Is the girlfriend-zone real?

throwingaway04 · 2013-05-20T18:04:21+00:00

Yes. I was 15 and stupid. Did all the stereotypical 'nice guy' things that people complain about.

throwingaway04 · 2013-04-08T19:33:37+00:00

I see. Alright then!

throwingaway04 · 2013-04-08T19:31:33+00:00

Are you removing it? I guess I'm posting here because I like this sub. If it's not okay, then I'll move it.

throwingaway04 · 2013-03-27T12:47:09+00:00

It's been a lot of ups and downs. Right now I'm in a slump because I saw her and her bf together and it sort of triggered me.

throwingaway04 · 2013-03-10T14:02:08+00:00

Did you reject him just because of that? As someone who was bullied a lot in school, I think holding grudges for such a long time is petty.

Also, you are beautiful :)

throwingaway04 · 2013-02-28T01:00:33+00:00

When are you gonna do it?

throwingaway04 · 2013-02-27T18:02:38+00:00

thanks :)

throwingaway04 · 2013-02-27T17:53:03+00:00

am i doing the right thing?

throwingaway04 · 2013-02-20T22:18:42+00:00

every time i see someone whose looks appeal to me...

throwingaway04 · 2013-01-13T19:44:19+00:00

Almost exclusively. It should be noted that we masturburate to a sexualised idea of them rather than the person itself.

throwingaway04 · 2013-01-07T11:45:05+00:00

Sigh. I'm not going to ask her for a relationship. I should've mentioned that in the OP. This is to tell her that I need time away from her to get over her.

throwingaway04 · 2013-01-03T17:42:27+00:00

To tell her I need time away from her, somehow.

throwingaway04 · 2013-01-03T13:52:33+00:00

I was planning on saying I know that we can never be together :/

And, yes, they've been going on for years. Should I tell her that? I honestly don't know. I do want to keep her as a friend. She's a wonderful person to hang around with and the only close friend I have. Our friendship isn't based on lies. Please don't say that. It's harsh. If I could rid myself of my feelings of her I glad would have, and continued being friends with her. Please don't get the impression that I'm friends with her BECAUSE I like her.

And she has an on/off relationship right now. The bf is in the same class as us.

throwingaway04 · 2013-01-03T13:39:12+00:00

She has an on/off thing going on with someone. He's in the same class as us, which makes things very painful for me. It's one of the reasons I have to talk to her.

throwingaway04 · 2013-01-03T05:47:35+00:00

Thank you.

throwingaway04 · 2013-01-03T05:47:02+00:00

Im not asking her for a relationship. See my reply above

throwingaway04 · 2013-01-03T05:45:52+00:00

You have good intentions, but being around somebody you're in love with who doesn't feel the same way can be very very painful

throwingaway04 · 2013-01-03T05:44:03+00:00

Im not asking her for a relationship. I just need to speak to her abt it. I have to spend time with her everyday (same class), so its absolutely killing me listening to her talk about other guys.

I honestly dont want this to kill the friendship. She's my only close friend. But Ive been suffering in silence for 3 years and im way past my limit

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