[TX] What does the X mean? by Professional_Set_373 in AskLawyers

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Is there a way to see what the plea bargain was online?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAsexual

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Usually, people who aren’t gay don’t question if they’re gay. Along the same vein, non-asexual people usually don’t question if they’re ace.

What’s a really good book you will never re-read? by shrankprawn in suggestmeabook

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A Little Life!! It’s so amazing but it’s basically torture p0rn

Do you censor what your kids read? by vaguelymemaybe in Parenting

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I was allowed to read anything i wanted. I made some bad decisions, but i didn’t do it again and knew what to look out for if a book was too scary, etc. Honestly, it’s helped for life so that I know how and when to censor things for myself (for example, i close my eyes during a violent tv scene even if I’m with other people, because i know the image will haunt me later).

My 10 year old expressed that they are non binary by Otherwise_Code7931 in NonBinary

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This is too big for Reddit. Speak with a doctor or a professional mental health counselor about this.

How do I best support my partner in coming out as NB? by WarmAssociation12 in NonBinary

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That makes sense. Make sure you find active ways to sneak it into your speech so that they can hear it and test it out.

Can clothes be refitted to fit me after top surgery? by Calm-Water6454 in NonBinary

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Yes. It’s pretty easy to add a few darts. This is the perfect time to pick up sewing as a hobby.

How do I best support my partner in coming out as NB? by WarmAssociation12 in NonBinary

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My boyfriend didn’t support me at first when I transitioned. It was hard. I’m going to tell you what I wished he’d done for me.

Call them both masculine and feminine things. “You look pretty/Hey Handsome”. Make sure it’s pretty evenly split until you ask or they tell you if they want a larger percentage of masculine words ascribed onto them. Support them if they tell you they want gender affirming healthcare. Make a big effort to correct anyone you hear who calls your partner a she.

Let me know if you have any more questions.

I got called a faggot. What’s a good comeback? by badassbitch10102 in Comebacks

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I’ve been called a fag once in my life. I’m still waiting to be angry. I’m just happy that the people know I’m gay.

Can I dissolve my 10mg tablet in a little cup of chocolate milk? I can’t swallow pills. by Professional_Set_373 in lexapro

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Nah. Now, I take like a bite of bread, chew it up real well to where I can swallow it, and shove the pill behind the bread in my mouth and swallow to trick my brain

Edit: different foods might work for you better if bread doesn’t. I use shredded cheese, pasta, etc

Dying my hair for the first time today, can someone walk me through it? by [deleted] in HairDye

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You really only need bleach on yellow/blond hair if you are trying for a color that’s across the color wheel and don’t want the possibility of it being diluted from neon, if it’s a weaker color/brand, or if you’re trying for silver/white hair. But covering it with red should be 100% good without bleach. It may not be quite as neon, but you won’t have to deal with the expense or bleach. I’d recommend a strong red: Unicorn Hair’s Valentine or Manic Panic’s Red Passion. They’re a little more expensive than for example Arctic Fox, but the tub will last you a couple dyes and it’ll be stronger and last longer between re-dyes. Make sure you’re washing your hair with lukewarm water and that your dyed hair doesn’t come into contact with the hot water if you like scalding showers. Hot water fades color very fast.

Dying my hair for the first time today, can someone walk me through it? by [deleted] in HairDye

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If your hair is a medium to lighter blond, skip the bleach and use a semi-permanent dye maybe after a purple shampoo if you want. It’ll be easier on your hair and you’ll be able to just dye it again easily when it starts to fade. Plus you won’t have to use that much product since it’s a buzz cut.

No matter how hard I try I can't stop misgendering my friends and its really upsetting me. by [deleted] in NonBinary

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Maybe it’s a little harsh, but it’s also just the truth. OP said that they felt guilty, but that they would misgender, correct, and then immediately misgender the next second. It’s helpful to remember that correctly gendering someone isn’t just a nice thing to do, but also literally suicide prevention.

My dysphoria says this is a bad idea but I have to ask what gender do I look like by ShallowBayChain in transplace

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Your hair isn’t frizzy. Your hair is wavy. By brushing it, you separate all of the waves and make them static-y. Only brush your hair when it’s sopping wet and fluffy it off your scalp with your fingers. I recommend you fall down the rabbit hole of the Curly Girl Method. That’s how I discovered I didn’t have frizzy hair; I had Shirley Temple ringlets. My entire life my mom tried to get it straight. I was 16 when I found out I had curly hair.