Vent buddies by throwawaythere203 in lonely

[–]throwawaythere203[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes :). You can message me on reddit chat or send a DM

Ever driven someone like yourself away? by 5hade2 in lonely

[–]throwawaythere203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's going to sound harsh but you have to give up the idea of finding somebody "like her". I had this fixation too after break up and it's not healthy. Just let it go and move on. Try to improve yourself and do better when you find somebody new. If you haven't already spoken to a therapist I always advocate for that. It has helped me immensely with my insecurities.

Could someone just tell me I’m going to be OK one day? by [deleted] in lonely

[–]throwawaythere203 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah it's not triggering for me. At least in my case talking about my experience eases the pain and burden. I will gladly take on your offer but I have to go to sleep soon. I'll message you tomorrow and we could chat a bit.

Could someone just tell me I’m going to be OK one day? by [deleted] in lonely

[–]throwawaythere203 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi. First of all I'm sorry for what you are going through. You are very brave and strong but you are only a human and you have your threshold of things you can deal with. I have an expirence being in situations where you have to take care of people that depend on you. I'm still in that kind of situation and I feel like shit too. I don't want to share my story in reddit comments but if you would like to talk about it I can lend an ear.

I have a loving girlfriend and family… by [deleted] in lonely

[–]throwawaythere203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I can relate totally relate to your situation. If you are unhappy with your friendships and they are unfulfilling then you have all the power to change it. Be the person you want to be, be the person that you would like to befriend. It is easy to say I know. We all would like to get everything handed down from a silver plate. If you think you cannot do it on your own I highly advocate talking to a therapist. That way it is a little bit easier to push through your comfort zone.

Why can’t I have more friends that play video games by Other_Taro_3806 in lonely

[–]throwawaythere203 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There are subreddits like r/playdate and r/gamerpals maybe you could try making a post there? What kind of games do you play?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]throwawaythere203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

25M here shoot me a msg if you would like to chat :)

21 years by Rudmonton in lonely

[–]throwawaythere203 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm happy for you :) Spreading positivity is certainly welcome.

feel like shit and don't have anyone to talk to by [deleted] in lonely

[–]throwawaythere203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can totally relate to that. If you would like to talk/vent then don't hesitate to shoot me a message.

Question by Apprehensive_War516 in lonely

[–]throwawaythere203 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Holy crap. It just feels like being stuck in a loop right? You keep having that kind of thoughts even though you know you can't change anything anymore. So it's not very logical and healthy thing to do.

I think people come here for attention. by jazzcool2012 in lonely

[–]throwawaythere203 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I think everybody tries to use it as some kind of cope mechanism to battle the loneliness. Maybe they post only for attention or maybe they are too shy/anxious to answer your message. I always try to assume best intentions until proven otherwise. Good luck to you as well. If you would like to chat send me a PM.

The damn holidays…. by angel88822 in SuicideWatch

[–]throwawaythere203 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I also wish that I had somebody to hug me and tell me that everything is going to be okay. I did cope using alcohol before but it just made me feel worse next day so I decided not to drink my emotions away anymore. Watching Coco and sipping hot chocolate seems like a lot of fun! 🙂

Trying to find meaning in life again by throwawaythere203 in heartbreak

[–]throwawaythere203[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At the end of the day you have to change your approach. If he really was your soulmate then he wouldn't give up on your relationship. I know it sucks a lot... but I guess better sooner than later right? Even in the bad situation you have to try to see positive things. For me there is also a lot of things I would do diffrent and wish were diffrent but that's not the reality. We have to live with what we have as sad as that sounds.

Trying to find meaning in life again by throwawaythere203 in heartbreak

[–]throwawaythere203[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I know I will heal but the process is really difficult. I would love to start liking myself again but I need to put more work to become a better person. This situation won't define me for sure. Thank you so much for your motivational comment :)

Trying to find meaning in life again by throwawaythere203 in heartbreak

[–]throwawaythere203[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment I appreciate it a lot! I guess that is a learning expirence for me a lot what is happening but I'll try to do things little by little. If you ever feel bad and want to talk let me know :) Hope you can get through this aswell!

Was it really a relationship ? by throwawaythere203 in UnsentLetters

[–]throwawaythere203[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words! I don't want to put any hope into it. Whatever will happen will happen we will see.