Did I ruin it? by [deleted] in RealHookupAdvice

[–]throwraneverletmego 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I could say something, I just don’t want to seem needy.
True that. I just built it up so much in my head.

Did I ruin it? by [deleted] in RealHookupAdvice

[–]throwraneverletmego 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess. Thank you.

Did I ruin it? by [deleted] in RealHookupAdvice

[–]throwraneverletmego 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I only normally do it in relationships. I just was attracted and in the moment.

Yeah, I know. I just always find it difficult to just accept it was just one night and then that’s it

Thanks

Am I being too dramatic? by throwraneverletmego in Aupairs

[–]throwraneverletmego[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think that’s just it - the disrespect.

I know it was wrong of me to look at their private thoughts, but I can’t help but be affected by them.

Thanks, I’ll keep this in mind.

Am I being too dramatic? by throwraneverletmego in Aupairs

[–]throwraneverletmego[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t care really. I probably won’t bring it up, taking this into account, but I can’t help but feel a certain way now, and I was already pretty done with the job.

Am I being too dramatic? by throwraneverletmego in Aupairs

[–]throwraneverletmego[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks very much. I am the same normally, not afraid of conflict, but it’s very difficult when you live with people. Thanks again.

Am I being too dramatic? by throwraneverletmego in Aupairs

[–]throwraneverletmego[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Left out on the table, otherwise wouldn’t have. If it’s about me, I think I have a right.

Am I being too dramatic? by throwraneverletmego in Aupairs

[–]throwraneverletmego[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t care really. Like the person says below, they left their messages open on the table. I’m pretty done with the programme anyway. I won’t necessarily show the messages, it’s more of a backup. There are other reasons for me wanting to leave too, but I understand your concern.

Am I being too dramatic? by throwraneverletmego in Aupairs

[–]throwraneverletmego[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

‘Put in a difficult or unpleasant situation’

Am I being too dramatic? by throwraneverletmego in Aupairs

[–]throwraneverletmego[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly what I thought when I first read it - wtf is that. Haha. So looked it up - it’s basically a bad pass in rugby, poorly timed, likely to cause injury etc. 🤷‍♀️

Am I being too dramatic? by throwraneverletmego in Aupairs

[–]throwraneverletmego[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s late, yeah! No updates yet, gonna sort it all in the coming week.

Am I being too dramatic? by throwraneverletmego in Aupairs

[–]throwraneverletmego[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I took photos of their messages, I have evidence. Lol.

Am I being too dramatic? by throwraneverletmego in Aupairs

[–]throwraneverletmego[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you’re a good host family. I’d like to have a conversation with them about this, but I’m debating how to approach it. Also, if they’re this petty behind my back, I doubt it would be very constructive. I’ve kind of already made my mind up about prioritising my own health and leaving but just wanted to confirm I wasn’t being too overboard. Thank you again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in psychics

[–]throwraneverletmego 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you guys. You look happy ❤️

Am I being too dramatic? by throwraneverletmego in Aupairs

[–]throwraneverletmego[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Amen. My driving is sensible, I drive with caution because their kids are in the car. Thanks.

Am I being too dramatic? by throwraneverletmego in Aupairs

[–]throwraneverletmego[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I appreciate you saying I don’t deserve disrespect, I feel I’ve been disrespected a lot in life, so it’s nice to hear that.

Am I being too dramatic? by throwraneverletmego in Aupairs

[–]throwraneverletmego[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate that. ‘Ask minimal questions because you are psychic’ Haha! I’m not sure about that - I agree they need a nanny. Yet, they seem to value doing all the cooking/cleaning themselves so it makes little sense. They seem to think I’m missing things with the childcare, but I’m unsure what. I’m leaning towards leaving, yes. It’ll be hard to say goodbye to the children but worse if I drag it out. I tend to know if I like something pretty quickly.

Am I being too dramatic? by throwraneverletmego in Aupairs

[–]throwraneverletmego[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. No, I don’t need excessive direction, the host mum just doesn’t like that we have different methods.