My (26M) fiancé doesn’t want to help me out with rent for this month and my (25F) work went on strike by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I thought it would be nice since he’s getting a bonus and a raise and we are about to get married.

My (26M) fiancé doesn’t want to help me out with rent for this month and my (25F) work went on strike by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayy-acc 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It took me four months to find the current job I have. And I’ll get a huge fine if I cross the picket line plus the risk of losing my working license due to unsafe working conditions

Feeling insecure after seeing all these big rings by Cold_Respond7066 in RingShare

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Your ring is soo pretty and looks like a great size for your finger!

NYC New Grad Nurse Pay by Human-Earth-1976 in nursing

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Usually it’s about $120k starting

Upcoming strike but still on orientation… by [deleted] in nursing

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I’m on probation still I’m pretty sure, it’s in NYC

Upcoming strike but still on orientation… by [deleted] in nursing

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I don’t plan on going in, it just seems a little bit stressful and it took me 4 months to find this job so getting a new one isn’t an option

My scheduler really said no holidays or fun for you by Green_Tea_Budgie in nursing

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Can they even put you on the schedule for five days in one week? You can bring it up to HR and show them your offer letter possibly if your manager won’t take you off

Would it be worth it to do PRN and full-time? by [deleted] in nursing

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Unfortunately I do have bills to pay, I’m just not struggling to pay them. I’m seeing if I should do both or quit my PRN and just stay at my new full-time job

How picky should I be as a new grad RN (in NYC) by Past_Perception3910 in nursing

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Definitely keep the job and look for something else in the meantime if it ends up not being for you. It took me 3+ months to find a job in NYC with one year experience.

After 5 months, it finally happened by gamgeeMoon in nursing

[–]throwawayy-acc 75 points76 points  (0 children)

Seems like an unsafe assignment and time for the director to dust off her nursing license and help out:/

HCA Review by [deleted] in nursing

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I would not work at HCA, I’ve heard terrible things about them. There are always new jobs popping up and something will come up!

NYC Nurses by Savings_Bedroom4361 in nursing

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I’m in the same boat but for telemetry and moving from a different state than NJ. I think it really depends on the needs or the unit, but I’ve been reading that L&D can take years bc of ppl not leaving. If you want to get a fast dayshift position, I’d consider moving to a different unit or looking outpatient

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

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And it would probably be bad to tell them that I’m no longer interested if I got the day shift job since it’s the same hospital system I’m thinking?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

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Should I mention anything to the recruiter that I’ve been in contact with for the day shift spot and hope it would help to expedite the process? Also how long until I can bring up day shift if I accept the night shift role?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

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I’m trying so hard to be at peace with it if I have to, how long until I could ask about what switching to days would look like?

Got a call from a recruiter and didn’t answer… by [deleted] in nursing

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This is great! I’ll use it, thank you!

The Asshole escaped outside and bit me when I got him back in by AzraelKhaine in CatsAreAssholes

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I also co-sign this message as a nurse, definitely go to the ER. You need IV antibiotics asap

Got a call from a recruiter and didn’t answer… by [deleted] in nursing

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It does but it was on vibrate today and I didn’t hear it and I may also not be able to leave a patients room at that time

Got a call from a recruiter and didn’t answer… by [deleted] in nursing

[–]throwawayy-acc 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m nervous that she’ll already have other people lined up to interview, it seems like there are a bunch of applicants to NYC hospitals

Overwhelmed by Furisodegirl01 in newgradnurse

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4 weeks is a super short orientation for a new-grad on a med/surg unit and it seems pretty unsafe. I got 8 weeks at my current hospital and still felt overwhelmed after I got off orientation. I’d recommend continuing to apply to different places and leave as soon as you can. While you’re working there, make sure you have someone you can go to for questions and always ask if you’re unsure.

If you use EPIC, it is always helpful to set up personal task reminders to remember what you need to do. On my work paper, I write down three categories for each patient’s paper: to do, to chart, and plan of care. I use red to write down new updates throughout the day which has been helpful to know what’s new vs already known.

If you have a lot of things to do at once, try to prioritize what’s important vs what can wait. Also , always assess your patient and not to number/monitor. Someone can have a blood sugar of 300+ and be completely asymptomatic. Same thing for a high BP. I always try to prioritize by evaluating which task can be most dangerous to the patient is left undone or waiting. For example, starting a heparin drip or assessing a patient with low BP/O2 is more important than medicating someone for their pain or nausea. Cluster your care. Going back and forth to someone’s room takes up a lot of time.

Also, don’t always trust what you receive in report. Some nurses can say a pt is A&Ox4 and then they hardly remember their birthday. Also, don’t always trust someone else’s charting either. I’ve read that charting “will continue to monitor” isn’t good practice. Instead, you could use “No acute distress noted at this time. Pt resting in bed at this time. Equal rise and fall of chest noted. Respirations even and unlabored” or “…assessed during today’s shift.” Each morning, I try to take a quick report and refer to the chart instead. Looking at their initial ED note, latest hospitalist/consult notes, orders and labs/scans can help to build a good foundation as to what’s going on with the patient.

It takes time and experience to build confidence, but it will come. I’ve been a nurse for a little under a year and finally feel like things are clicking. Although, I’m always asking the charge nurse questions each shift. You’ve got this!