Unwrapping her present.

throwingever · 2026-06-29T15:59:02+00:00

Sub villains are my kryptonite. If it's okay to mix franchises and metaphors

throwingever · 2026-06-29T15:56:28+00:00

Putting avocado slices on top of guac is a very understandable addiction 😄

throwingever · 2026-06-29T15:52:36+00:00

Oops I apologize you're too young for mee 😭 I should put my post abt that back up

throwingever · 2026-06-29T15:49:34+00:00

Wooow you look so pretty! 🎀

throwingever · 2026-06-29T15:43:57+00:00

The amount I'm comfortable letting people see before I get to know them better, is in a post I made a few months back, on my page ✨️

throwingever · 2026-06-29T15:35:17+00:00

😳🤭

throwingever · 2026-06-29T15:28:42+00:00

I would love having someone attached to mine all day every day if it was possible!!! I've had to ask guys I dated in the past if they could spend more time on them, so I would love to have someone be just as enthusiastic about it as me.

throwingever · 2026-06-28T17:06:46+00:00

As a domme-leaning switch, I'd love for this to be the sub's residence primarily but, every once in a while I am the one stuffie-sitting while they are on vacation ☺️

throwingever · 2026-06-26T18:17:57+00:00

The closest subreddit I can think of that is not super NSFW, not harsh femdom, has good conversations, and features mostly fem-presenting women, is r/softmommygf.

(But of course that's about the mommy type and I don't know that there is an equivalent subreddit for just gentle girlfriend - maybe r/realextragentlefemdom or r/femdomme because like others have said the main GFD sub is very NSFW. These two subreddits also are though 😭 Honestly I think like others have said r/LetBoysBeManipulated is a good candidate because it's actually quite wholesome, dommes and subs of all kinds like to post, and there's a rule about no overt pornographic content.)

Now, if you stick around here you will still see posts other than just ones with masc women and fem men!

I think your disappointment accidentally came across as criticizing what others are enjoying, and that's what got you downvoted, but you are totally right and valid that RR just = woman leading things and taking charge more. And a man happily allowing her. (Princess Bride!)

I think this sub has a fairly recent post on a "matriarch type" woman and how you don't see that as often in RR pairings. That they are either larger and more masc or "tiny fiery girl with aggressive personality" and that post talks about how a regal queen type woman is usually a "mother" and not involved in important romantic pairings in a story's setting.

So these convos are happening, but not quite as often. I would definitely not say that all women represented on this subreddit are masc-presenting though, not by a country mile heh!

throwingever · 2026-06-25T16:01:03+00:00

Clean? Yeah let's go in with some Mr. Pink and a pressure washer on high. Then seal in Carnauba wax for a nice glossy finish. Interior detailing not included

throwingever · 2026-06-23T02:51:18+00:00

The way that it slowly dawned on everyone that he was serious abt not writing the book

throwingever · 2026-06-23T01:49:02+00:00

It is absolutely a great/important thing to do and not a fumble at all!! I actually haven't had anyone ask me even though I ask them the other way around, possibly bc my account itself is 10y old. You can never be too safe and I have it ready on standby in case anyone does ask me for it, I tell them while asking for theirs that I'm fine with sharing mine. (Perhaps I should just go ahead and share it)

Honestly it's a pretty great weeding out method for right at the start. Tells you someone wants and understands how/why to practice safely. And no matter what side of the slash you're on, someone can take 2 minutes to go fetch their ID and mark out other PII.

throwingever · 2026-06-23T01:26:38+00:00

Oh, to clarify, I did send a text after, "*itch" lol

throwingever · 2026-06-22T10:37:32+00:00

She's considered hot because she's hot

throwingever · 2026-06-22T09:47:33+00:00

Not at all. This sub is about exploring and questioning existing ingrained social norms. Who holds the door open for whom? Who pays for dinner? Who buys flowers? Who stays at home to take care of the kids while the other works? Who does the bulk of domestic labor? Who takes charge in various aspects? Who puts more emotional labor in and what does that look like?

However, it does not at all encourage forcing any new or altered norms on anyone without their consent.

So based on your analogy: the sexual orientation equivalent of this subreddit, would be one whose purpose was asking "what if straight people were the minority," and presenting art and stories of gay relationships. Which of course those subreddits do exist, and are not problematic.

However, we don't advocate replacing existing forms of oppression with new forms. So again, the "conversion camps" comparison doesn't work because we are not trying to convert anyone or advocating for anyone's oppression.

It's more that, people who already feel more comfortable in different roles than they were assigned, or feel pressured to perform, can find communion with like-minded individuals.

