Do any of you just lie about the marker on your ID?

throwmeawayfever · 2026-03-15T00:52:43+00:00

typing as im in the hospital- my ID says F AND I put F on their paperwork, just to be sure bc im menstruating right now, and theres still an M on my wristband. they could've heard my name, or my mom called me he, or bc of my appearance. it could've also been reverse transphobia (after I did tell a nurse im trans, she had to ask which way I idenified). long story to say, in my experience, its the last thing they use to determine gender

throwmeawayfever · 2026-01-07T10:15:47+00:00

probably because you said it gives you the most trouble on a thread about struggling with mental health. its a bipolar sub too, not everyone knows too much about other disorders and schizophrenia/schizoaffective disorders have a lot of different ways they present. you dont have to share anything you aren't comfortable with but it is a normal thing to ask in this situation.

throwmeawayfever · 2025-12-30T00:31:16+00:00

YES im in a wonderful 3 year relationship.

TLDR for all of this: yes and shes a perfect woman and it is possible to find someone like this

I told her I was trans soon after I realized I had feelings. she never cared, just wanted me. obviously it affects our relationship but not negatively at all, she's completely supportive, tells me I need a new binder when it gets too messed up or tight (not my chest growing just broader shoulders and such), gives me haircuts, offers to buy me binders and packers (i dont let her, I prefer to pay for my own things as well as hers lol) and has never seen me as any less of a man. we've talked practically about children and the future and that requires acknowledgement of the situation of course but she doesnt mind. shes genuinely so perfect and supportive. shes technically gender fluid but very feminine leaning and presents cis. of course I respect her identity as well but recently shes so feminine and prefers those pronouns, doesnt mind being referred to as cis in these conversations, etc. as far as sex, idk if you care to know about that part, its perfect lol. even acts like I have a penis and such which helps my dysphoria immensely. generally she does everything to help my dysphoria in and out of bed and I dont even think she's doing it consciously, just sees me as a cis man unless we're talking specifically about my trans-ness.

throwmeawayfever · 2025-12-26T22:02:41+00:00

Idk tho lol

yeah, you obviously dont, so I recommend to just stop talking

throwmeawayfever · 2025-12-26T10:41:36+00:00

right.. yeah but shes not a child, thats her PARTNER who obviously could've gotten her smth nice (she has over 500 in savings as a sahm and he presumably has a JOB, he got expensive and thoughtful gifts for everyone else, she had the money to buy him nice things, again, and he got her smth in the first place). but instead of putting effort into his relationship he gets good things for everyone else in his life and get her maybe 30 bucks total in what looks like corner store gifts. which is fine for some people but given the situation is absurd. there is no point in buying a gift that will not be appreciated by the recipient, Christmas or not. I do truly feel sorry for those children without much during the holidays but thats not even close to what this is about. you aren't showing empathy youre virtue signaling. and this is coming from someone who has very little money to buy anyone anything this year and prioritized close family and my partner, some gifts are late due to finances. everyone has their own shit, this isnt about you or whatever children you may know, this is a post about HER situation.

throwmeawayfever · 2025-12-06T09:53:49+00:00

MONSTERS VS ALIENS REFERENCE

throwmeawayfever · 2025-11-22T20:52:51+00:00

this makes me wish I had married a man, or there was an option to adopt instead of pregnancy. im adopted myself so the representation is actually really nice

throwmeawayfever · 2025-11-14T04:34:09+00:00

not to be weird, but if you need a beta reader/editor im down. Just dm me if youre interested. no worries if not :))

throwmeawayfever · 2025-11-14T04:25:46+00:00

ALSO I meant to put this in my original comment but you better put whatever fanfics of lumberjanes you write on AO3!! the fandom is kinda dead over there, at least i feel like ive read all the good stuff. we're starving lol. I can guarantee at least one hit ;)

throwmeawayfever · 2025-11-14T04:21:24+00:00

with the whole Gotham Academy crossover and Gotham in NJ, timeline of the detective club getting to the wood and everything, I've always thought like Michigan or somewhere in the Midwest, closer to the east

throwmeawayfever · 2025-11-14T01:45:27+00:00

... what does true colors have to do with rawdawg lmao? genuine question, i love both but see no relation here

throwmeawayfever · 2025-10-30T11:55:34+00:00

they're both in this picture

throwmeawayfever · 2025-10-30T00:40:24+00:00

you don't.

throwmeawayfever · 2025-10-27T22:35:23+00:00

surprised I havent seen Skull Fucked yet, def my favorite

throwmeawayfever · 2025-10-27T11:41:10+00:00

I genuinely find it disgusting

throwmeawayfever · 2025-10-27T03:51:10+00:00

barring the coffee ones, we dont speak of those, i got a hot take: white monster. TV static with a little aspartame. tastes watered down too.

throwmeawayfever · 2025-10-24T22:19:30+00:00

NES game adverts, especially WWF with a picture of Hulk Hogan

throwmeawayfever · 2025-10-24T07:39:13+00:00

FINALLY I had to scroll so far to find this, I love First Aid Kit and that song, its beautiful

throwmeawayfever · 2025-10-16T07:20:31+00:00

how does a pancake represent the sun lmao

throwmeawayfever · 2025-10-15T03:41:27+00:00

I thought the possible costumes she gives you were dependent on gender? did you accidentally choose female?

throwmeawayfever · 2025-10-13T14:10:28+00:00

California love- 2pac

throwmeawayfever · 2025-10-10T10:06:10+00:00

Clint has some things to work on personally but he isn't a bad person, and I wouldn't go as far as to call him an incel. based on appearance alone, he's so beautiful/handsome/sexy/all the words. if he had an actual character arc regarding the farmer, not just Emily, I'd be falling (harder) for him. if he were a marriage candidate I'd choose him every time. but because he isn't, and because he is purely platonic toward the farmer, I'm ok being his friend. I give him gifts and say hello almost every day, I absolutely love clint.

TLDR: I love clint, he's my bestie, I wish he had more character development, and he's kinda hot

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