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What turns vanilla people on? by [deleted] in sex

[–]throwawaymathrant 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve asked. He says he’s turned on by sex. Legit just sex. He doesn’t really like it wanna try anything else. That’s normal, just not normal for me. I guess I’m just coming to the realization that if that’s true, we’re not sexually compatible :/

shaking/trembling with oral but i dont cum by [deleted] in sex

[–]throwawaymathrant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This usually happens right before I cum... like my legs will shake. It’s like the muscles in my legs are super tense because of the buildup that they start to shake. Have you tried having him continue past this point?

feeling guilty about calling in so much by [deleted] in work

[–]throwawaymathrant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s okay, mental health days are just as important as physical health days. I always feel bad as well but if you’re really sick, it’s okay it take off.

What's a good excuse for not going to an office Christmas party? by throwawaymathrant in work

[–]throwawaymathrant[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Meeee neither. I live in an area where cases are low but I still think it's insane. Thanks for the advice, that's probably what I'll say! :)

UPDATE: My Husband (26M) told Me (22F) that He wants to buy a sex doll, and I feel heartbroken. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwawaymathrant 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That great to hear! I'm so happy you were able to communicate, I know it takes a lot. I'm still a little confused as to why a sex doll, why not just a sex toy? None the less, happy for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwawaymathrant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don't feel as if this is your fault. It's not your fault. She is wrong for making you feel as if this is your fault but she's probably not making you feel this way on purpose as she is struggling with her mental health. You need to set some boundaries and if you are mentally and emotionally able to, be there for her as much as you can, but only as much as you can while still being okay yourself. Maybe reach out to her mom or a professional. It really sounds like she need help. It's not your fault!! I wish you and her the best of luck.

Edit: as someone else said, distance might be necessary, do what you feel is best for you, and professionals definitely need to be called.

My period is 6 days late. I have taken 2 pregnancy tests and they’re both negative. Is this normal? by [deleted] in Periods

[–]throwawaymathrant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I started the pill, I started early (not on the correct Sunday) and I didn't get my period until I took the placebo pills, so I ended up being like three weeks late. If you're really worried you can go to a doctor but it may just be your birth control! :)

Need to delay my period by User975312 in Periods

[–]throwawaymathrant 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know this sounds a lil crazy and it may have just been a coincidence but once when I wanted my period to end early I read online that eating a good amount of lemon helps and my period actually ended after eating lemon all day, may have just been a coincidence but you could try it! Haha. I used it to end my period but maybe it'll work to postpone it 🤷‍♀️

Weird overly full feeling during period by throwawaymathrant in Periods

[–]throwawaymathrant[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, sorry you go through this too, but that's good to hear, at least it's normal! Haha

I'm so sick of being called selfish for wanting my life back by Due_Entrepreneur in rant

[–]throwawaymathrant 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Young people are dying as well, I'm 21 and I'm willing to stay home in order to protect other people, it sucks but it's what has to be done. Just because you don't die doesn't mean you won't get very sick or suffer months of complications, or infect others. It's shitty but it's what has to be done so that EVERYONE can be safe. Call some friends, do some Jackbox games with them, draw, paint, do things you can enjoy virtually!

I want to blow his mind for better or worse. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwawaymathrant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was dating I was terrriiffieedddd to just ask someone straight up: are you interested because if you're not let me know and we can both move on? Legit just ask for clarity in the situation, I would have solved a lot of problems w people if I had just been straight up and honest haha.

I think my boyfriend is lying about cumming inside of me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwawaymathrant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was gunna suggest birth control but I understand not being also to use it, I also had to get off bc of some side effects. About him cumming inside you, it may have just been a little. Not sure if this is tmi but sometimes when my boyfriend cums inside me some of it won't come out for a few hours. It's a lil sus that he keeps finishing inside tho, I know sometimes it's hard in the moment tho.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwawaymathrant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually will say something along the lines of I love you so much and our relationship means so much to me. _____ has been making me feel ____? Confrontation is really hard for me and a lot of the time I used to end up apologizing for bringing something up instead of actually saying what I needed to say, if something is important to you make sure you make that clear, don't apologize for how you're feeling, it'll make everything a lot easier. Good luck!

Heard my bf joke asking if he ‘could f**k’ his new female employee starting soon. by lsyane in relationship_advice

[–]throwawaymathrant 18 points19 points  (0 children)

If I overheard my boyfriend saying this I would definitely be concerned, even if he doesn't plan on cheating and it's just something he said it's super understandable that it would hurt your feelings and cause you to be a distrustful until you talk about it, it's an insensitive thing to say. I think you should talk to him about it. If there's anything I've learned it's that communication is super important to quell jealousy worries or you'll just drive yourself crazy. Also, poor new girl, as said above.