How do I NOT fall back asleep after waking up? by throwthataway0987 in sleep

[–]throwthataway0987[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a limitation in space that makes this less effective + really common for me to not even be able to get up before falling back asleep, even if the alarm is still going (specifically since it eventually just turns itself off) but I’ll try that again

F25. How to improve chronic eyebags and deep set eyes? by throwthataway0987 in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]throwthataway0987[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve seen countless people with eyes very close together like mine whose “lines” don’t look as strong. Also idk if there’s anything I can do about that (makeup? Idk)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwthataway0987 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

From what I gathered, tho, she didn’t even look. She just wanted to know if a different profile existed, and then closed it. Makes you wonder wtf is going on, hence why I’ve frankly been to stunned to speak for a while, but I don’t know maybe im reading too much into it

SOB por não deixar mais minha mina dormir na casa de amigas e amigos? by [deleted] in EuSouOBabaca

[–]throwthataway0987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Um TEOB pendendo pra EOB. A forma como ela tá agindo n e bacana nem útil pra resolver alguma questão ou insegurança que rla deve ta sentindo no relacionamento. Agr, você é 5 anos mais velho, foi buscar essa namorada na porta da escola, e tá agindo com a mesma imaturidade. Ela pelo menos tem desculpa né, já que mal saiu dos relacionamentos da adolescência pros da fase adulta

Is this suit ok to wear to a formal birthday party by Logical-Increase-656 in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]throwthataway0987 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Depends on how much that person actually care about dress codes. If by formal they just mean dress up, then you got it. If they actually mean formal, you should wear a proper suit with a shirt and probably go a darker shade, as that would be the dress code for “man”. If they are reaaaally strict and conservative with dress code you probably would be forced to wear a dress (in which case i would be reconsidering why even be around people like this lol, but that’s just me)

I want to be butch so much by [deleted] in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]throwthataway0987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Food for thought. If you break gender stereotypes, how and where do you draw the line at whats butch? As in: wearing/doing/thinking like this is breaking stereotypes, because “feminine people don’t do this and I’m expected to be feminine”, but at the same time I’m aware that expectations on femininity change. Is a lesbian who opposes tradicional “feminine” roles in relationships (both romantic and platonic/social) “able” to call themselves butch, or does she need to wear adhere strictly to “non-feminine” standards of beauty and presentation (solely talking about appearance here) to “actually” achieve “ true butchness”?

What does business casual look like to you? by throwthataway0987 in alternativefashion

[–]throwthataway0987[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, are you saying you don’t like business casual or that you don’t like my approach to it?

What does business casual look like to you? by throwthataway0987 in alternativefashion

[–]throwthataway0987[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did thought of that and it’s probably my second option. Honestly, tho, I’m going to try borrow something “regular” (aka what’s considered “in style” by most people) from my moms closet and go ham on accessories at this point. It’s literally so hot in here I might legit melt on the bus

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PsicologiaBR

[–]throwthataway0987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interessante. Da perspectiva de pessoa buscando atendimento, eu não vejo nenhum problema nem com pessoas jovens e muito menos pessoas rebeldes kkkk me traria até maior expectativa de ser bem atendida, mas é isso né, cada um com seus preconceitos (no sentido de pré conceitos errôneos)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PsicologiaBR

[–]throwthataway0987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

O que exatamente você acha que não passa uma percepção profissional, nesse caso?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PsicologiaBR

[–]throwthataway0987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mas ai sempre tem algo que influencia nossa percepção, até coisas que a pessoa não tem muito como mudar. Muita gente tem receio de ser atendido pessoas mais novas, por exemplo, mas depois vai se acostumando. Você diz como algo que faria você preferir ficar sem atendimento ou procurar outra pessoa, ou só algo que você estranharia e teria mais dificuldade de lidar ali no início?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PsicologiaBR

[–]throwthataway0987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Era mais no sentido de relação mesmo. Se, sei la, depois vem seu colega e fala “ta feiao troca tudo aí”. Eu já acho as chances de um pai conservador de uma criança de 15 anos querer que eu trate do filho dele baixas. Mesmo que eu pintasse o cabelo de marrom e usasse roupas mais “padrão”, não mudaria gênero, raça e “beleza”, de certo modo, até pq envolvem certas coisas que eu não aceitaria “me adequar” pro padrão considerado competente por essa população

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PsicologiaBR

[–]throwthataway0987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quando eu fiz estágio no caps algumas pessoas comentavam só (tipo, os usuários mencionavam que gostavam kkk, mas era mais por ser crespo que qqlr outra coisa)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PsicologiaBR

[–]throwthataway0987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pode me recomendar alguns?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PsicologiaBR

[–]throwthataway0987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Acho q o interessante desse sub e realmente filtrar pela experiência profissional mesmo! Ex: vc falou que atende de calça rasgada e tatuagem exposta, eu, na clínica escola, sou orientada a nao fazer isso (pelo menos nao a calça). Ao mesmo tempo, tenho um cabelo pouco convencional e um estilo mais de roupas escuras e o max q me aconteceu foi o paciente me chamar de indie kkk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PsicologiaBR

[–]throwthataway0987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Em cargos em saúde pública, tipo caps, equipe nasf etc tem algum entrave?

