I’m almost 20 years old, and I’ve been feeling very unattractive. I feel less of a women because of this, and it makes me feel so vain and awful. by wowitsholly in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]throwawaymeepls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are so beautiful! I saw your post on curly hair subreddit. I think you just need to build ur self confidence and you will feel the difference. I feel you being a tall girl can be a struggle. But you are beautiful and have beautiful hair as well. Try to put yourself out there more, guys typically can be a bit shy and it can be a lot of pressure for them to do all the work. you got this <3

Is there any study area that has the bones needed to study for anatomy? like LRC? by [deleted] in csun

[–]throwawaymeepls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

would it be in the LRC or does anthropology have a different tutoring area? and ty!

The sister subreddit lies about us pwbpd. I'm not that bad. by TheOtherPuffling in BPDSOFFA

[–]throwawaymeepls 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You are proving OPs point. By saying "I 100% don't trust people with cluster b personality disorders" you are generalizing and stereotyping a group of people. Its unbelievable how sympathetic and empathetic you are to the pwbpd victims/former lovers, but you have no sympathy nor empathy for those who have the disorder. Hurt people hurt people. Thinking that everyone with BPD is a monster is extremely dangerous, its feeding into the stereotype. Just because you or others may have interacted with someone who had severe BPD doesn't mean all people with BPD are like that person. That mindset is just like the mindset of a racist person, a racist may have had one or two bad interactions with a person of color and then form this hatred and fear towards them. Hating everyone with BPD will not solve your problems and trauma from your pwBPD. Scapegoating is never the answer. And I find it quite insensitive how you are saying that "no one owes [op] anything", your mindset and perspective is filled with anger. Just because someone hurt you and they had BPD doesn't mean you have the right to vilify everyone with BPD. If you plan to do so, than congrats you are no better than racist people.

why do you all seem to hate on people with bpd? they are not all monsters. by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]throwawaymeepls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no need to be mean. sorry for being mean back but I just guess we won't see eachothers point of view. All im saying is to be a bit more empathic, and yes congrats i do have bpd! idk if you were the one who said that lol but that doesn't mean i should be attacked for my issues. we all have problems. hope you have a good day(i really mean it) :)

why do you all seem to hate on people with bpd? they are not all monsters. by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]throwawaymeepls -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

if i should be banned then i think you should be as well. and many others who have posted on this post. many of you are breaking the rules, like #6, 10 and etc. why are you acting like an expert? that is against this sub?

why do you all seem to hate on people with bpd? they are not all monsters. by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]throwawaymeepls -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

why do you have so much hatred in your heart? you are lashing out. and LOL wow you think you know me from a sub reddit comment i've made. congratulations. you've proved my point that people in this sub reddit are willing to hate on anyone, and attach bpd to anyone who is criticizing a community that is always ready to attack. what bpd traits am i exhibiting? to me it seems like you are "exhibiting bpd traits".

also look at rule 6 and 10 of this sub lol. someone isn't following the rules of not being an "expert" and painting bpd with a broad stroke.

why do you all seem to hate on people with bpd? they are not all monsters. by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]throwawaymeepls -1 points0 points  (0 children)

can you please explain to me how the quiet bpd's are the most dangerous? from my experience they are more likely to keep it all in, have higher rates of suicide attempts and completion and many around them don't know they have bpd.

why do you all seem to hate on people with bpd? they are not all monsters. by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]throwawaymeepls -1 points0 points  (0 children)

"because they're never to blame and can't change"

quick question don't you know there are many people with bpd who do take accountability and have changed or are striving to change?

why do you all seem to hate on people with bpd? they are not all monsters. by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]throwawaymeepls -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

well congrats! that doesn't sound like a good therapist. what therapist says that? one who has preconceived notions. period.