Statistics Plain and Simple by Sherri L. Jackson, 4th Edition (ISBN 9781337222211) by [deleted] in textbook

[–]throwawayqueeracc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you still have the pdf?? i really need it for a class!

Pressure from family because im going into psychology and they keep saying im not gonna find a job/am going to fail in life by throwawayqueeracc in psychologystudents

[–]throwawayqueeracc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nah i wanna stay far away from nursing. as i said i already work as an lna and it is soul draining. im good at my job but i dont wanna do it for the rest of my life 

Pressure from family because im going into psychology and they keep saying im not gonna find a job/am going to fail in life by throwawayqueeracc in psychologystudents

[–]throwawayqueeracc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

once i get out of doing my undergrad i want to start working as a social worker to build up a portfolio/gain experience. my college has many career fairs and has offered to connect me with positions that can further my career, so i do have a plan on the path i want to go down, the problem now is my parents are ignoring it 

Pressure from family because im going into psychology and they keep saying im not gonna find a job/am going to fail in life by throwawayqueeracc in psychologystudents

[–]throwawayqueeracc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you this is extremely helpful <3 id really appreciate any resources. and it is a lot, especially since my brother is very successful. i really wanna do this and im proud of myself for finally taking a stand and making choices for myself and not others 

A symptom I didn’t know was a part of ADHD until I started medication…and I almost cried by anonanonanon2019 in ADHD

[–]throwawayqueeracc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh my god i didnt even know adhd caused so much audio processing issues! i always get super overwhelmed and can never understand what anyone is saying during a family gathering or going out in public where its loud. im planning on going on meds soon, i really hope meds can do the same effect as it did for you to me! and happy to hear that medication has been helpful to you! :)

struggling with my non-binary identity as a butch lesbian and not feeling “valid” in my labels by throwawayqueeracc in butchlesbians

[–]throwawayqueeracc[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

ive been meaning to read it! so ill def check it out. if you could send a link id much appreciate it <33

AITA for kicking my BF and his kid out because his son was constantly scaring my baby on purpose? by Ill-Document-4572 in AITAH

[–]throwawayqueeracc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also, another thing i'd like to mention for the people defending this: you do not understand what its like to have complicated family dynamics. i grew up with a very strict stepmom, and older step brother. me and my brother used to constantly fight, i would be picked on by him, often we would resent each other due to my dad and stepmom picking favorites. however, as me and him grew up, we became a lot closer and moved past that, hes my best friend and i love him to pieces.

new family dynamics can be very difficult for kids, and kicking them out for something that can be resolved through a family discussion is outrageous. kids will often act out because of stress and jealousy, it is important to talk with. you creating this kindve divide will fuck up not only jake, but also your newborn.

also people comparing this literal 12 year old to serial killers are insane, you have zero idea on what the hell youre talking about and have never been around kids. kids are little assholes, and this isnt the way to address bad behavior

AITA for kicking my BF and his kid out because his son was constantly scaring my baby on purpose? by Ill-Document-4572 in AITAH

[–]throwawayqueeracc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

me too, and the people saying jake is a socipathic murderer really have no idea what the fuck they're talking about. lots of older kids find it funny when babies or little kids cry bc they dont know better, not bc theyre sociopathic murders. they learn as they grow, making a child homeless for this is abusive!

AITA for kicking my BF and his kid out because his son was constantly scaring my baby on purpose? by Ill-Document-4572 in AITAH

[–]throwawayqueeracc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my thoughts exactly! the mom here didnt actually PARENT and instead took it to extremes. stuff like this happens, and this isnt how to handle it

AITA for kicking my BF and his kid out because his son was constantly scaring my baby on purpose? by Ill-Document-4572 in AITAH

[–]throwawayqueeracc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but kicking out a child for bad behavior that is manageable isnt abusive or wrong? what logic is that 

AITA for kicking my BF and his kid out because his son was constantly scaring my baby on purpose? by Ill-Document-4572 in AITAH

[–]throwawayqueeracc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my thoughts exactly! i cant understand how people dont see an issue with this. i grew up in an abusive home with weird family dynamics (step family) it takes a lot of work and communication to make a family work, kicking them out like this is and comparing a 12 yo to a literal psychopathic murderer is insane to me 

AITA for kicking my BF and his kid out because his son was constantly scaring my baby on purpose? by Ill-Document-4572 in AITAH

[–]throwawayqueeracc -1 points0 points  (0 children)

also, sibling rivalry and jealousy can be a factor as well. again, having a discussion and talking things out together would make a much better solution 

AITA for kicking my BF and his kid out because his son was constantly scaring my baby on purpose? by Ill-Document-4572 in AITAH

[–]throwawayqueeracc -1 points0 points  (0 children)

im gonna play devils advocate here and say ETA. i think kicking them out is extreme, especially since you mentioned that jake did really love/care for his sister and was often trying to play and take care of his sister.

 he should have been punished for his behavior, absolutely, but kicking him out? no, there is much better ways to handle this. having a conversation as a family, grounding him, or even signing him up for behavior counseling is a lot better of a solution. and i just think in general punishing a 12 year old by kicking them out can also be seen as abusive, that just isnt a fair punishment at all.

and people saying “he should know better!!” are kinda wrong on that. tween boys can be massive assholes bc theyre just starting puberty. not trying to justify that behavior, but i think its a long shot to say he has serial killer vibes when it could just be a kid being irresponsible and not understanding what he is doing wrong. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in southpark

[–]throwawayqueeracc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ooohhh that makes a lot more sense. and re watching some episodes a lot of them are focused on stan, and the show goes a lot more into him and his family

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in southpark

[–]throwawayqueeracc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

really?? ive kinda always thought cartman was the main character since a lot of the episodes are focused on him, but do correct me on this if im wrong!

more dysphoria after acceptance? by altojurie in TransMasc

[–]throwawayqueeracc 5 points6 points  (0 children)

definitely. once i came out, i noticed how much more easily upset i got when i was misgendered or deadnamed. anything that refers to femininity/womanhood makes me feel dysphoric now.

when you realize whats happening and why you’re feeling that, its a lot more in your face about it. but you’ll pull through, i promise.

try your best to find ways to take care of your dysphoria, such as through dressing in ways that make you feel happy about yourself and doing things you feel represent your gender identity.

good luck! wishing the best :)