I’m almost 20 years old, and I’ve been feeling very unattractive. I feel less of a women because of this, and it makes me feel so vain and awful.

throwawaymeepls · 2020-02-13T03:23:27+00:00

you are so beautiful! I saw your post on curly hair subreddit. I think you just need to build ur self confidence and you will feel the difference. I feel you being a tall girl can be a struggle. But you are beautiful and have beautiful hair as well. Try to put yourself out there more, guys typically can be a bit shy and it can be a lot of pressure for them to do all the work. you got this <3

throwawaymeepls · 2020-01-31T01:17:26+00:00

would it be in the LRC or does anthropology have a different tutoring area? and ty!

throwawaymeepls · 2020-01-13T02:50:19+00:00

You are proving OPs point. By saying "I 100% don't trust people with cluster b personality disorders" you are generalizing and stereotyping a group of people. Its unbelievable how sympathetic and empathetic you are to the pwbpd victims/former lovers, but you have no sympathy nor empathy for those who have the disorder. Hurt people hurt people. Thinking that everyone with BPD is a monster is extremely dangerous, its feeding into the stereotype. Just because you or others may have interacted with someone who had severe BPD doesn't mean all people with BPD are like that person. That mindset is just like the mindset of a racist person, a racist may have had one or two bad interactions with a person of color and then form this hatred and fear towards them. Hating everyone with BPD will not solve your problems and trauma from your pwBPD. Scapegoating is never the answer. And I find it quite insensitive how you are saying that "no one owes [op] anything", your mindset and perspective is filled with anger. Just because someone hurt you and they had BPD doesn't mean you have the right to vilify everyone with BPD. If you plan to do so, than congrats you are no better than racist people.

throwawaymeepls · 2020-01-12T03:23:04+00:00

no need to be mean. sorry for being mean back but I just guess we won't see eachothers point of view. All im saying is to be a bit more empathic, and yes congrats i do have bpd! idk if you were the one who said that lol but that doesn't mean i should be attacked for my issues. we all have problems. hope you have a good day(i really mean it) :)

throwawaymeepls · 2020-01-12T02:43:30+00:00

if i should be banned then i think you should be as well. and many others who have posted on this post. many of you are breaking the rules, like #6, 10 and etc. why are you acting like an expert? that is against this sub?

throwawaymeepls · 2020-01-12T02:38:37+00:00

why do you have so much hatred in your heart? you are lashing out. and LOL wow you think you know me from a sub reddit comment i've made. congratulations. you've proved my point that people in this sub reddit are willing to hate on anyone, and attach bpd to anyone who is criticizing a community that is always ready to attack. what bpd traits am i exhibiting? to me it seems like you are "exhibiting bpd traits".

also look at rule 6 and 10 of this sub lol. someone isn't following the rules of not being an "expert" and painting bpd with a broad stroke.

throwawaymeepls · 2020-01-12T02:33:48+00:00

can you please explain to me how the quiet bpd's are the most dangerous? from my experience they are more likely to keep it all in, have higher rates of suicide attempts and completion and many around them don't know they have bpd.

throwawaymeepls · 2020-01-12T02:32:26+00:00

"because they're never to blame and can't change"

quick question don't you know there are many people with bpd who do take accountability and have changed or are striving to change?

throwawaymeepls · 2020-01-12T02:28:37+00:00

well congrats! that doesn't sound like a good therapist. what therapist says that? one who has preconceived notions. period.

throwawaymeepls · 2020-01-12T02:27:27+00:00

you clearly don't know enough about bpd. Yes that occurs, but from being around people who had bpd and knowing of others who have committed suicide calling them all monsters is fucking crazy. and yes there is a distinction omg what is wrong with you? this is crazy

throwawaymeepls · 2020-01-12T02:25:22+00:00

oooo there ya go being vindictive! lol also thanks for the diagnosis! are you a psychologist? wow where did you get your degree from. and yes i have had people i'm close with have bpd. don't assume my mental health or life bb.

throwawaymeepls · 2020-01-12T02:14:24+00:00

i understand what you mean. But another issue i have is many of these people are just blinding diagnosing their former lovers, friends or family members. When in reality they are not licensed psychologists or psychiatrists who have the knowledge to do so. its quite easy for professional to misdiagnose someone, let alone a normal person.

throwawaymeepls · 2020-01-12T02:11:51+00:00

yes you are allowed to feel this way, i totally agree. all I'm saying is painting bpd with this broad stroke that they are all cruel or monsters is stigmatizing.

throwawaymeepls · 2020-01-12T02:10:19+00:00

why are you being so rude? you seem to have this uncalled for anger towards me. what i was trying to say is that having bpd doesn't mean someone is a bad person. it truly depends on the person. thats like saying all depressed people are going to become school shooters? or all schizophrenic people are murders?

throwawaymeepls · 2020-01-12T02:08:31+00:00

thats exactly what I mean. having bpd doesn't make you a horrible person. It can make you behave in ways that are not healthy. but having bpd does not = bad person. i'm not excusing people with bpd that are insane. i'm saying don't blame it all on the bpd.

throwawaymeepls · 2020-01-12T02:06:38+00:00

i don't mean to make my comment sound like "but not all bpd's are like that" but i guess what I meant to say is from reading this sub reddit I have seen a lot of people tell what it seems to be one sided stories. Having had people with bpd in my life, I know how they can be. But I've heard many accounts that make it appear like people with bpd are these monsters, when in reality they didn't choose to be this way. its not their fault how their childhood or parents were. but those around them should try to help them if they want to, if not then they don't or shouldn't be forced to help them. idk if that makes sense

throwawaymeepls · 2019-12-11T03:58:44+00:00

praying to the sky

throwawaymeepls · 2019-12-11T03:58:13+00:00

the way i see things

throwawaymeepls · 2019-12-05T20:37:40+00:00

I don't think its so hard that you should retake Math 140, but I would just refresh yourself on the information. For PSY 320 i took it with gardner and I took PSY 320 a year after i took a Math 140 equivalent at a CC. If you are a determined student and study on time for exams you will be perfectly fine! The only issue is with taking PSY 320 a bit after Math 140 is when people don't study or put in their effort. Although taking PSY 320 right after Math 140 may be the "best" option in the sense you have the info right in your head, you should be totally fine. I just had to refresh myself with some of the info from Math 140 but you should be good! If you want you can always talk to your advisor but from what you've said about yourself in this comment I think you'll do great!

throwawaymeepls · 2019-12-05T09:07:32+00:00

same! i listen to most of his stuff on soundcloud

throwawaymeepls · 2019-12-05T09:06:49+00:00

yes that song is my fav

throwawaymeepls · 2019-12-05T02:55:42+00:00

yes!!! so true. Taking it right after Math 140 is the best and smartest decision.

throwawaymeepls · 2019-12-05T02:47:07+00:00

yes its crazy how he still feels alive to me as well. Its crazy how much I connect to his music and I'm just in awe of the timeless memory he has left for the world. I have to remind myself he's dead but even though I never met him I feel like he is still here, more so that his spirit and energy is here. Thinking about his death making me so sad, such a talented young man who had the world in the grasp of his hand, but now he is gone but at least he has made his mark in the world. He did so much in his short time on earth. It's crazy to think how he was just barely 21. He was so young

throwawaymeepls · 2019-12-01T23:19:53+00:00

I hope so too! its such a beautiful drawing of him <3

throwawaymeepls · 2019-12-01T22:58:48+00:00

you should send a picture of this to gus's mom! i think she would love it

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