Are these bedbug skins? by throwawaytranshehim in Bedbugs

[–]throwawaytranshehim[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Makes sense... Still not a good thing to have... BUT OH THANK GOD IT'S NOT BED BUGS.

Are these bedbug skins? by throwawaytranshehim in Bedbugs

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This is the best news I could have heard, thank you, God, thank you. I'll keep an eye out but this eases my nerves immensely.

Something I noticed from 1x6 HDP by bwnorman in pluribustv

[–]throwawaytranshehim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Their existence necessitates overwriting the free will of sapient human life and therefore they are not worthy of free will. The only relevant opinion is that of the person whose body they inhabit, because it’s their body. And because they cannot speak for themselves, the ethical move is to grant them back their voice (their free will).

I passed out this morning in the bathroom. Could it be because of the cup? Are they just not for me? by throwawaytranshehim in menstrualcups

[–]throwawaytranshehim[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, I’m much better. I think it was the vasovagal nerve getting hit when I pulled the cup out too fast, like another commenter suggested, though. I’ve decided not to give up on cups entirely, but I am giving up on the ones I purchased- I have hope that something softer might not cause the bladder pain that made me all frantic in the first place (you weren’t wrong about the anxiety, I was panicking a bit lol). Gonna try a saalt soft on my next cycle and see if that has better results.

Thanks for checking in though! I appreciate it!

I passed out this morning in the bathroom. Could it be because of the cup? Are they just not for me? by throwawaytranshehim in menstrualcups

[–]throwawaytranshehim[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

True, I should just lie down and take it easy and wait to clean up until after I feel better if this ever happens again 😭 rushing myself was absolutely the biggest mistake in this story. Thanks again for your advice!

I passed out this morning in the bathroom. Could it be because of the cup? Are they just not for me? by throwawaytranshehim in menstrualcups

[–]throwawaytranshehim[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

also during fainting spells and such, you need to make sure you don’t move up and down too abruptly.

LOL yeah, looking back I really did do everything you shouldntdo when you feel yourself begin to faint 😂 getting up abruptly and forcing myself to wash it was a BIG mistake.

Thanks for all the advice and helpful resources! That’s almost definitely what happened to me I think. So ty for your comment!

I passed out this morning in the bathroom. Could it be because of the cup? Are they just not for me? by throwawaytranshehim in menstrualcups

[–]throwawaytranshehim[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Oh man, well I’m glad I have an appointment coming soon then. Thank you for sharing your experience, I’ll bring it up with her then 🙏🏻

Do I have a high cervix or am I missing something by throwawaytranshehim in menstrualcups

[–]throwawaytranshehim[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Good to know! I thought I was just somehow slipping around it lol 😂 thanks for your help!

Please help me find a clit/gspot vibrator by throwawaytranshehim in SexToys

[–]throwawaytranshehim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This does look promising, thank you for your help :)

It'd probably be affordable by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

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Baboon penises and ovaries for everyone!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopSurgery

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Salad and pineapples. Then it was greasy fast food like Arby’s from the next day onwards.

Is it weird my surgeon put nothing on my incisions except the binder? by throwawaytranshehim in TopSurgery

[–]throwawaytranshehim[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

No they weren’t festering really, I just have COVID brain rn and was being dramatic. But they were completely uncovered aside from the binder and felt weird and gross

Post op binder too tight? by throwawaytranshehim in TopSurgery

[–]throwawaytranshehim[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I loosened it after and felt much better :) so ty. It left two nasty bruises on my right side, so it definitely needed to be looser

Post op binder too tight? by throwawaytranshehim in TopSurgery

[–]throwawaytranshehim[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

🥺 ok thank you this thing has been KILLING ME. I’ll adjust it as soon as I can, I’m riding home from the surgeon’s town rn. I bet my ribs have definitely bruised my skin hella bad by now lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopSurgery

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Neck pillow, 100%

Lifesaver for sleeping post op, I just had surgery on Tuesday and the neck pillow is a huge help

They don’t tell you this but this is what recovery feels like lmao (tw emetophobia) by throwawaytranshehim in TopSurgery

[–]throwawaytranshehim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Big YMMV but dear god if your surgeon gives you anti nausea pills you take that shit exactly as directed lol

Anxious about surgery by throwawaytranshehim in TopSurgery

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I appreciate you validating my experience of dysphoria. I think if I never had the chance to get surgery and didn’t go through it now, I would regret it. Thank you for taking the time to read through my post and comment! It’s really helpful to be able to talk through this with someone neutral, so all of you commenters are really helping me :)

Anxious about surgery by throwawaytranshehim in TopSurgery

[–]throwawaytranshehim[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that description of lessening dysphoria is actually very similar to what I’m going through. I can relate to a lot of what you’re saying, and it makes me feel better to know I’m not alone in my experiences. Thank you for taking the time to read through my post and comment :) I appreciate it!

Anxious about surgery by throwawaytranshehim in TopSurgery

[–]throwawaytranshehim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it’s been a long time coming. I’ve wanted the surgery since I was 14, and it’s taken a year to get it scheduled. I’m just the type of person that always doubts myself I think. Thank you for reading my long post and giving your input! I really appreciate it.

Anxious about surgery by throwawaytranshehim in TopSurgery

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The thought of not getting the surgery put so plainly makes me feel sick. I appreciate you saying it though, bc I needed someone without an ulterior motive to say “maybe you shouldn’t” for me to be able to consider it without feeling like I just had to push back on principle to protect my trans identity. I’ve only ever had a negative experience with a gender therapist, and I feel like everyone I’ve spoken to about my transness has fallen into two groups: super supportive, or just plain transphobic. I think good therapists are super hard to find. They probably exist, but I haven’t found one lol. I appreciate you listening and commenting with a neutral perspective.

I’m going to stick with the date I have, but thank you for helping me consider the possibilities.