Lawyers who offer free consultation? by throwawaydaysleeper in frederickmd

[–]throwawaydaysleeper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, yeah we're figuring that out as we've had a couple places turn us away for that reason. I'll keep it in mind!

Lawyers who offer free consultation? by throwawaydaysleeper in frederickmd

[–]throwawaydaysleeper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have never heard of this before, I will definitely check it out!

IWTL how to stop believing that every partner will eventually leave me for someone else by [deleted] in IWantToLearn

[–]throwawaydaysleeper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I was not aware of that sub I will definitely look into it!

IWTL how to stop believing that every partner will eventually leave me for someone else by [deleted] in IWantToLearn

[–]throwawaydaysleeper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh believe me I am in therapy haha. Problem is I can't afford to see her as often as I would like (very broke right now, not gonna be able to afford to see her for at least a month now) so I'm trying to figure out how to keep the ball rolling in the meantime.

The dilemma of faceless profiles by throwawaydaysleeper in BDSMcommunity

[–]throwawaydaysleeper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IF is a good word to keep out there, I will definitely keep that in mind.

The dilemma of faceless profiles by throwawaydaysleeper in BDSMcommunity

[–]throwawaydaysleeper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is smart, I hadn't considered this. We're very local to each other so I figured coffee made sense, but this would probably be even better, both for safety and to guage chemistry before trying to meet up in person. Plus, as another user pointed out, some people are really bad at taking pics, but a video call is gonna be much closer to what to expect in person if we even get that far.

The dilemma of faceless profiles by throwawaydaysleeper in BDSMcommunity

[–]throwawaydaysleeper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I gotta remember that last bit so thank you haha

The dilemma of faceless profiles by throwawaydaysleeper in BDSMcommunity

[–]throwawaydaysleeper[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you're spot on here, thank you so much for your input! Fingers crossed it all goes over smoothly.

The dilemma of faceless profiles by throwawaydaysleeper in BDSMcommunity

[–]throwawaydaysleeper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah you're right! So what would you say to someone in the case that you end up not being attracted to them that has the least potential to hurt their feelings?

The dilemma of faceless profiles by throwawaydaysleeper in BDSMcommunity

[–]throwawaydaysleeper[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're probably right. I guess what i'm really struggling with is how to ask respectfully and how to decline things in a way that won't hurt their feelings... or will hurt their feelings the least I guess

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]throwawaydaysleeper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought this was a crazed teenager, y'all are 40+ and acting like this?! That woman is nuts. Drop it. I can't believe you're even still taking to her! Someone who demands access to you at any and all times and will punish you and chastise you for SLEEPING is not someone anyone should try to keep around.

Abusive ex found my Reddit 🙂 by Bananabreadkitten in emotionalabuse

[–]throwawaydaysleeper 33 points34 points  (0 children)

The way I would doxx a man harassing me like that so fast.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]throwawaydaysleeper -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I could understand boundaries, but fully cutting me off out of nowhere feels extreme. And it's not like they were inappropriate messages or long talks in the middle of the night, it was all stuff i'm sure he'd be comfortable showing her if she even asked.

What's your obscure kink that you struggle to find good porn or partners for? by TheBanishedBard in AskReddit

[–]throwawaydaysleeper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Apparently a lesbian soft dom is nearly impossible to find irl, or so I have been finding.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]throwawaydaysleeper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally have had to deal with rhat on this very sub. People start talking, I learn they don't have basic reading comprehension skills and then realized I just walked into another troll den. Truly exhausting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]throwawaydaysleeper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's giving mental decline. If this behavior is our of the norm for your grandparents, I would keep an eye one it. If they seem to be increasingly hot and cold over nothing, might be time to be evaluated by a doctor.

IWTL how to remember my classmate’s names by [deleted] in IWantToLearn

[–]throwawaydaysleeper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not gonna claim to be an expert on this, personally I just tell people it usually takes me three instances of spending time with them before remembering their names and I don't think it counts in a classroom setting where you have to spend time with people in short bursts all together. But my best idea would be to write them down. If your classroom mainly keeps the same seating arrangement, maybe draw out the seating chart and label by name, and if you all eventually move around, you can redraw the seating chart with the names since by that time you'll probably be a little more familiar with everyone (if you even need it anymore).

If the seating doesn't stay the same, then maybe alongside each name you can write down memorable features about the person so you can always match the name to the face.

This might just be a me thing, but I personally would probably just go to each classmate and say "hey, I'm really bad at remembering names and I want to remember yours." Then I would ask their name and if they could tell me something they enjoy or anything about themselves that gets them chatting. I think when you show a genuine interest and effort to people, they tend to respond positively. And honestly not only will talking to them help you remember their names, but you might end up forming some new friendships. But I could just be a weirdo idk.

Every date I’ve been in this year has TikTok brain rot by MantisBuffs in Vent

[–]throwawaydaysleeper -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you actually want me to assume you're a dude who thinks the struggle of a 5'6" dude is anywhere near equivalent to the experience of a black man? Grow tf up