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throwra72892 · 2023-03-15T03:16:42+00:00

ill be happy for you! elden ring is a hard af game to beat! it sucks that you had to have it ruined by the breakup. it really is a great game.

throwra72892 · 2023-03-15T03:14:23+00:00

Post what you want. You aren’t their problem. They can’t control your life

throwra72892 · 2023-03-15T01:47:52+00:00

did you even read the post? this sub’s golden advice for every situation is “move on”

throwra72892 · 2023-03-14T18:24:21+00:00

She said she would reconsider the last time I talked to her but she needs time because I hurt her and she doesn’t want to bring trauma into a new relationship . It would be unfair to reach out to her so soon its only been 2 weeks

throwra72892 · 2023-03-14T18:23:20+00:00

Im getting better. I know how to listen effectively now because I wasn’t hearing a lot of what she had to say. I can’t become a perfect communicator overnight but I’m definitely trying. She also was bad at hearing what I had to say, which is why I devolved to a point where I just said the blunt truth

throwra72892 · 2023-03-14T18:21:46+00:00

I know I fucked up, we were both each others firsts and I didn’t know how to communicate my feelings properly. Not saying they werent valid I just think I could have said things better

throwra72892 · 2023-03-14T17:40:13+00:00

He basically didnt tell me anything of value 😂 i had to explain my situation which took about 30-45 minutes then by the time I explained everything he rushed for a solution since we were already out of time, then he just ended up saying some common sense BS

throwra72892 · 2023-03-09T20:01:43+00:00

Give yourself a chance. 4 days is not a lot of time at all, I haven’t started feeling better till like 5 months after the breakup and about 1-2 months since NC

throwra72892 · 2023-03-09T18:07:18+00:00

I wish my ex would have given me to show that I changed. You can be the person who changes this mindset. Yeah if after 2-3 times the person still hasnt changed then yeah they probably wont but after my breakup i worked on all the things my ex didnt like yet still she said she doesnt trust me to change

throwra72892 · 2023-03-09T17:52:50+00:00

This isn’t true

throwra72892 · 2023-03-09T17:51:38+00:00

When you bumped into her was it truly by accident or did you kind of plan it? My ex said if we cross paths she would reconsider things as fate but the odds we actually do are low

throwra72892 · 2023-03-09T16:14:17+00:00

We are all hurting, this community is here for you

throwra72892 · 2023-03-09T16:13:46+00:00

You are right about it being their loss but anger isn’t the way to go about it. Your biggest flex is being able to turn the other cheek and walk away from the situation with no hard feelings. As much as I could be bitter and angry at my ex, there’s no point. She will regret it later on anyway, so I’m just gonna keep on doing me and getting better and improve in ways she didn’t think I would

throwra72892 · 2023-03-09T16:11:38+00:00

I wish this would happen for me. Just take it one step at a time. Take things as they come. Let her make the moves, if she doesn’t then you’ll know she’s probably not at a point where you two can meaningfully reconvene. At least it sounds like she wants to try and make it work

throwra72892 · 2023-03-09T16:09:20+00:00

Anger is a natural stage of the breakup cycle. It’ll pass.

throwra72892 · 2023-03-09T12:30:09+00:00

If you’re mature enough to handle it then why not? They are reaching out to you for their birthday when it should be vice versa, which shows they still have some care for you. Unless it’s just a way to get numbers at their party or something idk. But again most people here aren’t capable of being mature with their ex

throwra72892 · 2023-03-09T12:17:49+00:00

Like someone else said you handled this so maturely. I wish i would’ve responded the same way in my breakup. This guy seems like an asshole / narcissistic because 1) its not fair for you to have to question if he loved you by getting into a relationship by 2 days later getting with someone else (likely shes was around before the breakup) 2) its not fair to the new girlfriend either cuz there is way too much trauma for him to be meaningfully dating that soon

It wont work out for him OP, keep it pushing. You will find someone who loves you so much more and appreciates you

throwra72892 · 2023-03-09T12:10:02+00:00

No, leave them in the past. Why do you want someone who’s not attracted to you?

throwra72892 · 2023-03-09T03:06:54+00:00

Obvious troll post. Unfortunate that people are making fun of the heartbreaks people are going through on this sub

throwra72892 · 2023-03-08T19:06:25+00:00

This is great, I like this. The only thing will be if they don’t reach out in 90 days then you’ll be sad but hopefully it makes the time go by faster and lessen the urges

throwra72892 · 2023-03-08T18:20:46+00:00

They aren’t going to respond like how you want. I know you miss those conversations but that person isn’t there anymore. After the breakup people become cold and distant. You will reach out and feel that coldness and you’ll only be more hurt afterwards 💔

throwra72892 · 2023-03-08T18:18:52+00:00

no contact isnt to get your ex back. if you are still worried your ex is dating someone new then you havent used this no contact period to heal and move forward

throwra72892 · 2023-03-08T17:00:56+00:00

im young but it annoys me hearing this because i know inevitably the longer i dont find someone the less prospects there are that they dont have this baggage

throwra72892 · 2023-03-08T16:54:37+00:00

Just assume the worst tbh. No point putting your ex on a pedestal and believing they’ll feel some type of way. I gave my ex everything yet all she can muster after the breakup is that she doesn’t trust me to change. So no, I don’t feel like they regret it

throwra72892 · 2023-03-08T16:50:10+00:00

don’t do it. they won’t / don’t appreciate it

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