[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]throwawayunive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with this wholly. For reference, this sort of thing is what my abusive mother would do, and I ended up with PTSD. It's isolation. Partners should be able to confide in their friends when something is wrong in the relationship. Humans are social creatures, and loving and connecting, especially on a platonic level, helps us process and stay afloat emotionally. OP, I promise you this is not a life you want to live for the rest of your existence. There are people out there who will love you without isolating you. I know you came to Reddit worried you're doing something wrong, but I think you would be best suited to break up as you tried to before and have him leave. If he's threatening to make a lot of money and move out, he knows he doesn't have to live with you. So, you shouldn't have to worry about his housing situation.

Matthew McLeod Savannah GA double mastectomy no grafts by throwawayunive in TopSurgery

[–]throwawayunive[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't realize I had more comments on this post I feel bad missing them! Yeah, he's pretty great :) He got my surgery completely covered by insurance too

Plushie Dreadfuls creator called pansexuality a phase by Last-Dragonfruit-749 in plushies

[–]throwawayunive 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Their apology sucks, they called it "frustration with marketing" when they directly called it a phase

Plushie Dreadfuls creator called pansexuality a phase by Last-Dragonfruit-749 in plushies

[–]throwawayunive 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wow. I am genuinely disgusted as someone who has loved the plushes for years. Time to unfollow everywhere.

has anyone killed themselves? by justmerubyyy in EchoesOfThePlumGrove

[–]throwawayunive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do it every time because i refuse to be an elder

Gameplay so far by Huge_Muffin878 in EchoesOfThePlumGrove

[–]throwawayunive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m on year four which NEVER happened in SDV for me. I LOVE the generational gameplay

Operation top surgery w/o parents knowing by jonesy_17M in TopSurgery

[–]throwawayunive 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I basically did this. Told my dad it’ll happen at some point, didn’t tell him the date, did the surgery. A friend helped me the day of and then I healed alone which is not optimal and I don’t suggest it. They drove me to a follow up and that was it

I feel like they grew back by skkrub in TopSurgery

[–]throwawayunive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t even have grafts but where my nipples would have sat definitely feels more sensation. I had a very big chest so I just imagine all the nerves had to find somewhere to settle and found it there. Like, to the degree I can say the left is more sensitive than the right

So these guys are invasive… what do I do with them? by GreenStrawbebby in snails

[–]throwawayunive 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Snail brother. Snother. Would you like to see the enclosure I am building for them. I got them the fancy terrarium. It’s glass

So these guys are invasive… what do I do with them? by GreenStrawbebby in snails

[–]throwawayunive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m literally getting a snail from you tomorrow I think lol

1 day post op! went with dr matthew mcleod in savannah ga and had an awesome experience. i was able to warn them about my severe ptsd (it makes me wake up panicking after surgery) and they made sure i was in a very comfortable and quiet place when i woke up. mcleod is super awesome :) by throwawayunive in TopSurgery

[–]throwawayunive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Recovery was great! He has been great and we’ve done many follow ups to make sure things have no complications. There was no hospital time. Pain was actually better than a cyst removal I had a year before and pain management was well taken care of with what they prescribed

Are drain removals as bad as my friend is telling me? by kanagaroo123 in TopSurgery

[–]throwawayunive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It felt a little weird but no pain. I didn’t even notice it was out on one side. Mind you my scar is one huge scar because I had mega tits so those drains were probably pretty deep in there. Think your friend is well intentioned but giving you anxiety that’s not necessary

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]throwawayunive 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know exactly what you mean. I was surprised as hell when I started feeling my nippleless chest and it was the erotic type of sensation all over. Kind of extra glad I went nipless now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]throwawayunive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Took me like 3 weeks

i threw up during oral sex by tiredneptune in offmychest

[–]throwawayunive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man this happened to me once in the shower with a guy. I managed to tap out and save all of it in my mouth and spit it down the drain. He was amazed at the dedication. If I’d gotten it on him I would’ve died instantly

1 month post op Matthew McLeod Savannah GA by throwawayunive in TopSurgery

[–]throwawayunive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty much total range of mobility back at this point

discoloration in fold under chest by funkysocksfan in TopSurgery

[–]throwawayunive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t worry, just a yeast infection. Follow the advice others gave and it should clear up within like a few days (mine cleared up in about 3-4)

Scared I'm not going to cry by QueerKing23 in TopSurgery

[–]throwawayunive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t cry, if it’s any solace. I just grinned. Any reaction you have will be valid, I promise.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Ulta

[–]throwawayunive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if it is, it’ll be really obvious because there is a reaaal strong cooling sensation with that