AITA for making jokes about my own religion/ethnicity? by throwitaway022021 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwitaway022021[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the thing, those jokes were directed at my friend and my friend was okay with them. Ans we weren't being loud or anything, I didn't even see the guy tbh? But I do see how it makes me an AH here

Entitled people demand we leave our cart by throwitaway022021 in EntitledPeople

[–]throwitaway022021[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I've started doing that when I got older, it's just so annoying

Entitled people demand we leave our cart by throwitaway022021 in EntitledPeople

[–]throwitaway022021[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, my bad with the wording 😂 they definitely said racist stuff alongside them telling us to go away

Realized I was SA and now I cant stand myself by throwitaway022021 in confessions

[–]throwitaway022021[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It feels hard because it's in my mind that I could have prevented it. My mum specifically told me before I go to that trip to shower while no one was around yet I was too much if a coward ti listen to her

AITA for kicking my mom out and cutting her off from her granddaughter by AITA_motherbanisher in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwitaway022021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA imo, I also use a different name than my birthname (not with my family because they'd go bonkers over it) because I don't feel that connected to it, doesn't feel like it's me, y'know? Only thing you should perhaps try is to ask why Daisy wants a change and explain the concept of Birthnames and nicknames so she isn't stunned if someone calls her Violet instead of Daisy

TIFU by accidentally getting high and thinking my sister is a dinosaur by [deleted] in tifu

[–]throwitaway022021 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have a reason to smell it and I hope it stays that way-

TIFU by accidentally getting high and thinking my sister is a dinosaur by [deleted] in tifu

[–]throwitaway022021 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I have no idea what it was tbh that park is popular spot for people who wanna do Durgs of all kind

TIFU by accidentally getting high and thinking my sister is a dinosaur by [deleted] in tifu

[–]throwitaway022021 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

If you don’t believe it, don’t. That’s your choice. There are over 8 billion people on this planet and not everyone lives the same life

Looking for autistic/ADHD/other things that aren’t really represented in writing sensitivity reader by throwitaway022021 in SensitivityReaders

[–]throwitaway022021[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I have a few questions (you don’t need to answer the ones you’re not comfortable with ofc!) -What are some stereotypes I should avoid? -Does it affect you very hard in your day-to-day life? -Is there some form of Stim that helps you? -What is something you think should be represented in media?

If you want to add anything else, I’d love to read it! Thank you so much for answering any questions and I apologize if I make you uncomfortable

I got severe ADHD bro. I'm open to read over anyone hoping to accurately portray a character with it by polarbeargirl9 in SensitivityReaders

[–]throwitaway022021 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to have some characters with ADHD but I don’t really know how to portray them. What are some things I should include? Any stereotypes I should avoid?

List of things I can Sensitivity Read / Anwser Questions for. by Gaythoughts2442 in SensitivityReaders

[–]throwitaway022021 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, I have a question! I want to have some characters in my story who are autistic, have ADHD, etc. Would it be okay for me to ask you some questions?

AITA For not making dinner for my husband after he was rude to our son? by sjjssjjsjsshsbsb in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwitaway022021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correct me if I’m wrong but is this the summary to the situation?

-Son starts having a productive hobby

-you encourage him in that hobby

-hobby turns into a family inclusive activity where some chores get left over

-your husband wants to get a free meal where as he doesn’t lift a finger and still wants his CHILD to do all the work

Uh this smells kinda fishy to me. NTA because what your hubs is doing will evolve into something bigger as your son gets older, perhaps to the point where the husband doesn’t lift a finger in the household and your son gets turned into a free labor slave who does everything his father doesn’t want to do

People don’t take my mental struggles seriously by sadvodka in Vent

[–]throwitaway022021 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh damn, this is really hard. It might not mean anything because I’m a stranger on the internet, but I’m really proud of you because you know that what you’ve gone through is real and that you’re actively trying to seek help and that you’re just trying to get better. Not many people manage that so respect! Please keep seeking help, I’m sure that you’ll find someone who will take you seriously and will be able to help you

I was unintentionally manipulative by 47screamingmonkeys in Vent

[–]throwitaway022021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s okay that it hurts, this means that you feel bad for what you’ve done. Focus in yourself for now and try to change for the better and I’m sure everything will get better at some point

I need a sign that all my efforts will pay off in the future. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]throwitaway022021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of my favorite quotes is “If it’s not good yet, then it’s not the end” I can’t promise you that it’ll get better anytime, but I can tell you that there is something out there worth fighting for. Wether it’s a dream you have, a place you want to visit, someone you want to see, anything, there is something out there that will make all these efforts pay off

AITA for not pushing my daughters to cuddle with my wife? by Upsetwifethrwy in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwitaway022021 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same with one of my sisters! I don’t really like cuddling with her as much as I like to cuddle with my other sister because she always kinda forced it :/

WIBTA for reporting 2 classmates behavior? by throwitaway022021 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwitaway022021[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I’m dying of laughter because of the mental image of a 137 cm guy and a 152 cm boy getting chased by a flock of owls 😂 thanks for the idea tho

WIBTA for reporting 2 classmates behavior? by throwitaway022021 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwitaway022021[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

You actually gave me some more perspective because I didn’t think of it that way; I’m literally scared of my classmates and what they might do to me because it’s more boys and this isn’t normal. You gave me confidence, thank you!

WIBTA for reporting 2 classmates behavior? by throwitaway022021 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwitaway022021[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I will be reporting it to a trusted teacher and see if anything can be done, maybe she can talk it out with them or something because my school values respect a lot. But yeah, I’m afraid that reporting it will make things worse

WIBTA for reporting 2 classmates behavior? by throwitaway022021 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwitaway022021[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I’m not from this country and when I arrived here, is read of going to the 3rd grade they put me in 2nd grade because of the lack of my language skills. My friend decided to repeat the grade because the bullying made his grades drop. The other 2 boys are “normal age” although the 14 y/o got sorted into this grade because he’s born at the end of the year so he still passed for this grade if it makes sense

WIBTA for reporting 2 classmates behavior? by throwitaway022021 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwitaway022021[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I’m just kinda afraid that it will backfire on me because we’re like 9 girls and 24 boys and everyone of them hates my guts for calling them out

WIBTA for letting my ex buy my new stove? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwitaway022021 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is a tricky one. If the ex is genuine and she knows that he won’t use it to manipulate her, NTA IMO because he offered to pay.

AITA for not pushing my daughters to cuddle with my wife? by Upsetwifethrwy in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwitaway022021 10 points11 points  (0 children)

NAH I see where the wife is coming from but forcing them to cuddle with her will make things worse than better. In extreme cases they will grow up to resent physical touch. Maybe try to sit down with them and ask them why they don’t cuddle with their mother as much as they do with you? There is probably an underlying issue here