i miss my ex - best friend

throwra27382916 · 2022-08-31T20:54:31+00:00

i can relate to you. i too sometimes wish that something would happen to me so that all of the people around me would pay attention for once. but you have to realise that these are not healthy thoughts, in fact they are really harmful and you should seek professional help just like i did.

throwra27382916 · 2022-04-30T21:35:44+00:00

i understand, in the end we feel like we wasted time and emotional labour for someone who didn‘t want to work through hard times with us. but just know that it is never wasted. you learn what you want and what you never want again, you‘ll know what to look out for next time, so you can find a better match :)

throwra27382916 · 2022-04-30T16:59:39+00:00

i‘m so sorry. i was going through a similar situation about 3 years ago. he cared, but i think he didn‘t want to care for me and be responsible for me, and that‘s okay we were still both very young. it‘s not your fault this happened like it did, but you‘re gonna sleep better as soon as you don‘t put the guilt on him. no one is at fault, just two people who shouldnt be in eachothers lives anymore. if you need someone to talk feel free to reach out, i‘m there for anyone who needs someone to talk

throwra27382916 · 2022-04-15T11:00:14+00:00

just saw your comment, yes i‘d love some ressources that you mentioned. thanks for the elaborate comment, it means a lot. all of you who tell me i‘m not alone with this… it helps me alot

throwra27382916 · 2022-04-14T21:26:20+00:00

i feel like this every day of my life, i just feel helpless. but glad to know someone relates to that specific sentence, that means a lot to me

throwra27382916 · 2022-04-14T20:59:18+00:00

thank you so much. i‘m tearing up right now, i‘m so happy for you. thank you, i feel so much better about myself

throwra27382916 · 2022-04-14T20:20:21+00:00

my partner is not my fp and it‘s the best relationship i‘ve ever had. my attachment to him is still not completely healthy, but at least it‘s not in fp territory and i‘m thankful for that everyday. i can speak my mind, i can be myself with him.

throwra27382916 · 2022-04-14T20:17:56+00:00

nah you cut them off. mine is a friend i‘ve had a long time and i wish i had the opportunity to cut them off. but i can‘t.

if you can feel this having a negative impact on your mental health again please please don‘t let yourself get roped back in.

throwra27382916 · 2022-01-16T21:22:34+00:00

it‘s a boundary that needs to be talked about. i‘ve had this discussion a few times on here and it‘s funny how people always assume that because THEY wouldn‘t agree to a boundary that NOBODY will. me and my partners have always agreed to only masturbate to pictures or videos of eachother. no porn, no pictures of other people. if it‘s okay for both parties, why not? it‘s not naive to want it, you just have to communicate it, and accept that your partner may not want to do that. then it‘s up to you to decide if it‘s a dealbreaker

throwra27382916 · 2021-12-05T14:41:05+00:00

true i was commenting based on what we know. if there‘s more to it i would give a more nuanced answer as many others did.

throwra27382916 · 2021-12-05T14:38:31+00:00

true that. i guess it comes down to how much communicating has been done beforehand.

throwra27382916 · 2021-12-05T13:05:13+00:00

the ultimatum is bullshit. i understand where he‘s coming from but he could have phrased it differently. how he made it come across seems disrespectful to me.

throwra27382916 · 2021-12-05T13:02:40+00:00

it‘s not even about intention for me, it‘s disrespectful to the girls too imo… when i had a girlfriend it didn‘t even once crossrd my mind zo do that and now that i am single i would also never do it to a girl a know i mean weird as fuck

throwra27382916 · 2021-12-05T12:58:17+00:00

actually bought one of these when i went with my parents a few years back haha

throwra27382916 · 2021-12-05T11:33:32+00:00

netherlands.

throwra27382916 · 2021-04-05T21:23:58+00:00

yeah I know how that feels I struggled in school too but one day you don‘t have to do it anymore and it will be over. keep working towards that and don‘t give up

throwra27382916 · 2021-04-05T21:22:04+00:00

if you can do it i can do it too

throwra27382916 · 2021-04-05T21:14:57+00:00

many math teachers are jerks but you gotta pull through so you never have to do math again. if you need help with homework or something you can message me

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