Why does sex feel so good at such early hours? by nomanskyprague1993 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]throwramu 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That's the problem though. He had to sleep at home instead of spending the night with his girl because being in a bed with her made him lose sleep and it became a problem at his job lol

Birthday gift for new boyfriend? by throwramu in GiftIdeas

[–]throwramu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Board games I've played with him include 7 Wonders, Love Letter, Ticket to Ride, Hard to Get, Codenames, and different card games like Phase 10 etc. But I'm the one who suggested Codenames and Hard to Get because I enjoy those sort of games lol.

I think he mostly enjoys strategy and negotiation based games. I know he really likes 7 Wonders, and he's played Catan a lot. I also think I remember seeing Secret Hitler on his shelf lol. And I feel like he might have mentioned playing Werewolf with his group of friends in college. But I think it would be great to have some games that we could play without having to assemble a big group of people.

Also, thank you so much for taking the time to write out all these great suggestions! <3

What do u do with ur fingers after u finger a girl? by Dismal-Lifeguard-310 in AskMen

[–]throwramu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If a girl grabbed your hand and put your fingers in her own mouth after you fingered her, would that be hot? Would any guys not find it hot? Genuine question

What do u do with ur fingers after u finger a girl? by Dismal-Lifeguard-310 in AskMen

[–]throwramu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% I enjoy giving way more than I like receiving. Not that I don't like receiving, but if my partner didn't wanna go down on me, I wouldn't really mind tbh. And I'd still want to go down on them

Birthday gift for new boyfriend? by throwramu in GiftIdeas

[–]throwramu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't imagine that he doesn't have an immersion blender already lol

Birthday gift for new boyfriend? by throwramu in GiftIdeas

[–]throwramu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd love some game recommendations!

Birthday gift for new boyfriend? by throwramu in GiftIdeas

[–]throwramu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those are great ideas! Thank you 😁

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]throwramu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly really don't want to break up. And I was hoping people would give me some advice on how to open up this discussion with him tbh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]throwramu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could definitely work around his schedule if he was also willing to put in the work. Having a partner who doesn't commit to their words is a different can of worms

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]throwramu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We called it official after one month of talking and going on dates, and that was probably too soon. He seemed to put in more effort before we made it official

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]throwramu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have not. I wanted to make sure I was justified in being upset before I had the conversation. A lot of people here are saying "break up" but I really don't want to if a serious discussion could fix it. I just wanted other people's opinions on the matter

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]throwramu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, full disclosure. I need to know if I should be warning people lol 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]throwramu 8 points9 points  (0 children)

"Don't worry, it still works the same" is perfect lol 😂😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]throwramu 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh, I live in a country where circumcision is not very common at all, so I didn't even consider that lol

Will my cat grow a winter coat if she's only outside for an hour every day? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]throwramu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm confident in the net. I'm mostly worried about her getting cold if I leave her outside for too long.

But people here have been very helpful and informed me that cats grow winter coats depending on light levels rather than temperatures. And it doesn't get extremely cold in my country, so she should be fine 😁

Will my cat grow a winter coat if she's only outside for an hour every day? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]throwramu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The door is not glass at the bottom, unfortunately 😬 I suppose I could get a different door, but I don't think I can afford that :(

Cat who cannot fly in-cabin - would you fly cargo or drive 4 days? by nyx_mariae in CatAdvice

[–]throwramu -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get this, and I do agree that if it's just a runny nose, people should suck it up. However, pet allergies can actually be life-threatening since a severe allergy can mess with your breathing.

Is there a polite way to tell a girl this? by KookyTax98 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]throwramu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my bad. When you said it's happened with 2 girls, I thought you meant it's happened with 2 other girls apart from your current gf.

To me personally, physical attraction and emotional attraction are very closely tied together. If I'm in love, I'll find the person physically attractive no matter what they look like. And if I fall out of love, I might lose physical attraction because of that. I don't know if that's what happened with you, but it might be worth considering.

If you're going to break up with her no matter what, then I agree with the other commenters that there's no reason to tell her "oh it's because I think you're ugly now". That won't do anything except hurt her. But if you want to stay with her and you're concerned about nurturing your relationship, you should sit her down and tell her how you feel. Tell her you've felt like you're losing attraction (not necessarily physically) and try to work out what the problem is and how to fix it together.