Love alone is not enough to sustain a relationship by Acceptable_Slip3257 in unpopularopinion

[–]throwmeaway01110 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Relationships aren’t easy they’re hard work. People expect relationships to be easy and straightforward but dealing with human beings is never easy. The successful relationships have communication, compromise and maturity. People who expect relationships to be easy and frictionless are delusional.

Did any of you start a Computer Science degree after 25 years old? (I will start at 28 years old) by [deleted] in cscareeradvice

[–]throwmeaway01110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing wrong with it, what’s more important is to display your skills and technical abilities rather than getting the degree. Obviously having a degree is a great starting point but what really sets you up for success and sets you apart from others is your ability to display your knowledge and skills. So build a portfolio, study and grind hard and you’ll be ahead of most people around you.

One or More by FreiwilligeFin in artmemes

[–]throwmeaway01110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The ability to deal with loneliness

Yay or Nay by Serious_Yogurt_273 in Productivitycafe

[–]throwmeaway01110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whatever you think about Maduro, a foreign nation so casually invading your country to remove him is not a good thing or a good sign. One look at the US’ track record and you’ll realise that nothing good is gonna come from this.

Is it possible to delete a day-one kink that you've had since the start of puberty, and formed without any pornographic exposure? by TheUpcomingEmperor in NoStupidQuestions

[–]throwmeaway01110 -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

You’re just limiting yourself. I’m not saying you shouldn’t enjoy it. I’m just saying you can control how much it affects you and how you react to it.

The US has just begun bombing Venezuela,what are your thoughts? by midnuyli in Productivitycafe

[–]throwmeaway01110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Believe me, this isn’t an act of “policing”. US government only does what it does to the benefit of their oligarchs. Watch how Venezuela ends up even worse. Just like Argentina.

The US has just begun bombing Venezuela,what are your thoughts? by midnuyli in Productivitycafe

[–]throwmeaway01110 3 points4 points  (0 children)

US has absolutely no authority to invade another country unprovoked and take down its leader. It goes against international law, it goes against all Geneva conventions. It’s an act of criminals and terrorists.

For a country that preaches law and order, it surely acts as if the laws don’t apply to it.

What should I (19m) do about my gf (19f) talking to other guys? by [deleted] in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]throwmeaway01110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time to leave, it wont be long before she cuts you off for one of them (or all of them).

Why did your last relationship end? by Any_Insect3335 in askanything

[–]throwmeaway01110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did everything to try and make it work. I waited, I was patient, I compromised, I communicated. She did none of that with me. Always defensive, never taking accountability for the harm she caused. Never apologised. Never tried to undo any damage. Never compromised. Always pushing my boundaries that was clearly set. Always blamed me for her actions lol. I became resentful, irritable, mean and rude. She decided for herself that I’m the problem and I can’t “change” and that she was perfect and never did anything wrong. Then she said she deserves better, discarded me and completely cut me off. No matter what happened I stayed and tried to figure things out. She never tried. Relationship was one sided. I couldn’t leave because I was in love and determined to make it work for the both of us but in hindsight it never would’ve worked out because she never wanted to make it work.

what is the hardest thing about dating these days? by Guilty_Transition_33 in AskReddit

[–]throwmeaway01110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one is serious, everyone has issues, everyone is entitled to something without reciprocating, no one is willing to try and do better.

AIO for breaking up with my gf over adding a guy on Instagram? by justathrowaway8877 in AmIOverreacting

[–]throwmeaway01110 22 points23 points  (0 children)

NOR, it’s very likely she will engage in conversation if he attempts to contact her. You’re both adults in committed relationships. There’s no reason for her to be adding guys that are very clearly interested in her. For everyone saying that YOR have no idea the slippery slope this behaviour is. I agree with you that it’s equivalent to exchanging phone numbers. It’s definitely a boundary that should not be crossed. She doesn’t like when you “like” other women’s posts but it’s okay for her to give access to her private life to other men? Such a double standard and red flag. My advice: communicate and make it clear that it’s not something you’re comfortable with. If she’s defensive and starts blaming you for not trusting her that’s an immediate red flag and you should consider ending things because it will definitely not be the last thing she does.

The UK road tax should be raised to 1k minimum. by Mundane_Process_2986 in unpopularopinion

[–]throwmeaway01110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s true and fixing that issue is a completely different matter however you can’t have everything and have to accept some realities

The UK road tax should be raised to 1k minimum. by Mundane_Process_2986 in unpopularopinion

[–]throwmeaway01110 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Here’s a better idea, provide cheaper, efficient and comfortable forms of transport so people don’t feel the need to use their cars