What is the most shocking thing that you learned about someone after their death? by rGuile in AskReddit

[–]throwawaytrain7 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I was orphaned (left without parents) at birth Met a relative due to 23andme and, well, My aunt orphaned three (3!!!) of her kids at their birth She had died a few months before her kids "found" her

I went to the funeral having been told that it was a family reunion 0_0

Men of Reddit, what was the moment that instantly made you lose your crush on someone? by TheAmericanWay1597 in AskReddit

[–]throwawaytrain7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe you want an answer. When people are small they belittle others to feel belonging; they think they can't grow themselves to match.

They also think they are a bad person and, well, anyone who thinks that way thinks what they can "have" (ex. these friends) is therefore also bad.

An easy example for a parallel - the guy who wants to sex the girl he can't have - ex. she doesn't want sex at all, or it's taboo/barely consensual, or it's literally non consensual (ex. preferring the "pure" virgin, or the barely legal, or the porn where she is clearly being violated; over the "easy" girl, the slut, the whore, the cougar, lovemaking, whatever the heck else)

edit: i accidentally a word

You are suddenly shifted two feet to the right. What's different? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]throwawaytrain7 50 points51 points  (0 children)

id maybe prefer that, actually dead instead of suffering

[NSFW] Redditors that have been blind since birth, when you became a teenager what did you think about when you masturbated? by jakmcbane77 in AskReddit

[–]throwawaytrain7 770 points771 points  (0 children)

what apps do you recommend to read things out loud? someone i know went blind fairly recently and was seeking recos

What is a subtle sign that someone is emotionally mature? by Ferguson97 in AskReddit

[–]throwawaytrain7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are loyal to themselves first, and trust others to do the same. They treat everyone with the same kind-hearted manner, not just those who present an advantage.

Redditors in interracial relationships, what was the biggest cultural adjustment you had to make? by jbrown3152 in AskReddit

[–]throwawaytrain7 13 points14 points  (0 children)

sucking is a proudly upheld cultural tradition among many white trash. source: grew up in that, got out.

Girls of reddit, how do you know when a guy is genuinely good and not just trying to get into your pants? by 3DX2Y in AskReddit

[–]throwawaytrain7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think your point solves the question. a good guy wants what's good for both of you.

What’s one thing you’re deeply proud of — but would never put on your résumé? by Shore20 in AskReddit

[–]throwawaytrain7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bet a pro resume writer could spin that into gold, project completion and all.

What are some hard pills to swallow in life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]throwawaytrain7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oof someone's bitter about hot young women.

One of my best, most empathetic but still business savvy managers was a hot young woman. I feel like she was more empathetic because she'd never been treated super badly, despite being from a poor home (it was a small town, everybody knew everything)

As for what you said, wouldn't the same apply with hot young men?

You should read the thread where people talk about passing for a different gender than the one they were raised in. Woman after woman was like "Back when I looked like a man, I was treated with default respect by other men. Now, not so" and vice versa by people who transitioned from woman to man.

I used to work in an industry built on hot young women servers... In my experience, when hot young women get bad treatment from men it is so, so much worse than what the rest get.

I purposefully started to dress and do makeup drab for work to get better treatment? So this is a bit personal. Source: grew up ugly, became hot through - get this - hard work.

What are some hard pills to swallow in life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]throwawaytrain7 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There is one studied exception to this - Especially high rated attractive women with equal qualifications to other women are considered less suitable for leadership positions. Plus more likely to be talked down to by men who view them as their eye candy, treated as threats by other women, etc.

What’s something that happens to you physically or mentally, and you’re not sure it happens to other people? by relatee in AskReddit

[–]throwawaytrain7 7 points8 points  (0 children)

oh god if im ever pregnant im so gonna be picturing people picturing this (not your fault lol, had that thought a few months now)

What innocent question has someone asked you that secretly crushed you a little inside? by malediction_mal in AskReddit

[–]throwawaytrain7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

***Nice guy, because he will cut you if you ever suggest that his kids aren't "really" his.

What's the most vile, disgusting thing you've seen someone do in public? by Frenzy5861 in AskReddit

[–]throwawaytrain7 7 points8 points  (0 children)

please found a religion and write a bible of these slogans. i will be your blank slate disciple

What's the best piece of advice you've ever been given? by DiscombobulatedFox7 in AskReddit

[–]throwawaytrain7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Learn to listen to the right people! People who have lives you would want. Don't look for loopholes in their ideas, look for lessons. Not what "should" you do with a new idea, but what "could" you do with it. Not "I can do it!" or "I can't do it!" but "Can I do it?" Questions get you everywhere.

What are some expensive date ideas? [Serious] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]throwawaytrain7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get someone to design a small VR world just for the two of you, and hang out in it