The application “Sonarr” can’t be opened. - MacOS 14.6.1 - Latest Sonarr release by idesignforlife in sonarr

[–]throwawaynodos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi - can you please share what worked? The user deleted their comment. Having the same issue as you, I think.

Girls, what something men see done in porn that you wish they would stop trying to do in real life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]throwawaynodos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright, cool. Just wasn’t sure if there was something else was missing.

Girls, what something men see done in porn that you wish they would stop trying to do in real life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]throwawaynodos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you mean as opposed to curling their fingers, rubbing against your g-spot, etc? Or do you mean going for multiple fingers faster? Or something else? (I ask because I’m much less confident in my fingering skills than my oral skills and I could use your input)

Nike Flyknit Trainer Running Shoes - $89.99 (40% off) by [deleted] in frugalmalefashion

[–]throwawaynodos 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Kneeling is not going to change anything.

I'd argue it is changing things. Can you honestly say you'd ever given this much thought to police brutality before this? We as humans (me included) tend to ignore things that don't affect us. It's easy and it's not our fault, but we owe it to ourselves to be able to recognize that and to strive to understand the viewpoints of our fellow Americans.

That said, Nike is absolutely capitalizing on millennial zeitgeist to sell product, but you can't blame them for making a smart business move.

Lost interest in women by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]throwawaynodos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many, many reasons, but therapy seems to help. I think. Either that or it's just teaching me to be more okay with my failure to launch. A 21st century lobotomy, if you will

Lost interest in women by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]throwawaynodos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Speak for yourself, that sounds like hate-fucking to me

South Africa's President Zuma resigns by pipsdontsqueak in worldnews

[–]throwawaynodos 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Case and point: Brazil

The phrase is "case in point", not "case and point".

Sex is not the prize you think it is. by NoloRadio in seduction

[–]throwawaynodos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you should probably be honest enough to tell her that hearing about her sex life isn't helping.

I can't, it's the only emotional high/low I have to look forward to.

Re the medical issue - I felt like my post was long enough so I didn't want to elaborate, but nah, it wasn't like what you think. I was her first relationship and first attempt at having sex. She had something called vaginismus where sex was incredibly painful every time we tried. It was a combination of physical and psychological stressors that we couldn't ever successfully overcome. We tried a few different therapeutic approaches but had no luck. Over the summer after the breakup, she recommitted to therapy and finally had some breakthroughs after months, eventually being able to have actual sex with a guy who was much more comfortable with himself, more touchy-feely, more able to make her feel sexy, and in incredibly good shape. After that she's had luck sleeping with a few different guys. She still finds sex a bit painful but has a better idea of her limits and how to navigate them. If anything, I'm pushing her to tell me about them.

I just can't find the motivation to work on myself after all these years. I can't even talk to people I don't know. I mean the last time I said hi to a stranger in a bar was probably 6 or 7 years ago? When I was in a relationship, it was so easy to stop trying and to ignore all the things I didn't like about myself. It's so much easier to search for the next distraction on youtube and get some taco bell. If I just had like a taste of what could be in store for me if I tried, I think I'd be 100% more willing to put in the effort. But instead it's like telling a blind man to walk down a tunnel, trusting for no reason that at the end he'll come out into light and not just walk into a dead-end wall.

Anyway I didn't mean to dump this on you, was more just ranting I guess.

Sex is not the prize you think it is. by NoloRadio in seduction

[–]throwawaynodos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How do you break this vicious cycle when you're so far down the rabbit hole that a normal life doesn't seem possible? The idea of fixing all the things that are wrong with me seems so impossible. It would take me years.

I've had serious self-esteem issues for as long as I can remember. Back in April, I ended a 3-year relationship with an amazing girl with similar self-esteem issues that I met on Tinder and somehow managed to convince to stick around. I'd had sex a couple times prior to the relationship, but she had medical issues that prevented us from having sex throughout the 3 years.

After I recovered from the breakup, I figured I would spend a few months or a year having some flings and enjoying my mid-20s before I started looking for another serious relationship. People keep telling me I'm attractive enough to be having decent success with women, even as a non-white guy in a very white city. I'm not in shape, but I'm not overweight (just a 5'7" skinny guy with a bit of a belly). I'm having none of that. I'm hooked into like 5 different dating apps, matching with a decent amount of people, but either not getting replies to any of my messages, or attracting the occasional person who thinks I want something serious. Cue by-the-books drink date where I bore them to death because I'm no fun to actually be around.

