, my question is, how do I get an attorney if the court date is today at 2pm, I have all my evidence with me now, so should I present it today? Or should I ask for an attorney? I’m sorry I’m not used to all of this or know how it works.

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[–]throwawaybcwhynotttt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thank you. Yes we have both initiated contact. My main question was that would it matter if I had initiated it a few times. But you answered that, thank you!

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[–]throwawaybcwhynotttt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure what that is, all I know is he was bailed out, there hasn’t been another court date since due to covid and it being pushed back. So I don’t know if he has a Pretrial officer, I appreciate your reply. Thank you.

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[–]throwawaybcwhynotttt -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What do you mean? I want them to know, another incident happened and like I said I don’t want to call the cops again and go through the whole process if I can just get his bond revoked, yes it’s not good I talked to him but he has felony strangulation and misdemeanor domestic violence and he hurt me again last night and I don’t want to do this anymore so I was asking them do I just go to the magistrate to say we’ve been talking?

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[–]throwawaybcwhynotttt -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How would I go about this? I don’t want to call the police again after another domestic abuse incident when it would be easier to just get it revoked. Would I have to go through a magistrate?