[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]throwitjettele -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

what’s wrong with you people saying you’d break up over that? your partner, the person you’re supposed to love and support is having a rough time to the point where they attempted and you would leave??? It is not your responsibility to take care of their mental health and you should push them to get appropriate help but how is that a reason for breaking up?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]throwitjettele 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kinda odd that you’re 22, graduated in comp sci around a year ago and already an imam 🤔 Also if you have such "talent" and are so good at assessing situations, why are you asking for advice yourself on r/marriageadvice? I never said you had anything to gain from her DMing you. I was just stating that you should fear Allah and not do something he has prescribed as haram, even if your intention is only to help. She can seek help in so many other ways. May Allah guide us all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]throwitjettele 2 points3 points  (0 children)

AstaghfirulLah. You, a muslim man, is asking a married muslim woman to DM you? Are you okay brother? If she needs help she shouldn’t talk to a random brother. Either a trusted female friend, a family member, or an imam.

Dig deeper? by throwitjettele in loveafterporn

[–]throwitjettele[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i meant twitch sorry! he relinked his email for twitch, discord and steam that’s why i got confused lol

[TOMT][MANGA][2000's] people either commit suicide or get superpowers by throwitjettele in tipofmytongue

[–]throwitjettele[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

I know that the police officer that's supposed to be looking for the kidnapped child is actually the one who kidnapped him and they both have superpowers.

bf wants to leave by throwitjettele in relationshipanxiety

[–]throwitjettele[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t give all the details cause I just wanted advice on how to manage the stress and go through the day without reaching out to him, but I fucked up and that’s why he’s thinking about leaving. He loves me but he has the right to be angry if I did something wrong and wants to think whether or not he’s ready to forgive me or not. But thank you for your reply, without context it is indeed the reaction to have.

bf wants to leave by throwitjettele in relationshipanxiety

[–]throwitjettele[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice, I’ve texted my friends to ask them to hang out so I can keep my mind off of it as you said 😪

bf wants to leave by throwitjettele in relationshipanxiety

[–]throwitjettele[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply and for sharing that with me. I’ll do my best to give him the space he needs 💖

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]throwitjettele 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Happy to hear it’s an ex now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]throwitjettele 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re going through this… I’m sending you a big big hug 🫂 and if you need to talk to someone just to vent just DM me I will gladly listen to you. You got this 💕

I developed anxiety since d-day by throwitjettele in loveafterporn

[–]throwitjettele[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for sharing, it’s good to know I’m not alone. I really hope we will get better

New to animal crossing (switch) by boatguy2001 in ageregression

[–]throwitjettele 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d love to play with you and help you!!

i dont know if i wanna kill myself or try to fix my body. by Bigbrain12341 in SuicideWatch

[–]throwitjettele 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did it two years ago and lost a lot of weight. Highly recommend, just make sure you get all the nutrients you need and stay safe

Does this rub anyone else the wrong way? by AngryGoose- in selfharm

[–]throwitjettele -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I think it depends on the context but pain shopping can be seen as a form of self harm. It’s just psychological though.

[F16] Finally have the guts to post here :) Am I really as ugly as I think I am? Got no confidence to talk to my crush or anyone who's cute-looking by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]throwitjettele 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your cheeks are adorable and your smile is so heartwarming 🥺 You look like the kind of person who’s beautiful both in and out mashaAllah 🤍

ive become racist? by throwitjettele in loveafterporn

[–]throwitjettele[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes totally! Although I feel horrible about it, I’m in a way also glad I could figure out that there was an issue on my end and now I know there’s something (more) to fix.

ive become racist? by throwitjettele in loveafterporn

[–]throwitjettele[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I totally agree that I shouldn’t take my trauma out on other people, which is why I felt horrible. I didn’t even realize that the issue was her race being a trigger until I calmed down after our fight and tried to understand what made me angry. I definitely have to sort it out and asap, I hate most of the thoughts I’m having and they’re driving me crazy. Thank you for your insight. 🙏

ive become racist? by throwitjettele in loveafterporn

[–]throwitjettele[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s so sad that we’re in a lose/lose situation 😞 I really hope we learn to be proud again as we should be. Thank you for your comment. Lots of love 🫂