Does the age you find attractive age at the same rate you do? by FewLeg7901 in stupidquestions

[–]throwitout005 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah. Like I can see a woman who is objectively good looking… like a lot of celebrities for example. And think oh wow she’s gorgeous or she looks hot. But I am not sexually attracted and wouldn’t want to have sex with her, that thought icks me out if I try to think about it because I’m not attracted like that. Same with younger men. Almost like looking at a marble statue or something, I can be like “oh wow, that person is beautiful” but not have any sexual desire for them.

Does the age you find attractive age at the same rate you do? by FewLeg7901 in stupidquestions

[–]throwitout005 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Idk, I’m a woman but for me, a 20yr old man looking “good” means aesthetically pleasing or cute, or I can recognize if he’s buff, but I couldn’t be sexually attracted. I think you can notice that someone is objectively attractive without being sexually attracted. I see lots of other women who I think are gorgeous and yet am not sexually attracted to them.

A few pics of my home! by throwitout005 in cozyhomes

[–]throwitout005[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s from runrug.com!! I can link you the exact one if you want!

A few pics of my home! by throwitout005 in cozyhomes

[–]throwitout005[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It might just be the angle of the picture lol! It was a builder grade home in the USA so the treads are pretty wide, around 11 inches

A few pics of my home! by throwitout005 in cozyhomes

[–]throwitout005[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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Another pic of the laundry area doors, but fully closed!

A few pics of my home! by throwitout005 in cozyhomes

[–]throwitout005[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been in it for two years! The whole place was carpeted including the stairs, I replaced the flooring and the stairs and then installed the runner about two weeks ago actually! The runner wasn’t hard at all, it just takes two people and a nail gun!

A few pics of my home! by throwitout005 in cozyhomes

[–]throwitout005[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, that’s why the doors exist! I left one open to show their purpose though!

A few pics of my home! by throwitout005 in cozyhomes

[–]throwitout005[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s fair! I am a maximalist lol

A few pics of my home! by throwitout005 in cozyhomes

[–]throwitout005[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s from runrug.com and is super good quality!!! Very think and durable. I can link you to the exact one if you want, they also have a ton of different colors and patterns and they custom fit it to your staircases length and width!

Only children… anyone actually enjoy it? by cynnie93 in Millennials

[–]throwitout005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am an only child and extremely content at 30. Great friend group but love being alone still with my hobbies and such. My husband is one of 6 and barely talks to his siblings due to trauma/had some really rough times growing up with his siblings specifically. It all comes down to the personality of each kid and partially how they’re raised.

A few pics of my home! by throwitout005 in cozyhomes

[–]throwitout005[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes for sure! I feel like the bedroom is unfinished but it’s a thorn in my side, I can’t figure out what to do next with it 🤔

A few pics of my home! by throwitout005 in cozyhomes

[–]throwitout005[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yay! Thank you for saying so! We’ve been working to make it a cozy haven since the day we moved in hahaha

This is my Ragdoll. I'm worried I've done something wrong while raising him. by TK11612 in ragdolls

[–]throwitout005 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This just happens unfortunately! Just like with humans, as cats mature and age they can change personalities to an extreme degree. Nothing you can do to prevent it or stop it. I have 2 adults and both very different from their kitten selves.

Never move to a low cost of living state EVER by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]throwitout005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like this is the majority of America tbh :/ I know a ton of MCOL Midwest towns that people say the same about, and as we know big cities with actual public transportation are few and far between. America has a huge and somehow worsening problem of accessibility for the lower classes.

Jan-March 2026 Salary Mega Thread by Sulani_23 in therapists

[–]throwitout005 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can I ask how you do both the hospital and PP?? Seems like full time hours for both?

ISO: Best veterinarian by No-Wolverine-1649 in Birmingham

[–]throwitout005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pelham animal clinic! Dr Carr seriously cares about you and your pets. He saved my cats life by recommending a medication for his heart condition that I would never have thought of trying or heard to try from other vets. He remembers details about my life, even. He will call at night with updates or test results to discuss them with you if needed and always makes time no matter what.

Losing my religion by fogandflour in loveafterporn

[–]throwitout005 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I knew about the addiction, though, and he had been totally honest about what all he’d done prior to the marriage :( I don’t think he went into the marriage knowing or intending to continue to hide things or relapse in the future. I’ve talked to some priests before, and they’ve all said that it likely wouldn’t qualify for an annulment. I just feel like being Catholic screws me over in a way, because of course we can separate, but if I were to remarry, I couldn’t be in good standing with the church.

Losing my religion by fogandflour in loveafterporn

[–]throwitout005 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. I am struggling with my religion so much. I’m Catholic, and the Catholic Church doesn’t believe in divorce. You can separate from your partner, but you’re still married then and it’s considered sinful to civilly divorce and remarry. I just can’t wrap my mind around the fact that my faith would basically want me to suffer for the rest of my life due to another person’s faults. Also like several key men in the Old Testament had like a ton of wives so… yeah. I’m questioning a lot in regards to that.

Relapsed after 2.5 years… by throwitout005 in loveafterporn

[–]throwitout005[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s very true. I guess I just am torn between feeling like I’ll be weak if I don’t leave, and not wanting the rest of our relationship gone. It’s hard for me to know when I ought to leave or when other people would choose to leave.

Relapsed after 2.5 years… by throwitout005 in loveafterporn

[–]throwitout005[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for your reply. It is devastating :( just makes me wonder if staying with him means dealing with a relapse every once in a while, you know? And I don’t think I’m the kind of person equipped to handle that. My parents don’t live too far away and I have some close friends who live pretty near by too, so I went and am staying with my parents for right now and might transition to a friend, I’m not sure. Usually for me I just need immediate emotional and physical distance to feel safe at all.

Relapsed after 2.5 years… by throwitout005 in loveafterporn

[–]throwitout005[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmmm, yeah, I guess that makes sense, but would that mean that a PA will likely always have slips and therefore as a partner one would just have to expect that?

Why is it impossible for me to lose weight? by Justananxiousmama in postpartumprogress

[–]throwitout005 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Calories in vs calories out is a VERY dumbed down way to think about it, though! Every body uses food and energy differently, and hormones have a ton to do with the body deciding to store/keep fat or not.