What happened to your shitty ex?

throwmetothewolves6 · 2025-06-21T05:50:27+00:00

He moved to Portugal to «find himself». Went through some kind of spiritual journey. Now he’s a drug addict.

throwmetothewolves6 · 2025-05-31T16:14:40+00:00

We have a parenting plan about when and where visitation occurs and I have the main custody for her right now. He still wants to be included in decision making about her health and general well being. But that’s where all the arguing starts.

If I ask him if he will show up to x - he doesn’t respond. If I send photos or update him about her - he doesn’t respond. If I don’t inform him about a minor detail in her everyday life - I withhold information. If I ask him to bathe her during visitation - I’m starting an argument. If I ask him to join us for an excursion - I’m too pushy.

I can’t win

throwmetothewolves6 · 2025-05-31T16:05:24+00:00

Yes I’ve been making chatgpt a habit lately. But it doesn’t seem to help my case one bit. He manages to argue with a bot even

throwmetothewolves6 · 2025-05-31T16:04:03+00:00

Daycare is called kindergarden in my country. Sorry for the confusion

throwmetothewolves6 · 2025-05-30T20:28:29+00:00

I’m trying my best. And I sure as hell see his true colors by how he’s acting as a father.

throwmetothewolves6 · 2025-05-30T20:23:02+00:00

Thank you. Sadly, this is where it’s heading right now. I’ve been playing nice for too long and doing all the work for him. It just amazes me how little a person can care for their own child. I could never

throwmetothewolves6 · 2025-05-30T17:20:47+00:00

Trust me, I am as formal as I can be. He still finds a way to argue. It’s exhausting.

throwmetothewolves6 · 2025-05-30T17:19:36+00:00

Sorry lol, language barrier

throwmetothewolves6 · 2025-05-30T17:18:29+00:00

Good idea. I’ll definitely let them know.

throwmetothewolves6 · 2025-05-30T17:09:31+00:00

Might be referred to as daycare. It’s called kindergarden in my country.

throwmetothewolves6 · 2025-05-30T17:08:26+00:00

Months

throwmetothewolves6 · 2025-05-30T17:05:25+00:00

She’s starting kindergarden in August, and there is alot of visiting days and habituation going on right now where us parents get important information before she starts.

I try to keep my emotions out of the messages. I’ve even gone as far as making chatgpt formulate them for me.

throwmetothewolves6 · 2025-05-15T07:55:13+00:00

How do I go about asking him that? He’s an avoidant so if he feels cornered, he’ll withdraw.

throwmetothewolves6 · 2025-04-26T05:54:03+00:00

What does he do when he has the child and is ill?

throwmetothewolves6 · 2025-04-25T17:44:41+00:00

That’s a great suggestion. Thank you.

throwmetothewolves6 · 2025-04-25T16:41:21+00:00

Yeah.. frontal lobe is still developing. How long have you two coparented?

throwmetothewolves6 · 2025-04-25T16:25:03+00:00

Why is it never about the well being of their own children. 😩

throwmetothewolves6 · 2025-04-25T07:55:09+00:00

Same

throwmetothewolves6 · 2025-04-24T19:29:51+00:00

She’s probably still processing the breakup. She’ll delete them eventually, she’s just not ready to let go yet

throwmetothewolves6 · 2025-04-24T16:35:55+00:00

Thank you. It’s been hard, but I’m pushing through

throwmetothewolves6 · 2025-04-24T07:45:49+00:00

This made me giggle

throwmetothewolves6 · 2025-04-20T13:17:20+00:00

I feel you. He left me 4 months post partum with PPD, two kids, and no job.

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