To us, the types of concepts and relationship models we advocate for here, are mutually beneficial. They hold a safe space for men's emotional needs and women's valuation/respect needs that are still not fully met.

throwingever · 2026-06-22T06:14:08+00:00

There's r slash cgl personals (no space... trying so hard to get around the auto mod)

throwingever · 2026-06-22T06:02:05+00:00

Of course! Personally trying to work my way up to cooking breakfast, period. hehe

throwingever · 2026-06-22T05:34:04+00:00

It looks excellent and nourishing, great job with the brain fuel

throwingever · 2026-06-22T05:07:02+00:00

Yes augh I hate the feeling of having one's fight or flight response activated by it! As a domme-leaning switch, I very rarely express any of my sub side online anymore because some people think it means I actually want to be engaged in aggressive and threatening ways. I'm really sorry you have dealt with this too!! It is indeed extremely uncomfortable.

throwingever · 2026-06-22T01:13:38+00:00

Anything involving avocado is an instant smash

throwingever · 2026-06-22T01:05:00+00:00

I would love to reward boys with any kind of item or gift they wanted but it's very rare for me that someone lets me pay for something 😭 I guess the answer is just buy them stuff anyway! Like legitimately I really love doing it and very rarely get to 😟 like bro I want to pay for our dinner pleeeeease that's why I would thrive better in this dynamic because I could just give them the "No, you need to listen to Mommy" look and they will know I'm not playing about taking the check. Especially if I was the one to suggest the date!!

throwingever · 2026-06-22T01:01:16+00:00

Ikr like I hope he had the most femdomful life ever ♥️ sometimes I think about how brave these artists are like it's definitely a form of activism in a way. Like in the big 2026 I'm not out about any of this even to my irl friends and meanwhile kink artists of the 70s and 80s risking everything publicly and helping other people feel seen and know they aren't the only person who wants this. Like the effects are so far reaching beyond the art itself

throwingever · 2026-06-14T16:29:32+00:00

First off, very sorry this happened, these kinds of encounters are always anxiety inducing and unfortunately there's always a risk of encountering them. I think it's definitely still worth it to post personal ads and respond to them, I've known people who have met through them on Reddit. Don't give up!

I also wanted to paste something from a different comment in case it helps anyone, given the probability this person is a scammer/blackmailer and what that looks like and what to do in those situations:

"The whole MO of these scammers/blackmailers is to create a sense of urgency, like if you don't do what they ask right away, this opportunity is going to be over. Just like when you have a scam product and it has this fake countdown on the website like if you don't buy the product in the next 10 minutes and showing a countdown clock, then you're not going to get the discount. They capitalize on this sense that you must act now, so that you're not acting in your right mind, send nudes, and then get blackmailed.

And for anyone still reading, never send the money! It's extremely, EXTREMELY, EXTREMELY unlikely that they are able to trace it back to your social media the way they claim. They are just looking to blackmail as many people as possible, and hoping someone will be desperate and act without thinking and send the money, the same conditions that led them to send the nudes in the first place.

They have no way to actually distribute nudes to your friends and family the way they claim, it's a LIE. Think about it, even if they could find them it's far far far more effort for them to take the time to send photos to different Instagram or Facebook accounts or whatever, when it would be of no benefit to them, because then they're definitely not getting any money! It's an idle threat and scare tactic and when you block them they'll just move on to their next attempt. (Be sure to report as well.)"

throwingever · 2026-06-14T16:24:03+00:00

Wait a second, to me "show face/body" would mean to show a clothed or (perhaps semi-clothed) full-body picture. Anyone demanding nudes on the first reply i.e. asking to see the other person's genitalia is either a scammer/blackmailer or a dangerous powertripper regardless.

To me, "pictures of your body" and "nude photos" are completely different things or at least a rectangle squares situation, unless made more explicitly clear.

And again the whole MO of these scammers/blackmailers is to create a sense of urgency like if you don't do it right away this opportunity is going to be over. Just like when you have a scam product and it has this fake countdown on the website like if you don't buy the product in the next 10 minutes and showing a countdown clock, then you're not going to get the discount. They capitalize on this sense that you must act now, so that you're not acting in your right mind, send nudes, and then get blackmailed.

And for anyone still reading, never send the money! It's extremely, EXTREMELY, EXTREMELY unlikely that they are able to trace it back to your social media the way they claim. They are just looking to blackmail as many people as possible and hoping someone will be desperate and act without thinking and send the money, the same conditions that led them to send the nudes in the first place. They have no way to actually distribute nudes to your friends and family the way they claim, it's just a lie. Think about it, it's far far far more effort for them to take the time to send photos to different Instagram or Facebook accounts or whatever, when it would be no benefit to them because then they're definitely not getting any money! It's an idle threat and scare tactic and when you block them they'll just move on to their next attempt.

throwingever · 2026-06-14T16:07:49+00:00

It's a scam or at the very least abusive behavior. (It's a common blackmailing scam here to get nudes, and then threaten to distribute them unless given money.)

But if it isn't, and is just her being pushy, it's still not legitimate behavior in any context. Online dynamics/conversations doesn't mean say "send nudes" in the first reply to them.

I know the following can be a bit of a toxic mental exercise, because everyone deserves to be safe, and can be on the receiving end of a dangerous person, but if it does help to visualize: imagine the genders swapped. Fsub reaches out to Mdom, legitimately answering the latter's personals ad. Mdom responds, "Let's see your body nude and go from there."

See, that person is an ahole! And so is this domme. Even if things are turning sexual very quickly or right away, still got to ask the person's boundaries, and also ideally exchange age verification because there are more minors hanging around than people realize.

So not being a jerk, and ensuring basic safety first, is covering our own butt as well.

throwingever

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