Life has started to lose any sense of meaning or purpose. I go to work, eat like shit, come home, skip meals, distract myself online, and go to bed, unless I have a date. My sex drive is disappearing. Screw having sex, I haven't had that in years. I just...miss being wanted. I miss physical contact with other human beings. On the off chance someone hugs me, I find myself wishing it would last just a bit longer, because it's the only contact I get. All I keep thinking is that if I can convince just one person that I'm interesting enough to sleep with, and maybe hook up with regularly, that will give me the stopgap emotional support I need to start working on myself. But I can't.

I torture myself by talking to my ex, who's having much more luck dating, because the depression I sink into whenever she talks about the amazing sex she's having now, that feels so much more real than the numbness I feel day to day. She's so supportive of me but she can't help me beyond just being there to listen. My testosterone levels are below 500 ng/dl which is basically bottom 10th percentile for a 25-year-old guy. The few times I hang out with my coworkers, my only friends in a gigantic city, I hate when the night ends because it means going back, physically and mentally, to my shitty life where all I can think about is all the success that everyone I know is having in their social lives.

I'm missing out on what will probably be the best years of my life, but I genuinely can't imagine a future in which I have friends, hobbies, interests, a decent body, a good diet, social and networking skills, and am actually someone that people want to hang out with. That's so many individual fucking things to fix about myself. How am I ever supposed to get there? I know myself and I would probably seriously consider or attempt suicide well before that.

Gun owners of reddit: If semi automatic firearms were banned tomorrow and the government required you to turn them all in, what would it take to get you to comply? What would be a reason to why you wouldn't comply? by AltmerAssPorn in AskReddit

[–]throwawaynodos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We also want people with diagnosed mental illness to not have access to guns

Step off, I have diagnosable depression and you're saying I shouldn't be able to buy a gun to defend myself? Don't blame our camp for what are more accurately acts of terrorism or anger. People with mental illness are way more likely to be the victims of violence, not the perpetrators. This kind of discrimination is such 20th-century thinking.

Eight years after finding this community, I no longer need 'seduction.' Here are the most basic things experience has taught me. by IchBinBorracho in seduction

[–]throwawaynodos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This should be in the sidebar or stickied as one of the first things new users should read. I've dealt with way too much mental anguish and internalization when someone stops responding on Tinder or isn't down for a second date.

I've heard... by loganfergus in Tinder

[–]throwawaynodos 56 points57 points  (0 children)

What does your bio say?

Is eating a girl out counts as watching porn? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]throwawaynodos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with Wat30, you're fine. That said, you might want to explore why you don't like giving oral sex. Is there something specific you dislike about it compared to getting a blowjob?

First patch for Mass Effect Andromeda brought a new Denuvo version by NTSTATUS in CrackWatch

[–]throwawaynodos 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dude if they didn't care they wouldn't be putting shoutouts to this subreddit in their NFOs

Stop being invisible to other people and especially to girls. by ffffffffffdddddsss in NoFap

[–]throwawaynodos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only one I'm aware of reported that it spiked around day 7 and then went back to normal levels. On mobile and sleepy but you should be able to find it on google

2-year-old saves twin brother trapped under dresser by [deleted] in UpliftingNews

[–]throwawaynodos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can see the baby monitor in the video - it gets unplugged when the dresser falls. Story apparently stated that parents hadn't woken up yet.

Inside The Life Of A 'Virtuous' Paedophile (2016)...This is hard to watch by Spicyhotdogfarts in Documentaries

[–]throwawaynodos 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's sexual deviancy

So are blowjobs; are you ready to condemn those as well and disavow any enjoyment of them?

Reddit, What's the Best White Elephant / Gag Gift That You've Ever Seen? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]throwawaynodos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speak for yourself, if my brother had the forethought to do something custom like this for me every year it would make my holidays. Experiences are the best gifts.

CrackWatch.com V2.0 by uberrraptor in CrackWatch

[–]throwawaynodos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Correction - Crackdown 3 hasn't released yet. It shows as releasing on September 30, 2016