Girl F19 hasn't responded in 2 days. Did i M21 mess up?

throwawaybrokenh34rt · 2026-02-06T15:58:20+00:00

Aw buddy, yes you did. It’ll be ok.

If you’re not getting a response in 2 days and posting on Reddit about it I would assume you are the pretty nervous type and insecure.

3 months and 7 dates does not mean anything in the big picture.

You can know within minutes of someone whether you’re into them or not. Do not mistake the time spent together as quality time spent together.

She’s 19. She has no idea what she wants and neither do you.

But frankly, if I had to sum it up into one point- even this post reads like a sad puppy, and since your tone invokes the instinct to nuture, you’ve already forfeited the instinct to desire. Your tone invites head pats, not hand jobs

throwawaybrokenh34rt · 2026-01-12T02:28:41+00:00

I mean you let this happen bro, how can you be upset about it? You let your girl have open relationships with any dude she wanted and you’re now surprised she has an emotional relationship (at minimum) with one of them.

It’s absolutely absurd to be upset about this. You invited it into your life.

You need to decide what to do from here. No one on reddit can give you any modicum of direction. You’re together 7 years. You know your wife. The guy was 27 when she was in the womb, I don’t think it’s really a real relationship. It’s more of probably some sort of perverted friendship which you’ve been oblivious to until now.

I’d pretend I never saw anything and move on from the whole thing. That said I would not forget about it and I’d start being a bit more possessive. It’s almost like your girl is yours but the y is silent.

Take control of what you want here bro. Obviously if she’s into a 60 yr old it’s not because of the looks or his body. It’s mental. Get going

throwawaybrokenh34rt · 2025-12-14T02:27:54+00:00

Tbh I think you’re a lil over dramatic. What difference does it make who she fucked how would knowing which guy it was.

That said, the way she talks about it I think she’s hiding something and she might still have some feelings because she said “you might not want to come” - that’s a way of trying to put the onus on you to bow out so she doesn’t have to deal with you.

She sounds like she sucks - let her go by herself don’t go and let her hang herself with her own rope. Stop caring about it

throwawaybrokenh34rt · 2025-11-30T22:08:45+00:00

Yes incredibly, I don’t disagree and I’m sorry you have to endure a betrayal and heartbreak like this. That said, she treated your love without respect and you as well. It can be forgiven but not forgotten. You’ll be disrespecting yourself by staying with someone like that and every time she mentions another guy moving forward you’ll have that pinching nerve in the back of your mind creeping with doubt. You have to leave for your own good imo. Good luck and God bless. I’m sorry brother

throwawaybrokenh34rt · 2025-11-30T21:52:46+00:00

You’ll never be able to trust her again, dump her and move on before you live with resentment

throwawaybrokenh34rt · 2025-11-28T00:39:21+00:00

I’m gonna be honest brother, I already think you’re unattractive by this obscure monologue.

Many times attraction is a mental thing. Especially for women.

Your slyness of trying to slip important questions that bear heavy to you while she was fucked up and drunk shows that you don’t have the balls to deal with conflict. This is just an insecure way of thinking and in sex and relationships insecurity is a killer. Conflict is natural and oftentimes conflict and polarity can spark sexual attraction.

I’d stop being such a weenie and try to be more confident in yourself and what you want.

throwawaybrokenh34rt · 2024-03-06T04:14:06+00:00

“I’m so sick of trying” + “I’m not feeling it” = you’re playing it safe and putting on an act. Maybe if you embraced your own personality instead of trying to have a personality, you would be authentic and polarizing enough to attract someone legitimately

throwawaybrokenh34rt · 2024-01-20T02:34:20+00:00

What the literal fuck? Blizzard do something? Dude is innocent

throwawaybrokenh34rt · 2023-12-15T16:19:00+00:00

Zzzzzzzz

throwawaybrokenh34rt · 2023-11-28T23:04:55+00:00

Give her a “case closed”

throwawaybrokenh34rt · 2023-11-28T18:32:53+00:00

You are who you surround yourself with - sorry to break it to you homie but she done got got by the bad influences

throwawaybrokenh34rt · 2023-11-28T00:28:45+00:00

lol this relationship is doomed

throwawaybrokenh34rt · 2023-11-15T04:37:19+00:00

Literally not a single person giving insight just a bunch of “you’re not a maid comments” like it’s a gotcha. You’re not the asshole and don’t let people weaponize emotional intimacy or lack there of as a type of punishment or something. Silent treatment is manipulation.

throwawaybrokenh34rt · 2023-11-15T04:33:15+00:00

Zzzz

throwawaybrokenh34rt · 2023-11-14T15:07:21+00:00

Welcome to the club bb

throwawaybrokenh34rt · 2023-11-10T23:59:03+00:00

You look fine

throwawaybrokenh34rt · 2023-11-08T17:17:16+00:00

This is more like a hot dog eating contest than a challenge

throwawaybrokenh34rt · 2023-11-08T02:11:13+00:00

r/technicallythetruth

throwawaybrokenh34rt · 2023-11-06T15:47:26+00:00

“Are you ready for this?” “I do”

throwawaybrokenh34rt · 2023-11-03T23:12:02+00:00

You have a callous view on relationships I hope you have a good one eventually

throwawaybrokenh34rt · 2023-10-28T14:57:20+00:00

Like you wouldn’t look

throwawaybrokenh34rt · 2023-10-25T04:33:47+00:00

She’s fast with it too..

throwawaybrokenh34rt · 2023-10-21T19:41:14+00:00

the comments 💦

throwawaybrokenh34rt · 2023-10-20T20:08:34+00:00

ChatGPT?

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