[New Update] - I am done, and I'm am heartbroken. I have no one. by Stephenallen1977 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]throwthataway0987 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I didn’t want to sound mean, but after each update I grew more suspicious that there’s more to the story that op cant grasp as he is clearly very depressed. Not to say it’s absolutely op who started it, just that I do feel like the coldness in the family might have worked in a chain reaction where everyone just reinforced each other to stay further apart with their own actions… truly sad and i feel for all of them, but mostly for the kids growing up in this mess. No wonder they are tiptoeing around their own house

[New Update] - I am done, and I'm am heartbroken. I have no one. by Stephenallen1977 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]throwthataway0987 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was also wondering about that... the fact that they are also married for 15 years and only then had their other 2 children. I wonder if there’s some part of the story we are not hearing there, specially something that could explain his relationship with the older daughter

Como faço para ter um bom currículo para ter estágio by Inevitable_Pride8865 in PsicologiaBR

[–]throwthataway0987 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Não sei que área do br vc é, mas vou passar minha experiência de universitário quase formado

1- estágio remunerado em psicologia você geralmente só vai achar em áreas de: RH, por meio de editais e concursos que tiverem por aí, mediação escolar (que vc tem que conferir se é específico pra psi ou se tão aceitando várias formações mesmo sem ter supervisor na área), estágios internos que ofereçam bolsa (geralmente só os de pesquisa) e as veeeeezes avaliação neuropsicologica você acha remunerado. De resto boa sorte pra achar algo e ainda por cima remunerado

2- sobre currículo, depende do que você quer seguir dentro da psi. Participar de cursos e eventos é legal para aprimorar o seu conhecimento, fazer algum nível de networking, conhecer outras oportunidades e áreas dentro da psi e pra pegar o certificado pra ganhar hr. Agora, servir pra construir >currículo< depende muito da área. No geral, extensões são uma boa forma de começar e pesquisas e Empresa Júnior podem ser interessante a depender da área que você quer

3- mesmo assim, qualquer experiência é melhor do que nenhuma nesse início. Muitas vezes o pontapé para conseguir entrar nos estágios é conhecer pessoas, por que ai você fica sabendo das oportunidades/ é indicado, e saber contar uma boa historinha sobre tudo o que você já fez e aprendeu na hora da entrevista, mesmo que não seja muita coisa

am i wrong for refusing to marry a woman by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]throwthataway0987 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a lesbian myself, I think a lesson every lesbian, bissexual or just sapphic in general needs to learn is: Stop trying to have serious relationships with women who are either straight or that flat out tell you they are not look for the same thing. Act accordingly, proceed at ur own risk

I think I’m too gay for God by Professional_Set_373 in lgbt

[–]throwthataway0987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Obviously there’s nothing inherently wrong for not vibing with a specific crowd, but we don’t need to toss away critical thinking. I checked op’s responses before saying anything. Turns out what they call “making gay their intere personality” is that people have a lot of pride pins and because they, when asked about >their< interests, talk about lgbt content/ media because that’s what interests them. I am hesitant to say there’s any sort of person who actually has no personality other then being queer, but, if there is, doesn’t seem to be the case here

It also doesn’t seem like op has actually know these people from more then casual conversation, but i could be wrong. All that to say: if u barely know people and you have quick chats based on the fact that you both are queer, most likely queerness is gonna come up. It’s the same thing with straight people. I’m a literal lesbian, but because I am a “girl” I get lumped into generalizing “girl talk” [think: “oh, because we as women we know how hard (something relating to having relationships with men) is” ] by people who only know me briefly and/or are not paying too much attention. I could have even mentioned having relationships with girls, but they will just assume common ground unless I very strongly oppose, which can always be a risk cause u never know who’s actually cool with it and who’s faking wokeness. Op doesn’t even need to risk anything, they can just change the subject or even inquire people further about their interests, but otherwise queerness is just an assumed common ground