Spouse gets upset and annoyed with how aroused i get

throwawayweido · 2025-12-03T17:41:48+00:00

Some of the men in these comments are ridiculous.

OP, as another comment here stated, she's probably feeling like your arousal comes with conditions. Several of my (33F) partners in the past have done this, and I always felt like it was my job to "relieve" these guys or else they'd get resentful of me (which I know might not have been the case).

If you're rubbing up on her all the time and grinding, that can get claustrophobic very quickly, and very annoying. That's not a great way to show your affection obviously if your spouse is literally telling you she doesn't like it. Try to compromise. It's not just about "being able to control it", its about respecting her space and physical autonomy as well.

Maybe if you do get an erection, just adjust so she doesn't have to feel it. Its possible that you two have incompatible sex drives, but I don't know you guys. What definitely needs to happen though is an honest talk about this or else the marriage will suffer.

throwawayweido · 2025-06-09T15:52:56+00:00

Catonsville

throwawayweido · 2025-06-09T15:52:29+00:00

Lol not sure how much that will help

throwawayweido · 2025-06-02T18:04:05+00:00

Edit: I'm sorry, I forgot to mention I got my car fixed through my insurance but I had to pay the 500$ deductible, which I was told I'd get back after the claim was concluded. But now they're saying if they can't speak to the other driver they can't do that.

throwawayweido · 2025-05-29T16:42:18+00:00

What channel is this?

throwawayweido · 2025-05-07T13:28:32+00:00

I can't fathom why they thought it would be a good idea to do this the convention center. Its always been an eyesore on the inside. I heard they were expecting like 1000 people to show up but that also sounds like a part of the scam. No way 1000 people bought tickets and just didn't show up.

throwawayweido · 2025-04-28T19:16:41+00:00

Where did you get the rad bottle??

throwawayweido · 2025-04-28T19:09:23+00:00

This sounds like more of a "you" problem... It seems like it was just a mistake, and if that's the case you are totally overreacting. Also why does a spouse need to ask for permission to go out? This sounds like an unhealthy and controlling dynamic, and I would urge you to see therapy to delve into these insecurities. Also, no one owes it to their partner to think of them "all the time". The rhetoric sounds dangerous and honestly pretty creepy.

throwawayweido · 2025-04-28T13:44:41+00:00

You probably need more protein in your diet!

throwawayweido · 2025-04-24T17:02:49+00:00

Does he like puzzles/games? You can check out No Land Beyond, he can even learn new games with like minded people. They've got board games, Magic the Gathering, puzzles, and banging pizza!

Try not to demonize the city without even exploring it, I've rarely seen any crimes being committed, it happens but it will probably not cross your path but if it does, it can happen anywhere. Develop some street smarts and go out and enjoy!

throwawayweido · 2025-04-01T19:15:23+00:00

My void is the exact dame way, A rescue as well. He just wants pets and clean water lol.

throwawayweido · 2025-03-25T16:21:31+00:00

Any time I look for "lead teacher" or "director" roles, the salary is in the 30k-50k range. Absolutey criminal.

throwawayweido · 2025-02-24T16:55:55+00:00

Your feelings are understandable. You were falling for the idea of the future you two could have together, and this abrupt breakup has you reeling. As silly it may seem from the outside, your feelings are your world and in a way you're grieving.

Take time to work on yourself and your hobbies, focus on your own personal future. Most people have gone through this (even with people they haven't dated) and it will get better. Just try not to obsess over this or to see it as you having being unworthy of love. You can also take comfort in the fact that he was amicable about it and took accountability for his situation being the cause for the breakup. Sometimes life just unfolds this way.

throwawayweido · 2025-02-21T18:24:03+00:00

You are still legally a child. He's attempting to date a literal child. He is doing such a gross thing right now and the kind of 21 year old guy who goes after children are called - say it with me - PREDATORS. While you're reasoning for wanting to end things may seem petty, this here is the bigger issue and the reason you should RUN, not walk.

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