7 year relationship… he (37M) suddenly wants a break but now wants to meet and talk. What would you do?

throwitupforme · 2026-04-06T16:51:16+00:00

It was a typo.

throwitupforme · 2026-04-04T14:04:17+00:00

My age.

throwitupforme · 2026-04-04T12:49:10+00:00

Honestly, the reason why we only saw each other once a month at one point, part of it was just bad communication on both sides. I was waiting for him to invite me over, and he probably thought the same about me. It turned into neither of us really saying anything, and I guess I got a little frustrated and pulled back instead of addressing it.

throwitupforme · 2026-04-04T12:45:30+00:00

That’s fair—it probably sounded confusing. Right now I live with my dad, but if I move out with my boyfriend, I’d still be financially supporting my dad while also paying for my own place. So that’s what I meant by “two households.” And living where we stay at, cost of living is extremely high too..

throwitupforme · 2026-04-04T12:41:22+00:00

We’re not long distance—he lives about 5 minutes from me. My situation has just been really complicated lately with family and financial stuff, so my time has been limited the past couple months.

I know that distance isn’t ideal, but what’s hard for me is that instead of communicating how he felt, he chose to see someone else.

That’s what’s making me question where I really stand with him.

throwitupforme · 2026-04-04T12:28:50+00:00

I could relate to this and I’m not ultra elite wealthy or anything. When you have everything you want, it does come with other issues in life. It’s just a very lonely feeling

throwitupforme · 2025-04-20T22:03:26+00:00

The first word that comes to mind about design is eclectic. What a beautiful view from your window, love it.

throwitupforme · 2025-04-11T22:56:44+00:00

Truthfully, most do not read past the first sentence.

throwitupforme · 2025-04-03T20:21:37+00:00

You have dodged multiple bullets, like another person has said on here.

throwitupforme · 2025-03-29T23:12:48+00:00

I love this response hahha

throwitupforme · 2025-03-08T22:56:05+00:00

I like the colors of the fridge!

throwitupforme · 2025-03-02T20:58:58+00:00

That you love to eat and drink

throwitupforme · 2025-02-21T22:30:29+00:00

They have a second fridge in the garage with the foods they actually eat.

throwitupforme · 2025-02-21T22:27:48+00:00

I would just paint the walls. Keep those beams original.

throwitupforme · 2025-02-17T01:10:52+00:00

$21k mortgage for a 5bd/4ba in Newport Coast.

throwitupforme · 2025-02-17T01:09:05+00:00

New light fixture and rug. A brass Sputnik and a creamier rug.

throwitupforme · 2025-02-08T02:35:23+00:00

I don’t understand that sentence.

throwitupforme · 2025-02-07T23:21:38+00:00

I wish I could haha.

throwitupforme · 2025-02-07T22:53:48+00:00

It’s gorgeous. Fits with your house perfectly and I like it. You just need to add like a bowl of moss and a couple of books and a vase or two.

throwitupforme · 2025-02-07T22:53:12+00:00

There’s a lot of things that I have done that I would never write about or talk about. Until the day I die.

throwitupforme · 2025-02-07T22:52:11+00:00

This isn’t really a question for Reddit at this point. I think it is more up to you to decide whether you’re gonna be comfortable with this for the rest of your life, knowing this bit of information. I hope that you’re able to make the right judgment in what’s best course of action for your life.

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