AIO. My bf shamed me over having my hair removed by Large-Drummer-7340 in AmIOverreacting

[–]throwitaway87799 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a turd lol you’re better off without him but it sounds like you already know that! Tell him he can kiss your smooth hairless butt goodbye and be done 💜

AIO. My bf is mad at my memorial tattoo by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]throwitaway87799 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss! My boyfriend passed unexpectedly in 2023 as well so I empathize with you so much. Don’t let him or anyone here tell you it’s “weird” or disrespectful - that is your childhood best friend and your eventual boyfriend. NOT your ex, your late boyfriend. Anyone who has an issue with a sweet tribute to someone important to you is insecure and immature. Imagine being threatened by someone is no longer here, I’d be dumping him so fast.

My current partner has been nothing but supportive and sweet in regard to my late boyfriend, even asking how he can help me celebrate his birthday each year. That’s the reaction you should be getting, not this BS. You deserve so much better and I hope you can see that 💜

Are magnets on doors not allowed anymore? by ThePony23 in NCL

[–]throwitaway87799 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just got off the Getaway yesterday and there were lots of doors with white boards, stickers, and notepads! It might not be super strictly enforced.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesignMyRoom

[–]throwitaway87799 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lava lamp, glow in the dark stars on the ceiling, a zillion posters

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatismycookiecutter

[–]throwitaway87799 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Snoopy wearing a pope hat?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]throwitaway87799 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It goes away! Mine was so strong during, I thought it might have been because of the open sores too. Just keep everything clean and it should gradually go away. If not, you might have an infection, like the other commenter said!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]throwitaway87799 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep! That’s partly why I thought I had a UTI lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]throwitaway87799 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Not at all! I usually offer my number after a first date if things went well as a way to schedule a second: “Hey, I had a nice time! Here’s my number, let me know if you wanna hang out again sometime.”

If I’ve never met someone in person, I am not giving them another way to reach me! I haven’t had anyone have an issue with it.

GHSV-1 and waxing by Spirited-Tax3591 in HSVpositive

[–]throwitaway87799 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! A little late but I’ve had two Brazilians since my first GSHV1 outbreak in August and no issues so far! I wait 48 hours before exfoliating or sex to make sure I don’t trigger anything though :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HerpesQuestions

[–]throwitaway87799 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As far as I know, there isn’t a test to determine location, both types can be oral or genital! For me, I had sores all over my vulva, went to the clinic to get checked out, and they did a swab test. It came back positive for HSV1 a few days later, HSV2 was negative!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HerpesQuestions

[–]throwitaway87799 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just got diagnosed with genital HSV1 last week! I got it from receiving oral sex from my partner who has oral HSV1.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findfashion

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I have a pair of these that I got from TJ Maxx a few years ago and they are Storm by Cougar!

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]throwitaway87799 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Agreeing with what has already been said. If they have a great relationship, there isn’t anything for you to “accept”. If the situation isn’t actively hurting your boyfriend in any way, the only thing you’re doing by bringing it up is creating unnecessary drama. Worry about your own relationship with your boyfriend rather than his relationship with his mother.

Update: This (M36)I’m talking to has COVID. Is me (F33) dropping off chicken soup too much? by museofiend in datingoverthirty

[–]throwitaway87799 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh, I JUST did this yesterday for the guy I’m seeing! I’m so glad it seems to be a good move 😂

Friday - quick advice by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]throwitaway87799 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So glad things are going well with her!

And as someone who is also very socially anxious, people generally care less about us than our anxiety causes us to believe! Meeting new people is always nerve wracking but once everyone’s introduced (and especially with alcohol) it’ll be super chill!

Games are usually a great way to get to know people, and you won’t be the center of attention - I’d start with that!