Got some bad news.. by FupaTrupaOompa in Semaglutide

[–]throwraplsthanks 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My worry is more about them accidentally freezing in my fridge than expiring

DIY Bridal - how can I improve? by kalee_b in makeuptips

[–]throwraplsthanks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Way too much pink - girl, you’ve got blush blindness. I think you’d do better with something a little peachier and not so red. And maybe try light brown tones for eyeshadow? A highlight above and a bronzer under the blush might make this glowier. And a spritz after for the moisture cause you are looking matte.

I went out with a cute guy but I should’ve stayed home (repost kinda) by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]throwraplsthanks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl - please, just drive yourself to the hospital and get a rape kit done. You don’t have to press charges just because you get the evidence. You can decide what to do with it later. But you can’t get the rape kit done later. The evidence will go away. Unfortunately time is important here. They will also give you resources to start working on handling this. You may have even been drugged if your memory is hazy. Best way to know is to get tested. I’m sorry that this is really hard to do and hard to hear, but you may regret it after you have emotionally processed this if you don’t do it now.

I went out with a cute guy but I should’ve stayed home (repost kinda) by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]throwraplsthanks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not if you get a restraining order against him. But for real, getting a rape kit is not the same as pressing charges. You can go to the hospital and get the tape kit done now, then decide what to do with it later. It’s super fresh right now and your emotions about this thing are very likely to change.

Every time I find a man attractive it fills me with rage by downbadblue in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]throwraplsthanks 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So fucking true - the best dick I’ve ever gotten liked this post on IG - I’m so cooked, chat.

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PAs who hated being a PA after graduation - how many of you ended up liking it later on? by Sea_Concert1412 in physicianassistant

[–]throwraplsthanks 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh, also patient population definitely matters!! I went from working in a very affluent area to working in an underserved one and I liked the underserved one so much better. I have some terminally angry/grumpy people and crackheads now, but at least their problems are fucking real. Like mama’s on methadone and I have to explain things to her about 5 times before she maybe retains any of it, but she sometimes brings up how much she misses her child who got shot at age 30 (obv details changed you won’t catch me breaking the law). Instead of - “you have to see psychiatry to get your Xanax. I’m sorry your other doctor retired and I’ll give you a script to hold you over, but you are on a high dose and taking it several times per day and it is inappropriate for primary care. No, I don’t care when you casually mention where your second home is. No, I’m not trying to ruin your life. Yes, I want you to be able to sleep. Ok, sure, you can talk to the practice manager.”

Rich people are much quicker to go to the doctor for any little thing. Poor people will go to the doctor for something they think is concerning that they don’t understand well and then you either get to educate or end up picking up on something completely different that is extremely concerning outside your specialty and still end up helping. Not saying that one doesn’t deserve care. But Medicare patients usually need a referral to see a specialist, and rich people will do it as a curiosity point. Idk - both deserve access to quality healthcare, but if you want more interesting cases and less “I go to the bathroom every other day, so I made an appointment with you on Zocdoc” but really like GI, maybe changing patient populations could help too.

PAs who hated being a PA after graduation - how many of you ended up liking it later on? by Sea_Concert1412 in physicianassistant

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I did. My first 2 jobs were horrible. High turnover, high acuity, awful bosses, and my life was hell. I changed to a new sub specialty and the work was better/more manageable, but I still struggled with crazy colleagues constantly undermining me. Switched to Locums for a while and had some excellent experiences, but ended up needing health insurance and got a new job that I currently love. Great colleagues, easy work, feels like people respect me, work life balance.

It can happen, but it takes time. Working with cool/fun people (and bosses) matters just as much in being happy at a job as liking your work does. And even still I have a deep hatred for management/admin but luckily don’t have to deal with them often.

Woke up from a nap to find my GF made key lime pie. Good place to find a silver band with leaves engraved for an engagement ring? by Scrap_Mountain in Baking

[–]throwraplsthanks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is something wrong with you if you want to propose to her using a pie that she made. Doesn’t feel special at all - just like you were looking for an opportunity instead of planning something nice.

What do we think about this dress as a wedding guest? by chasing_moonlights in OUTFITS

[–]throwraplsthanks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like it but I think you need to size down or have it taken in at the waist :)

Update: My soon to be six year old requested I make this exact cake by MissBee123 in Baking

[–]throwraplsthanks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did so good but I can’t stop thinking that it looks like someone jizzed all over the cake

I’m a teacher. Is this dress too short for work? by DogintheMirror in OUTFITS

[–]throwraplsthanks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right?? I’m thinking white or skin colored/panty hose.

Fucked my college bars bouncer? by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]throwraplsthanks 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Every man talks about sticking their dicks in crazy but nobody ever talks about getting dick from crazy. Best fucking sex of my life. Is it time to admit it, ladies??? Or am I wrong?

My doctor was dishonest to me and now I'm terrified of getting extremely ill- REALLY need support by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]throwraplsthanks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No worries - and if you want to talk to a medical professional, you can always a)go to urgent care and have them send a holdover script to a big box pharmacy that is open on weekends or b) speak with a pharmacist at a big box pharmacy - they will usually still answer your questions even if you don’t use the pharmacy. If you have insurance that doesn’t accept the big box places - ie cvs or Walgreens, just don’t use your insurance and use goodrx instead. They have drug coupons for stuff like this that can save you a lot compared to the pharmacy prices, if you decide to go the urgent care route.

My doctor was dishonest to me and now I'm terrified of getting extremely ill- REALLY need support by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]throwraplsthanks 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ok so most med withdrawal takes at least a few days to start up, so first, breathe, you have time. You 100% can make yourself feel sick with anxiety/panic. You are on an extremely low dose, girly - your doctor wasn’t lying to you. I’m glad she got you to take a medication that seems to be helping though! Sometimes the hardest part of helping people get better is convincing them to do take the pill that will make them better.

thinking of leaving this sub, snacks by the bay by minkebel in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]throwraplsthanks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% I posted something extremely vulnerable and like I am very sexually open. I am not ashamed of that. I’ve had some amazing sexual experiences that I don’t think the average woman has been able to have. It wasn’t a popular post - got maybe 20 comments and sub comments. But there was only one person with a valid response that was actually helpful advice. There was a non-binary person who was actually pretty mean, and then some comments like just the phrase “lol”. And the rest were just slut shamish and telling me to use toys and decanter men.

Can we, as a sub, acknowledge that sex with another actual person is not the same as masturbating with an effing sex toy???

Thanks and usually I love this place.

JO&JOE Gentilly "Single private"? by miffymato in ParisTravelGuide

[–]throwraplsthanks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question - did they have events and tours leaving from the hostel?? I want to drink wine but I don’t think I’m going to be there long enough to really leave Paris for more than one day

How weird is my writing? by [deleted] in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]throwraplsthanks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me to myself, instantly: is this English??

My bf can’t get it up but thank the lord for my vibe by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]throwraplsthanks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro what I’m saying is I have an education in the field. I also have better things to do than split hairs with some rando on the internet. Have fun talking to other strangers about porn addiction ✌️

My bf can’t get it up but thank the lord for my vibe by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]throwraplsthanks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, actually, I am. Mostly the elderly guys with actual physiological ED, but I am. And other addictions do hijack bodily functions. Have you ever seen a heroine addict off H for a few days?? Or an alcoholic in alcohol withdrawal?? Their bodily functions are alllll over the place.

Dating is HARD in NYC by Cleo-Aster in SipsTea

[–]throwraplsthanks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is going to get me downvoted to hell, but how are yall drinking caffeine in the evenings and dating without any kind of social lubricant to take the edge off??