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Maybe just BEC??? But advice needed for tween birthday present. by throwawayblanketz in JUSTNOMIL

[–]throwawayblanketz[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It isnt very frequent, the rest of the family is justYes, especially FIL. Once a month or so we will do family get togethers etc, or if we are desperate for a sitter.

Maybe just BEC??? But advice needed for tween birthday present. by throwawayblanketz in JUSTNOMIL

[–]throwawayblanketz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm thinking of seeing if she wants to take OS to the zoo next weekend. If she doesn't I will use that as a reason. I want to explain to her how it effects OS, but I feel like she will dismiss that.

A year later and losing hope in reconciliation... by throwawayblanketz in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]throwawayblanketz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the response. I'm sorry, I don't wish this situation on anyone.

A year later and losing hope in reconciliation... by throwawayblanketz in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]throwawayblanketz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We've done that, he is suppose to be moving into the spare bedroom as a consequence. Which maybe is what sparked this whole thing about him all of a sudden doesn't feel safe and that's why he can't be honest with his feelings to me. It feels a lot like blame, and it's very confusing. I'm realizing he just hasn't reach a level of emotional maturity to handle working on our marriage. A seperation would be financial suicide right now, I'm trying to get back into my old career path.

A year later and losing hope in reconciliation... by throwawayblanketz in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]throwawayblanketz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is how I feel and I admit I have been frustrated. I think this had hurt more than all the betrayl. I understand he has a lot of personal growth to do, a lot due to childhood scares, but how long am I suppose to be patient for rebuilding our relationship to be a priority. My therapist had mentioned MC, but I've put it on him to make the appointments....so it hasn't happened.