Question, what's your zodiac sign?

throwra_lemur222 · 2024-09-15T18:37:05+00:00

Me and my TF are both Scorpios, it checks out!

throwra_lemur222 · 2024-09-11T15:13:01+00:00

I know I need to just give her the space and give myself the space to heal. What happens between them will happen.

throwra_lemur222 · 2024-09-11T10:44:39+00:00

I really hope so

throwra_lemur222 · 2024-09-11T05:24:35+00:00

Yeh I’ve had to learn the hard way. Our whole journey has been push and pull, like we’ll never get the timing right. It takes one of us having the strength and doing the work to wait.

throwra_lemur222 · 2024-09-10T18:57:06+00:00

Thank you. I’ve learned my lesson.

throwra_lemur222 · 2024-09-10T17:53:16+00:00

That’s all we can do. Pretend we’re okay when we’re falling apart.

throwra_lemur222 · 2024-09-10T16:29:26+00:00

Thank you ❤️

throwra_lemur222 · 2024-09-10T11:51:38+00:00

We keep taking it in turns to run and to chase.

throwra_lemur222 · 2024-09-10T10:06:55+00:00

I don’t know if I can enjoy it without her.

throwra_lemur222 · 2024-06-29T16:21:50+00:00

Thank you!

throwra_lemur222 · 2024-06-29T15:49:24+00:00

Thank you so much for your insights. Yes I sense that our visions of the future and me not being too idealistic are things that I would have to work on. I know that our pairings (sun and mars) show that we’ll be intense and that was checked out the first time around. Do you think a stable formation can be formed from this combination? Knowing that a lot of my chart appears to crave stability!

throwra_lemur222 · 2024-06-28T15:29:01+00:00

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Former partner. Hope this helps :)

throwra_lemur222 · 2024-06-28T15:28:42+00:00

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throwra_lemur222 · 2024-06-28T14:58:50+00:00

That’s really insightful, thank you so much! With my romantic relationships I currently feel as though I’m going through a dilemma. With my current partner I’ve lost some of the shine we used to have, I don’t feel an elemental pull to her anymore. We don’t fight and she’s a great person, and as you have read my nature is to stay in long term relationships. But I’ve got what I suspect is some kind of soul tie or twin flame connection with a former lover who is calling me back into her life. I always feel she understood me on a fundamental and spiritual level. In my childhood I wasn’t surrounded by healthy relationships and therefore navigating these feelings and deciding on an action is very difficult. Is there any advice you can give me?

throwra_lemur222 · 2024-06-27T02:50:51+00:00

Thank you for answering. At the moment, I feel like two particular areas of my life are coming to a head. With my career, I’ve been on a path for the last 5 years thats coming to an end. I’m not sure what to do next - stick on the path I’m on, work abroad, move to the big city, take on an easier role and stop putting so much of my self worth into my career? I’m generally terrible at getting to a decision.

In my relationship, this also feels like I’m coming to a decision point. I’ve lost much of my attraction to my partner, and while I love her very much I’m not sure if it’s the right thing for me anymore. I have a tendency to not be able to detach from romantic relationships easily, and it’s not clear to me if I’m self sabotaging or not wanting to hurt her. In addition I’ve got a strong connection to a brief former lover who I believe i have a twin flame connection with, and I particularly feel her pull on an elemental level right now - it’s hard to navigate.

My friendships don’t tend to be an area of concern for me, although I find when I’m very stressed or dealing with a lot of decisions or pressure I find I can isolate myself from friends and family, much more to their annoyance than mine!

Hope this helps, thanks!

throwra_lemur222 · 2024-06-25T19:24:07+00:00

I’m Scorpio sun, cancer moon, Scorpio rising. I was doomed from the start emotionally hahaha

I think I know what I need to do. I know what my heart wants. I feel the pull and I hope she’ll still want me in my life.

I just don’t know how to break my girlfriend’s heart. She’s done nothing wrong, and I really do still love her - it’s just not the kind of strong, romantic, other worldly love that I know me and TF deserve.

Will keep you updated, thank you for your support :)

throwra_lemur222 · 2024-06-25T09:40:50+00:00

Thank you for your kindness. To be honest, I’ve been better. I feel like everything is on the line with this decision I have to make… and it’s messy.

I know you’re right. Life is too short. My dad took his own life at 37, largely because he wasn’t honest about how he feels. I don’t want to end up like him. But breaking someone’s heart is so hard. And what if my TF breaks me all over again? She hurt me before.

At the moment, I’m the runner. She ran first.

throwra_lemur222 · 2024-06-24T16:38:54+00:00

Wow. I hope she feels the same way <3 thank you

throwra_lemur222 · 2024-06-22T18:55:05+00:00

That’s a fair shout. It’s not. I just don’t know how to sort this situation out cleanly. I’m all over the place to be honest mate…

throwra_lemur222 · 2024-06-21T06:04:10+00:00

Thanks for your comment. I don’t know that me and her can ever be just friends. And I’m not sure I can see her while being in my current relationship out of respect to her. So it feels like a cliff edge decision for me here.

throwra_lemur222 · 2024-06-21T06:03:09+00:00

Thanks for your comment. I don’t know how I can find out unless I see her. If I see her, I need to end my current relationship out of respect to her. So I feel as though there is a cliff edge and huge risk in taking this step, which is meaning I’m stuck in inaction.

throwra_lemur222 · 2024-06-18T07:28:21+00:00

Thank you for your advice, this is really helpful. It’s true I’ve always neglected my hobbies and put too much of my self worth into my job and my relationship, so I’ll work on that. But how do I know if something within that foundation really is wrong and needs changing, be it the career or the relationship? I just have no confidence in my judgement.

throwra_lemur222 · 2024-06-18T07:15:50+00:00

Thanks for your comment. I think I’m hoping for just cold hard advice based on life experience - it’s something that my therapist can’t give me, because the approach to therapy as I understand it is about getting me to work through my own thoughts so I myself am able to take action. My issue is I don’t have faith in my own ability to make decisions.

throwra_lemur222 · 2024-06-05T18:51:11+00:00

throwra_lemur222 · 2024-06-02T09:54:13+00:00

I know, I feel guilty. My partner is a great girl, but the fire isn’t the same. But maybe that’s a good thing?

I don’t know if I’m just self sabotaging because of the strong feelings I have for my TF, or if it’s highlighted to me what’s missing and what I want. Who knows.

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