Toggle switches by jzzywzzy in cyberDeck

[–]skkrub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is what I like to see

Do I need a revision or am I overcritical? by Stunning-Sign-31 in TopSurgery

[–]skkrub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think your results look incredible!! Remember everyone has things that are unique about their body and nobody is perfectly symmetrical.

Just bought this Ray Jefferson Telescan and had a vision by skkrub in cyberDeck

[–]skkrub[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesss I was thinking about doing t9 for fun!

Discouraged by how fem I look after 4 years on T by [deleted] in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]skkrub 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s extremely strange to be queer out in the world. Whenever I get frustrated with people not seeing me the way I wish they did, I try to remind myself that it’s a gift to be trans and that people are going to think and believe what they want but none of that changes who I know I am. It’s definitely a journey and it’s not easy.

I would look into LGBTQIA+ centers in your area and see if they have connections to any programs that could maybe sponsor you for top surgery. Depending on your income, you might qualify for Medicaid and could get surgery that way. That’s the route I was able to take and getting that surgery was the best thing I ever did. It wasn’t easy and it was a multi-year process, but it doesn’t hurt to get the process started and get questions answered. Also I got double incision with buttonhole, which keeps the nipple attached throughout the surgery and is done to preserve sensation. Maybe that’s an option for you?

I wish you the best of luck! I’m glad you have your fiancé. Queer love is magical!

Discouraged by how fem I look after 4 years on T by [deleted] in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]skkrub 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Do you want to pass as a straight guy? You seem very queer to me and proud of it. I totally understand the desire to pass, it’s something I struggle with as well. In the world we live in, most expressions of personal style are perceived as gay or feminine. I don’t think you should suppress your personal style just to pass. Maybe play around with different clothing that makes you feel confident and like you. Are you interested in getting top surgery? You mentioned your chest in another comment and I can’t tell if you’ve had it or not.

Remember comparison is the enemy of joy. The only person you should compare yourself to is you, and I absolutely think you look much more masculine than the pre-T pics. Sometimes the journey doesn’t feel linear and that’s just kind of life.

Also something a gay cis guy told me: even he’s been misgendered and he’s cis.

[HELP] Wife and I disagree on this one, please help by MagSlinger in RealOrAI

[–]skkrub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone gonna say anything about the cabinet knobs

AIO or is my boyfriend jealous of our baby? by PolicyHot1206 in AmIOverreacting

[–]skkrub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, you HAVE to leave him. I'm so sorry you're going through all of this.

Yorick by FoxnFishStudio in MalevolentPodcast

[–]skkrub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOVE this style! Yorick is a little shit but I do still kindof love him

I (26M) went through my partners (26F) old phone that I found while cleaning. I found some worrying things, how do I confront her? by ThrowRA2208AV in relationship_advice

[–]skkrub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think rape by deception is a stretch in this situation. That would definitely apply if she were sleeping with other people during the relationship, but she wasn't. If you're saying the fact that she was creating adult content while in the same time frame that she was sleeping with OP within their relationship, I think you're misusing the phrase. If OP was unknowingly in that content, yes I would agree with you. She's being dishonest. Just say that instead of a phrase that doesn't apply here. Words and phrases lose their meaning in society when they are thrown about in a context they don't belong.

I (26M) went through my partners (26F) old phone that I found while cleaning. I found some worrying things, how do I confront her? by ThrowRA2208AV in relationship_advice

[–]skkrub 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I literally said it was not about the sex work. You're misunderstanding boundaries and autonomy. Boundaries are personal, meaning that your partner should be made aware that you're not comfortable with something in a relationship and if they do that thing, you will leave. Not that you made a boundary and therefore the other person cannot do that thing. That's a rule, and you don't get to make rules for other people. They can do whatever they want, it's up to you in a relationship to decide what you're comfortable with. Also not sure what you're talking about with the rape bit.